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redgreenandblue

(2,088 posts)
346. Cali I have to say....
Thu May 16, 2013, 07:19 AM
May 2013
...after this post and the story you posted about how you dated a drug dealer / boxer you officially have me thinking that you OWN.

Cold Truth, Ma'm The Magistrate May 2013 #1
not even remotely the 'cold truth', sir. cali May 2013 #288
Not Worth Arguing About, Ma'am: Those Who See Will See, Those Who Will Not Will Not The Magistrate May 2013 #290
"Not Worth Arguing About, Ma'am" redqueen May 2013 #296
An Old Campaigner, Ma'am The Magistrate May 2013 #301
stares... stklurker May 2013 #2
Please do so to women who are accompanied by large, strong-looking men. redqueen May 2013 #3
because those men are the ones you value? how pre-historicly caveman galileoreloaded May 2013 #4
... redqueen May 2013 #11
lmfao.. ya. i just typed a whole post on that swooosh, then deleted. why bother. so funny. nt seabeyond May 2013 #13
nah, i got it pretty clear, ergo my post. galileoreloaded May 2013 #34
Don't bother...not worth the effort Roland99 May 2013 #102
No, she suggested he should try it BainsBane May 2013 #147
Cat call != stare. AtheistCrusader May 2013 #160
There is a difference between looking and staring BainsBane May 2013 #168
Absolutely. AtheistCrusader May 2013 #174
I just got home from shopping. Starry Messenger May 2013 #210
I agree. AtheistCrusader May 2013 #215
i find hypocritical views on gender endlessly fascinating because I don't see it. galileoreloaded May 2013 #173
Now you're back to not seeing gender? BainsBane May 2013 #175
reading comprehension galileoreloaded May 2013 #176
Yes,.no one can comprehend your secret code BainsBane May 2013 #183
What little there is of it! chervilant May 2013 #322
Twist & distort & ignore intentions lark May 2013 #196
Well I don't know if you live in flyover country, but in New York, closeupready May 2013 #204
im what women call "attractive", outspoken, and have no fear of judgement.. galileoreloaded May 2013 #205
cool story, bro redqueen May 2013 #221
Not getting it. lark May 2013 #419
Do you really not get that post? chervilant May 2013 #321
ah yes, the "freeze" zazen May 2013 #353
Excellent post. redqueen May 2013 #355
why are you stereotyping large, strong-looking men? datasuspect May 2013 #30
It doesn't matter if they are or not. People naturally don't act so disrespectfully towards them redqueen May 2013 #35
that's a very sexist characterization datasuspect May 2013 #42
that behavior is sexist, yes BainsBane May 2013 #151
You have to wonder if it's intentional? sufrommich May 2013 #70
Good point. nt redqueen May 2013 #75
After claiming they don't see gender BainsBane May 2013 #154
i dated a woman who communicated like you once. galileoreloaded May 2013 #182
Please BainsBane May 2013 #184
but i'm large and strong looking!!! seems all the rage down here. nt galileoreloaded May 2013 #191
go back and reread my post BainsBane May 2013 #193
Ah. Rational boy and emotional woman... Democracyinkind May 2013 #440
Definitely or hootinholler May 2013 #188
You cannot stop people from staring question everything May 2013 #62
You are actually defending rude behavior. Wow. nt redqueen May 2013 #68
no...it's human nature Roland99 May 2013 #104
it's still rude to stare ... we are capable of overcoming our "human nature" Scout May 2013 #113
depends on the situation doesn't it? Roland99 May 2013 #116
... and we can OVERCOME the base nature Scout May 2013 #396
Exactly get the red out May 2013 #213
Of course, you can stop staring wryter2000 May 2013 #406
Using perceived ownership of the women by big strong-looking men as defense of your point is odd. lumberjack_jeff May 2013 #125
You would be surprised at how rare that is in America LittleBlue May 2013 #140
I notice none of the usual suspects are addressing post 7. redqueen May 2013 #150
I will address it if you want LittleBlue May 2013 #153
I would be delighted. redqueen May 2013 #159
Ah, I see what you mean LittleBlue May 2013 #189
If it's absent minded that's one thing. redqueen May 2013 #195
How do you discern if it is absent minded since we can't read minds adigal May 2013 #267
This isn't about a court proceeding. Even if you don't get caught, you should feel like an asshole redqueen May 2013 #271
I think some people want to be stared at, and I do agree with you adigal May 2013 #278
You present yet another rdiculous example. Why? redqueen May 2013 #282
at·trac·tive /əˈtraktiv/ Adjective (of a person) Appealing to look at; sexually alluring: lumberjack_jeff May 2013 #226
In fact, please stare at every big, strong looking man who attracts any attention from you. redqueen May 2013 #7
What am I supposed to say? LittleBlue May 2013 #156
A 'stare' is in the eye of the beholder. AtheistCrusader May 2013 #170
Ah, the legendary Post #7. Here it is! Warren DeMontague May 2013 #316
I am a big boy and am thus able to control whether I stare at something or not. (nt) Posteritatis May 2013 #265
I respectfully disagree. Body glitter on cleavage invites looks NightWatcher May 2013 #5
Staring is disrespectful. This is a fact. redqueen May 2013 #14
Sorry, I simply cannot agree leftynyc May 2013 #32
Well then an extra special thank you to you and everyone else redqueen May 2013 #41
Like you did with my post? pintobean May 2013 #51
If a woman wears clothing in public that expose practically all of her bare breasts, lumpy May 2013 #67
It doesn't matter leftynyc May 2013 #73
But the OP wasn't about touching, was it? adigal May 2013 #270
like the big strong men you seem to ogle? galileoreloaded May 2013 #49
Who made you the arbiter of this?? cliffordu May 2013 #425
Define staring? 30 seconds? 10 seconds? n-t Logical May 2013 #430
Link to what the OP is apparently about. pintobean May 2013 #6
Profiles can lie. randome May 2013 #10
Okay, I just double checked pintobean May 2013 #20
lol woolldog May 2013 #55
you had to check.... keroro gunsou May 2013 #354
What about someone wearing something like this? woolldog May 2013 #8
OK, that pic on the right? That's inviting stares. siligut May 2013 #45
Celebrities on the red carpet posing for pictures are SO FUCKING OBVIOUSLY not the subject of the OP redqueen May 2013 #56
I understand and agree with your OP redqueen siligut May 2013 #88
I figured... redqueen May 2013 #95
Wise choice siligut May 2013 #99
The language in your OP woolldog May 2013 #146
What about how these ordinary people are dressed, then... pacalo May 2013 #332
heh woolldog May 2013 #152
Bet the shoe make your toes go numb Half-Century Man May 2013 #134
So men should only speak when spoken to? randome May 2013 #9
yes appropriate behavior for setting would be appropriate behavior Warren Stupidity May 2013 #38
And saying "hello" is not a pickup line. Bonobo May 2013 #338
So it is a pick up line. Warren Stupidity May 2013 #344
No, it's a greeting. Bonobo May 2013 #345
Have you ever considered how annoying it might be to be accosted by strangers Warren Stupidity May 2013 #347
She can talk or not talk. Bonobo May 2013 #351
Some people on this board who fancy themselves smart closeupready May 2013 #360
I think you kinda nailed it. Bonobo May 2013 #362
Equally messed up that 60 people have recced this thread. closeupready May 2013 #365
For 367 replies, 60 is not much. nt Bonobo May 2013 #368
While true in a relative sense, are there really closeupready May 2013 #389
LOL, just now I realized, that T-Mobile Frankenstein commercial! closeupready May 2013 #416
This message was self-deleted by its author seaglass May 2013 #386
You know what's truly revealing, to me... redqueen May 2013 #390
Yes, it is strange. Because even if a poster understands this issue, there is no reason Zorra May 2013 #431
I do hope that with every outburst of tantrums redqueen May 2013 #437
Way more defensiveness (on their part, not yours) than necessary. nomorenomore08 May 2013 #433
Who we are pintobean May 2013 #434
Maybe you're right. I don't know. nomorenomore08 May 2013 #435
See my response to her. Tl:dr version is, context is appropriate, Dash87 May 2013 #383
I personally don't see any harm in "hello." Dash87 May 2013 #380
Did you read the 'Can I buy you a cup of coffee' blog post? redqueen May 2013 #388
No I grew up in the 70's with a lot of great radical women. Warren Stupidity May 2013 #395
"It really isn't rocket science." redqueen May 2013 #402
Okay, I'll confess, I'm not clear on this. Dr. Strange May 2013 #12
Oh for fuck's sake. redqueen May 2013 #18
Then stop instigating the game with transparent crap OP'S like this one. cliffordu May 2013 #436
I'm totally staring at you right now. Orrex May 2013 #234
Well, in that case... Dr. Strange May 2013 #241
This post is so full of funny I can't breathe. I'm dying here... Inkfreak May 2013 #279
HAHAHAHAHAHAH..... Nay May 2013 #392
I really don't understand how this isn't clear. Dash87 May 2013 #15
Look at this thread full of men tying themselves in knots redqueen May 2013 #19
sorry, it ain't just men. your op was a silly generalization full of self-righteous shit cali May 2013 #294
Read more. nt redqueen May 2013 #297
Be offensive and condescending less. nt EOTE May 2013 #361
LOL! Oh, the irony. nt redqueen May 2013 #363
I know, right? EOTE May 2013 #371
Back to your insult and attack routine, I see. redqueen May 2013 #372
And nearly every issue brings out your tried and true insult and attack routine. EOTE May 2013 #373
Cali I have to say.... redgreenandblue May 2013 #346
^^^this^^^ Puzzledtraveller May 2013 #397
Ignoring, chervilant May 2013 #325
I've been on this site a long ass time Blue_Tires May 2013 #59
I'm not sure I agree with this. As a disclaimer, closeupready May 2013 #16
I disagree completely. nt redqueen May 2013 #22
I don't get it. Sexuality is an essential part of the human psychology closeupready May 2013 #25
This is about respect. NOT sexuality. redqueen May 2013 #27
Yeah, fuck biology. Dawgs May 2013 #37
"Biology" is not an excuse to harass or bother women because of how they are dressed. (n/t) MadrasT May 2013 #112
Being an asshole is a choice, not biology. geek tragedy May 2013 #223
then why do you insist on continually playing it? Roland99 May 2013 #107
Some people, I think, know how to relate only antagonistically with others. closeupready May 2013 #139
well you started the stupid game and you play it quite a bit here. little late to demur. cali May 2013 #295
Read more. I suggest you at least read post 282. redqueen May 2013 #299
Who defines "immodestly"? Gormy Cuss May 2013 #71
Some people DO think a short skirt is immodest; thus, for THEM, closeupready May 2013 #85
What I meant was, are those who think it's immodest encouraged to make comments to the wearer? Gormy Cuss May 2013 #105
People who think a short skirt is immodest should shut the fuck up geek tragedy May 2013 #138
You are wrong, and always will be. closeupready May 2013 #145
Nope. Unwelcome commentary to strangers based on their clothing geek tragedy May 2013 #149
Yep, wrong as the day is long. closeupready May 2013 #163
I disagree with you and the Saudi Virtue Police and the creeps geek tragedy May 2013 #177
It's a free country. Enjoy the freedom to be wrong. closeupready May 2013 #201
People who object to street harassment are not the ones who are wrong. geek tragedy May 2013 #202
If at some point you want to get back to the topic in the OP, closeupready May 2013 #208
I have been talking about the topic. geek tragedy May 2013 #214
No, you're talking about Saudi Arabia and burkas. Meanwhile, closeupready May 2013 #220
Yes, the topic is whether women who dress 'immodestly' are inviting geek tragedy May 2013 #222
You're going to get bored talking to yourself. closeupready May 2013 #225
I'll have a better time than the person to whom geek tragedy May 2013 #228
You still here? closeupready May 2013 #232
Actually, that's what GT has been telling you jberryhill May 2013 #370
Whatever. This discussion is so yesterday. closeupready May 2013 #387
"if you are dressed immodestly" geek tragedy May 2013 #121
FYI, "immodest" IS - in fact - a real word. closeupready May 2013 #135
Yes, and it has an entirely subjective meaning. nt geek tragedy May 2013 #136
Not entirely, no. closeupready May 2013 #143
Why do so many men EC May 2013 #17
It's all the people who don't call it out. redqueen May 2013 #21
I guess they'd rather hide the women than conform their behavior Lex May 2013 #23
Disagree. Dawgs May 2013 #24
Oh, you've asked them all? redqueen May 2013 #26
Anyone with half a brain knows that most people like to look nice and get compliments for it. Dawgs May 2013 #33
i wonder if it's just insecurity run rampant. its fascinating. nt galileoreloaded May 2013 #54
Considering the number of choices to be had in clothing, Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #57
You are seriously ... "stare, whistle, hit on me" redqueen May 2013 #61
You don't think some women dress for just that effect? Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #69
Sure, *some* do. redqueen May 2013 #72
No, I don't... Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #89
That's the point. You don't know, so don't assume. redqueen May 2013 #98
Ah, so now we're talking the workplace. Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #108
No, I simply used it as an example of a situation where women were routinely sexually harassed, redqueen May 2013 #115
Perhaps because Scandinavian countries have fewer problems with sexual repression... Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #130
Seabeyond's_cartoon.jpg Dash87 May 2013 #36
Post removed Post removed May 2013 #40
I'm part of HoF ismnotwasm May 2013 #66
Amazing how some just can't help themselves. nt geek tragedy May 2013 #180
some of us EC May 2013 #77
Fine. But I'm sure you don't mind getting a compliment if something thinks you look nice. n/t Dawgs May 2013 #84
? EC May 2013 #86
Pretending that sexual harassment is okay is what' stupid. nt geek tragedy May 2013 #123
where on this site are posters still not clear on this? Blue_Tires May 2013 #28
Are you joking? redqueen May 2013 #31
Yes. The other responses pretty much agree with me. n/t Dawgs May 2013 #39
Somewhere there is a horse, and it is screaming... cherokeeprogressive May 2013 #53
you mean the thread by boston bean? Blue_Tires May 2013 #64
I thouught the OP made it clear that I'm talkong about harassment. redqueen May 2013 #83
I like to say it with Pink. Zorra May 2013 #29
I almost wish I hadn't posted this. redqueen May 2013 #46
We wish it had not been posted as well. cherokeeprogressive May 2013 #58
Almost The2ndWheel May 2013 #76
No. I WANT people to stop making excuses for harassment. redqueen May 2013 #80
shit, i want a million dollars datasuspect May 2013 #93
If everyone responding just said "yes, I agree" The2ndWheel May 2013 #101
you sound a little Fed Up snooper2 May 2013 #129
That's what the "trash this thread" button is for. pacalo May 2013 #335
Cheer up! You could just look at this thread as a safe outlet for some people to safely let out Zorra May 2013 #81
why would you "almost" wish that? datasuspect May 2013 #90
Yeah, I'm with you on that. NaturalHigh May 2013 #381
Never heard this song before Half-Century Man May 2013 #167
No, not just a song at all. Men usually buy me drinks in bars because they want me Zorra May 2013 #268
If you wrote that song Ms. Zorra Half-Century Man May 2013 #275
That's one beauty of art, people often have different interpretations of a work of art. Zorra May 2013 #281
Everyone has a musical talent Half-Century Man May 2013 #302
No. Fucking. Shit. cherokeeprogressive May 2013 #43
[View All] Dash87 May 2013 #44
Really? redqueen May 2013 #50
+100! n/t zappaman May 2013 #87
This woman, because of how she is dressed, is inviting people to ask her for bus fare. Electric Monk May 2013 #47
Jerry Seinfeld: "Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun." Nye Bevan May 2013 #48
Common sense, from "Seinfeld" of all places... nomorenomore08 May 2013 #256
Woot! Right on! polly7 May 2013 #52
Those breasts are patriarchy! msanthrope May 2013 #74
From the comments at your link: RC May 2013 #96
lolwut redqueen May 2013 #106
Does that also apply to the OP? pacalo May 2013 #336
No. And since some seem to need an explanation for this, too, I will explain. redqueen May 2013 #385
I see a lot of these tactless, demanding OPs, then only when the author gets negative feedback pacalo May 2013 #421
"The fact that I don't get cheesy cat-calls is the result of dressing appropriately & my attitude." redqueen May 2013 #422
"Some just want to argue." pacalo May 2013 #427
Did you really mean to post that? That's quite funny, but not msanthrope May 2013 #349
There's that irony again. EOTE May 2013 #376
whether or not they're "inviting" anything, clothes communicate, clothes make a statement. unblock May 2013 #60
I wish I could recommend your reply. Thank you for it. uppityperson May 2013 #78
You obviously know exactly what I mean. redqueen May 2013 #92
hey, if you've never seen "breaking bad", you should. or visited manhattan for that matter.... unblock May 2013 #211
Do DIAPERS make a statement? HockeyMom May 2013 #97
The OP did NOT discuss RAPE. closeupready May 2013 #103
The OP talks about being stared at, or holding opinions about someone. Not rape. uppityperson May 2013 #114
OK, my experience as a 13 year old Catholic School Girl HockeyMom May 2013 #124
Yup, it can be and it sucks. uppityperson May 2013 #127
the statements that clothes make can be misinterpreted or ignored (sometimes deliberately) unblock May 2013 #261
underwear doesn't make a statement, unless worn as outerwear. unblock May 2013 #230
I agree with uppityperson, this is perfectly stated. Amimnoch May 2013 #166
nonsense. bowens43 May 2013 #63
Yes I get it and for some reason allways have. olddots May 2013 #65
Some people are just pointing out situations where the OP doesn't apply (e.g. protesters)... redqueen May 2013 #79
Well ........ polly7 May 2013 #91
Utter nonsense. Some women dress to attract stares, opinions, and interactions. msanthrope May 2013 #82
Some do, does this make it ok? I wear a short skirt or shorts on a hot day, and NOT to MillennialDem May 2013 #117
Are you really asking me if that's okay? What a silly question. nt msanthrope May 2013 #162
I agree. woolldog May 2013 #178
um.... one_voice May 2013 #203
Hmm - I like the bottom half; you can keep closeupready May 2013 #216
those briefs are NOT woolldog May 2013 #255
How LONG does something have to be to be considered a stare? The Straight Story May 2013 #238
I don't know... I just try not to make people uncomfortable, out in public. nomorenomore08 May 2013 #260
Post removed Post removed May 2013 #245
stop staring woolldog May 2013 #252
Well, I'm a lesbian so I'm not :) MillennialDem May 2013 #254
And the point is that you shouldn't make assumptions Scootaloo May 2013 #197
Oh sweet jeebus...I gotta go rewatch the ABC afterschool special msanthrope May 2013 #209
Well, you seem to have completely misread the OP Scootaloo May 2013 #219
Who, precisely, on this board do you think is at a first-grade level? msanthrope May 2013 #229
Just from this thread? Scootaloo May 2013 #244
+ infinity. Apophis May 2013 #340
what brought this on? has it been a week already? snooper2 May 2013 #94
My hubby and I differ on this. I don't think "inviting" is the correct word though. SleeplessinSoCal May 2013 #100
No one is "inviting" harassment, no matter how they dress. uppityperson May 2013 #109
I assumed people would not defend rude behavior redqueen May 2013 #120
How long of a look is a stare? It varies from area to area. It is the vagueness and over broadness uppityperson May 2013 #126
However long you'd stare at someone you were intentionally avoiding disrespecting is the right redqueen May 2013 #141
I see a lot of it here as a communication issue. Word and phrases have different meanings, depending uppityperson May 2013 #179
Agree to disagree. nt redqueen May 2013 #185
You disagree "Harassment is just wrong"? or that words can have different meanings? uppityperson May 2013 #186
I disagree that all the arguing is due to misunderstandings. redqueen May 2013 #192
That's why I say "flirting with disaster" SleeplessinSoCal May 2013 #253
I wonder what Tien1985 May 2013 #110
I'm surprised by the 'but how long is a stare?' comments, too. redqueen May 2013 #181
rq JustAnotherGen May 2013 #111
You key someone's car because you get whistled at? adigal May 2013 #277
So is asking JustAnotherGen May 2013 #324
Pretty sure you could be arrested for keying the vehicles. NaturalHigh May 2013 #394
Good one BeyondGeography May 2013 #118
How one is attired does indeed invite opinions and/or looks. Often, opinions about the appearance bike man May 2013 #119
Don't stare, sure, but looking is Human Nature maxsolomon May 2013 #122
Notice that the word "look" is absent from the OP. redqueen May 2013 #128
I noticed. maxsolomon May 2013 #131
And once more I am reminded of the need to use legalese when addressing *certain* feminist issues. redqueen May 2013 #155
It's not just feminist issues. Jim Lane May 2013 #258
Agreed on all points. redqueen May 2013 #262
"Looking" IS included in the OP, by the use of one word in upper case in that OP bike man May 2013 #415
The word anything is captitalized though The2ndWheel May 2013 #142
Indeed Orrex May 2013 #172
This is an interesting question el_bryanto May 2013 #132
I dunno... Inkfreak May 2013 #283
Stares? Lol LittleBlue May 2013 #133
Emotionally mature men learn to not stare at women. geek tragedy May 2013 #144
No, they just get better at it LittleBlue May 2013 #148
there is a difference between looking and staring BainsBane May 2013 #157
True LittleBlue May 2013 #165
The difference is in the maturity and decorum BainsBane May 2013 #171
If you're not getting noticed, you're not staring. geek tragedy May 2013 #169
This post says so much. redqueen May 2013 #198
Better go tell the Street Walkers on the backside of the French Quarter... bvar22 May 2013 #137
so true Tumbulu May 2013 #187
And bodybuilders (men and women) wearing bikinis/thongs while posing. People not only bike man May 2013 #342
What would you say to a woman who believes that her clothes are an invitation? Orrex May 2013 #158
This entire thread is a scream and a welcome break from the focus on scandal badtoworse May 2013 #161
Oh goody, flamebait. 99Forever May 2013 #164
Actually, it is more like Farming The Straight Story May 2013 #190
The discord daisies and conflict carrots won't water themselves! lumberjack_jeff May 2013 #237
I am thinking there is something to the whole lack of carrots thing for some.... The Straight Story May 2013 #240
Well put as always. And, RIGHT on the money. n/t cherokeeprogressive May 2013 #319
Glad you managed to get your handful of posts in before dramatically announcing you're trashing it. redqueen May 2013 #200
One post. 99Forever May 2013 #246
Got you mixed up with Roland99, you have the same style on some issues. redqueen May 2013 #248
I'd try to educate you as to the... 99Forever May 2013 #250
Awwwwwwww... aren't you just precious! redqueen May 2013 #251
Shocking, isn't it? Apophis May 2013 #341
I agree with your sentiment redqueen Tumbulu May 2013 #194
I used to work in a place where we were often on call. hunter May 2013 #199
you seem very angry Bully Taw May 2013 #206
If a woman walked down the street without pants, she'd be "inviting rape." Atman May 2013 #207
Wow. nt redqueen May 2013 #212
I agree. Wow. Atman May 2013 #239
She could also be mentally ill or the recent victim of a rape. Invitation - kiranon May 2013 #242
But wait...wouldn't the man also be considered "mentally ill?" Atman May 2013 #247
Acutally, Tien1985 May 2013 #274
"Mental illness" or "diabetic crisis" is actually what most people, and all first responders, would Nay May 2013 #357
Diabeties causes you to walk around naked? Atman May 2013 #358
Not diabetes per se, but a severe hypoglycemic episode. And not in all cases, of course. Nay May 2013 #391
I'm surprised you think that isn't the immediate assumption. KitSileya May 2013 #439
And as always, people overreact with the "What am I supposed to look at???" nomorenomore08 May 2013 #217
Wow, you make it sound so simple! redqueen May 2013 #227
Hell, I'm as socially awkward as they come, and I still manage to be polite and discreet nomorenomore08 May 2013 #233
I always try to not get my drool on her breasts. Warren Stupidity May 2013 #350
Heh, not like I was claiming to be better than anyone else. nomorenomore08 May 2013 #420
I met a women who missed cat calls /whistles... Locut0s May 2013 #218
Remember Edith Cresson? closeupready May 2013 #224
Former French prime minister: 'one in four Englishmen might be gay' closeupready May 2013 #231
I made a post some time back on here that showed that a lot of men AND women watch porn regularly... Locut0s May 2013 #235
All the staring and cat calls seemed more predatory than kind. Don't kiranon May 2013 #236
I think to each her own is kind of the point we are trying to make... Locut0s May 2013 #243
Completely ass-backwards. See posts 72 and 98. nt redqueen May 2013 #249
Where do people get this? gollygee May 2013 #259
A few have protested that its all just a simple misunderstanding. redqueen May 2013 #264
Men also!! Enough of the comments ladies.... cbdo2007 May 2013 #257
I completely disagree. Megalo_Man May 2013 #263
I don't know what world you live in Summer Hathaway May 2013 #266
I'm not at all clear on it. I absolutely dressed to invite reactions cali May 2013 #269
And therefore every woman is the same? And men should feel free to assume that's the case? redqueen May 2013 #273
I didn't say that. YOU made the absolutes in your op. cali May 2013 #280
LOL, by that logic you had no grounds to be mad at Seth MacFarlane. You get that, right? redqueen May 2013 #284
pathetic. You don't speak for me- either as a woman or a feminist cali May 2013 #306
How else are we going to know you're a whore if you don't dress the part? Sivafae May 2013 #272
LOL... you juat reminded me of an incident... redqueen May 2013 #276
I used to get that alot when I was very young BainsBane May 2013 #289
At that age I only got honked at, followed, invited into cars, etc. nt redqueen May 2013 #293
Too bad you didnt have a big boyfriend to prevent that stuff.... cliffordu May 2013 #438
Not sure about "no stares" (Courtney Stodden, anyone?!). But as for speaking or touching? Hell, no! WinkyDink May 2013 #285
The irony BainsBane May 2013 #286
this type of dishonest crap doesn't serve feminists cali May 2013 #287
Where does the OP say there is something wrong with it? BainsBane May 2013 #291
try fucking reading the op cali May 2013 #300
You are misreading it BainsBane May 2013 #303
No, she is not misreading it Summer Hathaway May 2013 #326
redqueen explained what she meant BainsBane May 2013 #327
If Redqueen didn't mean what she said in her OP Summer Hathaway May 2013 #328
She explained herself BainsBane May 2013 #330
I didn't misunderstand the OP as written Summer Hathaway May 2013 #331
Most people got it the first time. redqueen May 2013 #364
Yes, most people 'got it' the first time Summer Hathaway May 2013 #403
Do you believe BainsBane May 2013 #305
It is ridiculous pintobean May 2013 #314
What's ridiculous is your 'Who, me?' act. redqueen May 2013 #367
I didn't read any of the Angelina Jolie threads. pintobean May 2013 #393
Everyone has opinions about all kinds of shit. Nobody cares. redqueen May 2013 #409
Wat redqueen May 2013 #292
But women who don't dress to suit you should be subject to your polly7 May 2013 #298
That is A QUOTE FROM A MUSLIM WOMAN. redqueen May 2013 #304
snork BainsBane May 2013 #307
No shit! And the quote doesn't even say what she somehow seems to think it says. redqueen May 2013 #308
but BainsBane May 2013 #309
Previous obsession? polly7 May 2013 #310
Yep. Obsession. QED. nt redqueen May 2013 #312
Lame. nt. polly7 May 2013 #313
Is this a problem on DU? Kingofalldems May 2013 #311
Not that I've seen. zappaman May 2013 #315
See post #6 pintobean May 2013 #317
Shocker. zappaman May 2013 #318
Ideology vs human nature Prism May 2013 #320
Sometimes, I just can't .... oldhippie May 2013 #323
Right. Except when they are. MrSlayer May 2013 #329
Some of the replies here are just incredible. Lunacee_2013 May 2013 #333
"If you think she's attractive, just talk to her!" Bonobo May 2013 #343
It's just my two cents. Lunacee_2013 May 2013 #384
Ah, but wait Warren DeMontague May 2013 #334
That's true. Bonobo May 2013 #337
Yeah, if you're wearing clothes that are revealing, I'm going to look. Apophis May 2013 #339
"Encoded in [your] genes"? Nothing wrong with your post otherwise, but that part kind of nomorenomore08 May 2013 #429
I agree with the majority of your OP, but I strongly disagree Jamastiene May 2013 #348
That is a very good point. redqueen May 2013 #352
It would be a lot worse if we did not have laws protecting us, and if women had Zorra May 2013 #356
Could I please get hour thoughts on post 390? redqueen May 2013 #404
They might dress a certain way to invite stares. Rex May 2013 #359
Everyone likes to get a compliment. cbdo2007 May 2013 #366
It doesn't matter what I'm wearing or doing ~ I still LOOKS. In_The_Wind May 2013 #369
Wearing high fashion, or unusual garments, invites looks. Orsino May 2013 #374
I see the usual suspects have exaggerated the claims being sufrommich May 2013 #375
LOL, no shit... and now I hear that I'm misandrying men on threads about kittens!!!!1! redqueen May 2013 #377
*edit* Marr May 2013 #378
Oh hell, what started this crap? NaturalHigh May 2013 #379
A double take stare is the only thing I was guilty of Ter May 2013 #382
you are ridiculous! lmao! WhaTHellsgoingonhere May 2013 #398
LOL Puzzledtraveller May 2013 #399
I think the next OP is more likely to be Summer Hathaway May 2013 #405
!!! zappaman May 2013 #408
STILL with the "opening doors" redqueen May 2013 #411
400! nt Electric Monk May 2013 #400
Bullshit, when I wear my $%^$ me heels, it's to get a reaction. lol nt clarice May 2013 #401
To be honest, when I wear my Super Bowl Champions: Green Bay Packers Tshirt, I'm ScreamingMeemie May 2013 #407
Thanks for admitting that you get the OP. redqueen May 2013 #410
That's how I took the thread. Dash87 May 2013 #412
Especially if you wear it on S. Lake Shore Drive. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #413
I get sympathetic looks when I wear my Cubs T-shirt! Brigid May 2013 #414
Forgive the levity, but you know that T-Mobile commercial closeupready May 2013 #417
Haven't posted in years. See the crazies are still posting. cottonseed May 2013 #418
Well, duh. cliffordu May 2013 #423
8059 views and goin' strong. Warren DeMontague May 2013 #424
What FANTASY WORLD do you live in????? Uzair May 2013 #426
many years ago i had a friend with very large breasts. DesertFlower May 2013 #428
Kind what I thought was so relevant about FEMEN's naked protests. DirkGently May 2013 #432
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