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d_r

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15. that's a really good idea
Thu May 16, 2013, 02:23 PM
May 2013

I wasn't aware of it but I really hope it catches on.

Years ago we had a great dane dog. He was a good dog, had a bit of an alpha streak but a good dog who had learned good manners. He liked to play with small dogs a lot. The problem was always medium sized dogs. They'd try to dominate him because he was the biggest dog around. So the family golden or lab would try to put his head on top of the dane's and bam, it would be trouble. A lot of the folks who had those dogs didn't recognize their dog's behavior and signals. I learned so that could usually see it coming and rein the dane in before - the other dog would have forward ears, the tail straight up, the flashing of teeth. Approaching from straight on instead of at a slant. Blaring eye contact. Prickeled fur. I'd pull him in quick and go the other way. I had to split a couple of vet bills and honestly it was the other people's fault because they didn't see it in their dog's behavior. The funny thing was, that dog loved to play with other dogs. Would chase and play and let dogs like poodles and scotties chase him all over. He had a boxer and a german shepherd he would regularly play with. He could run and play off leash at the dog park with a field of dogs. And there was nothing more awesome than five or six great danes running and playing. But every once in a while there was that alpha-seeking dog that was the boss at home that wanted to dominate him and he wouldn't take it. It was like he thought I was president of the entire world, but that he was vice president.

Our dog now is a lab-beagle mix from the shelter. She is sweet as candy. But she is funny and reminds me of how you have to figure out rescue dogs. She hates, I mean hates, bald men. She sees a bald man down the road and will start barking. And she is afraid of middle age women swinging things like bags around. She'll cower away. But she tolerates kids coming up like anything. She didn't really know how to play when we got her over a year ago, but she has figured a lot of that out. The funny thing about it is - to me - she can meet with most dogs, but a couple of times there have been dogs that pulled the same kind of behavior I described above, and she tried to go after them. At 30 pounds she is a lot easier to keep from it than the dane was at 160. But it is the same behavior that elicits it, and most dog owners that have those dogs seem to just not get it.

I would almost put a yellow ribbon on her just to shoo those folks away.

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Don't let someone else's dog lick your face. Quantess May 2013 #1
But to be fair... Duer 157099 May 2013 #3
Still pretty gross. Quantess May 2013 #7
Lol! My baby loves that as a snack as well. Dash87 May 2013 #11
I don't let any dog lick my face. Even if they don't eat poop, they lick their butts. Arkansas Granny May 2013 #6
plus there is the worm problem.n/t dixiegrrrrl May 2013 #25
As opposed to shaking the hand of that person who just used the restroom without bothering to wash hlthe2b May 2013 #8
Looks like you didn't read the whole post. (no text) Quantess May 2013 #9
Dogs have a higher tolerance for salmonella and the like KurtNYC May 2013 #21
Nonsequitor? hlthe2b May 2013 #22
I thought I was responding to your statement that 'human pathogens are more risky to us' KurtNYC May 2013 #29
Pathogens transmitted directly from humans to humans n/t hlthe2b May 2013 #33
If the dog has minty fresh breath lapislzi May 2013 #19
Oh my God Aerows May 2013 #24
Geebus. Are you sure you really want to be a dog owner? hlthe2b May 2013 #2
I suspect KurtNYC lives in a dense urban neighborhood. Quantess May 2013 #5
Yes, on a busy sidewalk they can come at you from all angles KurtNYC May 2013 #23
Sadly, some people are beyond education. dixiegrrrrl May 2013 #13
re: "Where I come from, you ask permission to pet someone's dog". hlthe2b May 2013 #14
On rushing up and high voice -- I didn't have those things happen when I had my boxers KurtNYC May 2013 #30
The first two can be solved by crossing the street. kickysnana May 2013 #4
Be patient with dog owners Johnny2X2X May 2013 #10
Put a yellow ribbon on your dog lead TrogL May 2013 #12
that's a really good idea d_r May 2013 #15
THAT is so cool. dixiegrrrrl May 2013 #16
I'm gradually teaching people TrogL May 2013 #20
neat project - don't expect people to be smart enough to respect it. hollysmom May 2013 #17
Thank you so much for that link! I have a beautiful little Cavalier that is Zul Incarnate with dogs. nolabear May 2013 #27
Very cool. Thanks for sharing that! KurtNYC May 2013 #31
I've cared for dogs now and again ... Arugula Latte May 2013 #18
I knew a guy who trained his dog not to take ANY food Politicalboi May 2013 #26
Ah, yes. All the reasons SheilaT May 2013 #28
In several instances I've been with friends who have dogs, and Arugula Latte May 2013 #32
I'm inclined to think that things such as you've just described or as I've SheilaT May 2013 #35
Good insight. Arugula Latte May 2013 #36
I always ask people if I can pet their dogs, but I have to smirkymonkey May 2013 #34
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