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In reply to the discussion: parents change diaper in starbucks. cops called [View all]Nay
(12,051 posts)353. Thank you. I was going to wade in here, but you said it better than I did. Esp the coliform
bacteria, rotavirus, and shigella--that's why you don't shit where you eat, even if the shitter is a baby. That's why you don't change a 1-yr-old in a dining area; go into the bathroom, spread your diaper bag pad on the sink area or floor, and change there. Then wash your hands.
It has nothing to do with how cute the baby is, whether people are family-friendly or not, whether the staff reacted badly or not, or any of those idiotic topic-changing barbs.
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I have seen people change baby diapers in a hospital room with post operative patients
greenman3610
May 2013
#104
have you? starbucks *is* a dining room; people eat and drink there. please give me your
HiPointDem
May 2013
#181
Bullshit. It is a coffee shop lounge. Where did it say it was on the table?
morningfog
May 2013
#197
bullshit yourself. starbucks serves drinks *and* food. it is a licensed food establishment.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#205
give me your address so i can come change babies on your dining table. you clean up when i'm
HiPointDem
May 2013
#228
why do you hate humanity and want to aggressively force them to smell the gagging odor of
HiPointDem
May 2013
#267
they make it sound like baby poop isn't human feces, like it's cotton candy and clovers
CreekDog
May 2013
#361
In every Starbucks I've been in, the door has never been more than 30 feet away.
cherokeeprogressive
May 2013
#247
I would. But, I don't begrudge them for what they did. Certainly don't think calling
morningfog
May 2013
#252
Technically, he did that after having a rag thrown at him by a taunting employee.
antigone382
May 2013
#377
you apparently don't know the meaning of 'bitter'. what i am is *disgusted*. did you miss
HiPointDem
May 2013
#250
No, you're wrong. It's disgustingly unsanitary and these parents were assholes.
Chan790
May 2013
#318
so what? then they walked to starbucks for their 'coffee run'. if the kid had a clean diaper when
HiPointDem
May 2013
#178
doesn't mean they get to poop in the dining room and only anti-social low-life narcissists think
HiPointDem
May 2013
#224
It does not make it anti social. If starbucks wants them to change diapers somewhere
morningfog
May 2013
#274
So are the Starbuck employees and customers that parent treated like shit...
Violet_Crumble
May 2013
#304
Oh okay, so you know what I think because I didn't say anything about it. That's funny!
cui bono
May 2013
#84
except there's no indication they re-used it after throwing it at the poopy floor. this couple
HiPointDem
May 2013
#180
throwing a wet cleaning rag on the floor v. changing a poopy diaper on a table on which people
HiPointDem
May 2013
#176
yes, it really does. a baby wearing a poopy diaper smells a creat deal less than opening that poopy
HiPointDem
May 2013
#175
They could get some feces on the chair accidentally after wiping the child. Or even on the table.
cui bono
May 2013
#70
when i worked fast food, yes, all the salt/pepper & condiment bottles got sterilized regularly.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#182
if the freaking diaper was so full then one of the parents should have stayed with the baby while
HiPointDem
May 2013
#184
That's ridiculous. Shit in the eating area of a restaurant is unsanitary. Period. A better option
Squinch
May 2013
#116
Thank you. I was going to wade in here, but you said it better than I did. Esp the coliform
Nay
May 2013
#353
it's unsanitary, period. they had better options. they were simply too self-centered to use them.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#201
They should be changed where ever they are dirty. Get the fuck over yourself.
morningfog
May 2013
#200
And if you don't change diapers, they leak -- then there is poop wherever the kid is. n/t
woodsprite
May 2013
#55
then they shouldn't have brought their kid in the restaurant at all if he's dribbling poop all over.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#186
yeah, restaurants never use sterilizer. never never never. they never wash anything. especially
HiPointDem
May 2013
#189
on the sidewalk outside the restaurant. or at their own home when they got there.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#191
Get real! The restroom was certainly a better option than a restaurant table top. nt
brush
May 2013
#60
i'm sure that shit in the dining area, whether on tables or seats, violates regulations. and i'm
HiPointDem
May 2013
#193
Did they drive there? 'Cause I changed a lot of diapers in the trunk of our car.
winter is coming
May 2013
#5
gad. did you say anything? i would have, to the manager and to those low-life patrons.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#195
I have never experienced anything like that but I know if I did I couldn't leave without letting the
lunasun
May 2013
#398
Restaurants have been shut down for less than that. It's a HUGE health code violation.
kestrel91316
May 2013
#43
Well, hopefully you'd choose someplace other than in a restaurant where others are trying to eat.
AndyA
May 2013
#120
well imagine how everyone else feels when you change your little darling in the room where
HiPointDem
May 2013
#198
yeah, sure you have. because shit in dining areas is ok with the health dept, ok with restaurant
HiPointDem
May 2013
#253
I used flannel changing pads. Solid on one side, printed on the other. n/t
winter is coming
May 2013
#273
Yep--when you get home, you take it out of the diaper bag, where you've placed it, hopefully,
MADem
May 2013
#276
Hell no. If the choice was bathroom floor or a bench, I would use the bench.
morningfog
May 2013
#255
so did the Burgos family apologize to the starbucks ppl who had to clean up the drink? nt
msongs
May 2013
#17
no more than they apologized to them for having to sterilize the area where they'd just changed
HiPointDem
May 2013
#219
Yeah, for me too. I got the distinct idea that the couple thought it would be a hoot to
Nay
May 2013
#360
The parents violated the health code, period. If an inspector had walked in on them, he would have
Ikonoklast
May 2013
#264
Sorry, but I'm siding with Starbucks. I would "throw" a rag at the parents as well if they were
ScreamingMeemie
May 2013
#71
You have no idea if shit was involved! Throw a rag at me and you would get it....
Logical
May 2013
#82
The point is really about subjecting other paying customers to baby mess
ScreamingMeemie
May 2013
#97
I'm sorry, but you're splitting hairs...over something that should NEVER be done.
ScreamingMeemie
May 2013
#117
...and somehow... I wouldn't be all bummed out about it. I don't put the needs of one customer
ScreamingMeemie
May 2013
#157
Even simpler--any idiot who changes a baby's diaper in a dining area and then dumps coffee should be
ScreamingMeemie
May 2013
#163
LOL, escorted out is finem, and normal. Throwing a rag is ignorant and classless! We agree!! n-t
Logical
May 2013
#166
If you agree that the parents were clueless idiots then yes. The cloth is outside of it.
ScreamingMeemie
May 2013
#172
No, but most are civil and handle issues with tact. Or in your case, not so much. n-t
Logical
May 2013
#154
Changing a diaper in an eating establishment does not warrant a measured and tactful response. nt
Codeine
May 2013
#156
Those parents are DISGUSTING people. Starbucks had every right to throw them our on their asses for
kestrel91316
May 2013
#39
They do. Even in 1990, when my first was born, diaper bags came with changing pads
ScreamingMeemie
May 2013
#68
Well, you can't tell by changing the diaper, but by the dad intentionally spilling his coffee. n/t
woodsprite
May 2013
#56
LOL, yes, because throwing a rag at the family was brilliant! Unbelievable! N-t
Logical
May 2013
#69
Yeah, because changing a dirty diaper on a dining table was brilliant! Unbelievable!
NaturalHigh
May 2013
#119
"hey, get your baby and his shitty diaper off that table"...I assume you are unemployed. n-t
Logical
May 2013
#152
I have never been in a Starsbuck so all I can say is they should invest in changing tables
southernyankeebelle
May 2013
#91
I've found that my zombie neighbors make excellent companions when I feel like Starbucks.
Buns_of_Fire
May 2013
#131
NO, jesus christ what is wrong with you. I don't know how you change diapers.
morningfog
May 2013
#262
there is, actually. because no matter how delightful your little darling is, no one wants to
HiPointDem
May 2013
#269
Well, not to quibble, but I've seen times my baby was so enraged about a diaper change that I had to
NBachers
May 2013
#303
that's disgusting. no, they could have waited & changed him in their car or when they got home.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#171
Another case of parents who refuse to have their plans altered by responsibility
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
May 2013
#183
I understand how you feel, but IMHO these 'small' issues reflect the trouble this society is
Nay
May 2013
#384
i've changed plenty of babies on bathroom floors; it was usual practice before changing tables.
HiPointDem
May 2013
#192
you put the baby down on the clean towel, blanket or changing mat you have brought along
HiPointDem
May 2013
#215
'the basic facilities' are a recent development. generations of parents took care of their babies'
HiPointDem
May 2013
#231
Why don't you support advancing the rights and comforts of children and parents?
morningfog
May 2013
#266
Here's $.50 to buy a clue with... TAKE IT TO YOUR FUCKING CAR. n/t
cherokeeprogressive
May 2013
#242
I note this story contains no information about whether the parents used a changing pad on the seat.
Nine
May 2013
#288
This would explain why, when I spilled my coffee on a seat in Starbucks and then licked it up...
Buzz Clik
May 2013
#326
I actually thought it improved the taste of the coffee. I had ordered my first cup of "blonde"...
Buzz Clik
May 2013
#373
A mom changed her kid's diaper at the communal dishwashing counter at the campground...
Kolesar
May 2013
#341