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In reply to the discussion: Obama: There's no longer time for excuses for black men [View all]1StrongBlackMan
(31,849 posts)IMO, it has extended into their adult lives, not so much as in the form of "lazy" or "unmotivated"; but rather, in the form of expectant.
A big part of my Human Resources work is Employee Relations work, e.g., "fixing the employer (supervisor)/employee relationship. Two manifestation of the phenomena are: an inflated estimation of organizational worth and a near constant need for recognition. I could cite to literally thousands of exampes, from the 20-something that pouts and withdraws because they (after 3 days on the job) "know more than the boss" to a new hire quitting (via a call from her mother) after her first day because, I didn't pay enough attention to her" ... nevermind the fact that I was involved in attempting to prevent a abor walk-out.
If I win the lottery or (get off my lazy ass and) enter a Doctoral Program, I plan an academic examination of my anecdotal observations.