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Uzair

(241 posts)
Fri May 24, 2013, 07:30 PM May 2013

There is no age of consent [View all]

The problem with trying to set a specific age for any kind of activity is that everything is on a case by case basis. This includes sex, drinking, driving, abortion, military service, you name it.

There are many 16 year olds who are capable of giving consent. And then there are 16 year olds who absolutely cannot. The transition from childhood to adulthood is not absolute. Some people mature faster than others, some people don't ever mature at all. There is no line where one day you're a child and the very next day you're an adult.

If an 18 year old has sex with a 14 year old. in many cases it's rape. In some cases it's not. Some 14 year olds CAN give consent and know exactly what they're doing, while some can't and don't. Even more ironic is that I'd argue that there can even be cases where if a 14 year old has sex with an 18 year old, it's the EIGHTEEN year old who isn't mature enough to give consent.

I don't know what the solution to this problem is legally. I guess the law has to pick SOME age, but that doesn't really work in the real world. I think things just need to be decided on a case by case basis somehow. How to do that is another question entirely.

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There is no age of consent [View all] Uzair May 2013 OP
If a 17 and 364 days years old HockeyMom May 2013 #1
I think a clear line is the easiest and best way Travis_0004 May 2013 #2
Interesting how all of a sudden there's justification. MrSlayer May 2013 #3
I've not been part of that consensus, nor have I bent over backwards Nevernose May 2013 #6
I wasn't referring to you personally. MrSlayer May 2013 #9
I think the point is more that she's been treated more harshly than an 18-year-old boy would've been nomorenomore08 May 2013 #7
+1 ScreamingMeemie May 2013 #10
I don't agree. MrSlayer May 2013 #17
Then we'll have to agree to disagree. Because after a certain point it's mostly a matter of opinion. nomorenomore08 May 2013 #18
There would not have been. Please don't speak for me. ScreamingMeemie May 2013 #8
I said general consensus not unanimous agreement. MrSlayer May 2013 #11
Yes you must. It's a good exercise when one makes statements like this. ScreamingMeemie May 2013 #12
Perhaps I'll make a poll. MrSlayer May 2013 #13
Read a Roman Polanski apologia thread on here sometime...nothing new about it. nt msanthrope May 2013 #15
If we can have a voting age line, we can have one for an activity that might produce a child. WinkyDink May 2013 #4
The people have elected people to lay down the laws. Yes, there is an age of consent. Honeycombe8 May 2013 #5
"that doesn't really work in the real world." JVS May 2013 #14
Well, how about this: The Straight Story May 2013 #16
Wrong. Zoeisright May 2013 #19
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