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Honeycombe8

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5. The people have elected people to lay down the laws. Yes, there is an age of consent.
Fri May 24, 2013, 08:15 PM
May 2013

It does vary from state to state.

Much better to have it clear in the law, than for different people to have different opinions. If not the law, who decides if a young person is capable of deciding? The person who wants to have sex with the young person? They've already decided.

But no matter what age it is, 14 is generally considered too young to make lifelong decisions, which sex and the repurcussions from it is. One reason for this is..even though a young person can and does consent, it is very easy for an older person to manipulate and convince a young person to agree to sex and many other things. Therefore, the law sets forth a protection for the juvenile.

One thing is certain: there is no harm in that 14 year old waiting another 2 years to have sex, go to R movies, get married, take out a loan in his own name, all the things that adults do (that get adults in trouble!).

Sex is a complicated, difficult thing for adults to deal with, much less kids. The 18 year old who wants to have sex with the 14 year old? They need to find someone a couple of years older....or wait.

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There is no age of consent [View all] Uzair May 2013 OP
If a 17 and 364 days years old HockeyMom May 2013 #1
I think a clear line is the easiest and best way Travis_0004 May 2013 #2
Interesting how all of a sudden there's justification. MrSlayer May 2013 #3
I've not been part of that consensus, nor have I bent over backwards Nevernose May 2013 #6
I wasn't referring to you personally. MrSlayer May 2013 #9
I think the point is more that she's been treated more harshly than an 18-year-old boy would've been nomorenomore08 May 2013 #7
+1 ScreamingMeemie May 2013 #10
I don't agree. MrSlayer May 2013 #17
Then we'll have to agree to disagree. Because after a certain point it's mostly a matter of opinion. nomorenomore08 May 2013 #18
There would not have been. Please don't speak for me. ScreamingMeemie May 2013 #8
I said general consensus not unanimous agreement. MrSlayer May 2013 #11
Yes you must. It's a good exercise when one makes statements like this. ScreamingMeemie May 2013 #12
Perhaps I'll make a poll. MrSlayer May 2013 #13
Read a Roman Polanski apologia thread on here sometime...nothing new about it. nt msanthrope May 2013 #15
If we can have a voting age line, we can have one for an activity that might produce a child. WinkyDink May 2013 #4
The people have elected people to lay down the laws. Yes, there is an age of consent. Honeycombe8 May 2013 #5
"that doesn't really work in the real world." JVS May 2013 #14
Well, how about this: The Straight Story May 2013 #16
Wrong. Zoeisright May 2013 #19
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