Women: I have a sex question.

[Zorra]

73. No; I love sex and view it as a gift, and as a way of attaining and giving pleasure.

Religion and society have never been a factor in my consideration and experience of sex, so any senseless, inhibition inducing sexual deterrents are not part of my perception of sex. I am polyamorous, and presently in uncommitted relationships with three different lovers.

I am also a physical freak. My body is incredibly sensitive, and my capacity for frequently and easily achieving mind blowing multiple orgasms when engaging in sex with a considerate partner is possibly unparalleled.

My daily life is awesome, with sex being a factor as early and often as is pleasant and desirable in there somewhere, when circumstances permit.

For me, a pill to increase my interest in sex might induce uncontrollable nymphomania.

Seriously.


This quote from protagonist Amanda, in Tom Robbin's novel "Another Roadside Attraction", sums up my attitude toward sex pretty well:

"As long as it's done with honesty and grace, John Paul doesn't mind if I go to bed with other men. Or with other girls, as is sometimes my fancy. What has marriage got to do with it? Marriage is not a synonym for monogamy any more than monogamy is a synonym for ideal love. To live lightly on the earth, lovers and families must be more flexible and relaxed. The ritual of sex releases its magic inside or outside the marital bond. I approach that ritual with as much humility as possible and perform it whenever it seems appropriate...”