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elleng

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98. My husband just died,

Tue May 28, 2013, 03:47 PM

May 2013

and I'm sorry that none of us were nearby. He apparently knew his condition was terminal, but he hadn't informed us. He and I had been in contact about contacting one of his medical advisers 1-2 days prior to his death, I was helping him to do that, and then I heard nothing from him. As a consequence I went to his apartment, and found him.

It did not appear to have been a traumatic passing, but I am sorry we didn't know and weren't with him.

I am glad that dynasaw and bennyboy were able to help.

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My Husband Just Died:I too Was My Own Death Panel [View all] dynasaw May 2013 OP

My sincere condolences, dyansaw. Cooley Hurd May 2013 #1

I'm do sorry for your loss Happyhippychick May 2013 #2

My condolences. And what a blessing for you to share in his release. CurtEastPoint May 2013 #3

Condolences to all who knew and loved your husband. cordelia May 2013 #4

Please accept my condolences DUgosh May 2013 #5

So sorry for your loss madokie May 2013 #6

I am so sorry for your loss! hrmjustin May 2013 #7

It sounds as though his spirit lives on in each of you. GeorgeGist May 2013 #8

So sorry for you loss... Uben May 2013 #9

My condolences on the loss of your beloved. CrispyQ May 2013 #10

So sorry for your loss Freddie May 2013 #11

so sorry for your loss as well. peace to you and your family. niyad May 2013 #13

so sorry for your loss. may you all be at peace. niyad May 2013 #12

... RKP5637 May 2013 #14

My heartfelt condolences DainBramaged May 2013 #15

I am sorry for your loss. Terra Alta May 2013 #16

My condolences Kolesar May 2013 #17

Peace be with you & your family. William769 May 2013 #18

It sounds peaceful libodem May 2013 #19

So true BrotherIvan May 2013 #30

Yes libodem May 2013 #66

... Mnemosyne May 2013 #20

I am sorry you have lost your husband and hope you are doing alright yourself. sabrina 1 May 2013 #21

I am so sorry. I wish you peace. nt msanthrope May 2013 #22

My condolences. October May 2013 #23

Sorry for the loss of your husband. blueamy66 May 2013 #24

What a lucky guy to have you for his family. DonRedwood May 2013 #25

Om namah Shivayah! patrice May 2013 #26

My condolences...and this was a true act of love and respect... Tikki May 2013 #27

+1 grantcart May 2013 #54

No matter how much you expect it and how much a release it is Warpy May 2013 #28

They say the relationship you have with your children (and others) is the one you deserve BrotherIvan May 2013 #29

Sorry for your loss SoulSearcher May 2013 #31

You're a good wife. aikoaiko May 2013 #32

I am so sorry for your loss. IdaBriggs May 2013 #33

Safe journey.... ninehippies May 2013 #34

So very sorry!! at the hospital with dad janlyn May 2013 #35

What a lucky man, to have you to ease him on his way. nolabear May 2013 #36

So sorry for your loss. cate94 May 2013 #37

So very sorry, but glad he got to go the way he wanted. All condolences. n/t Bossy Monkey May 2013 #38

Condolences to you and the family. Granny M May 2013 #39

I am so sorry for your loss, dynasaw. brer cat May 2013 #40

Sorry for your lose. I am sure losing your husband is so very hard especially if southernyankeebelle May 2013 #41

Beautiful, sweetie. tblue May 2013 #42

Peace and strength to you, dynasaw! countryjake May 2013 #43

dynasaw, may you and family receive comfort. Thank you for your post... MrMickeysMom May 2013 #44

How brave of you... kag May 2013 #45

May you find comfort in friends, family, and good memories. mountain grammy May 2013 #46

... OneGrassRoot May 2013 #47

I'm very sorry, dynasaw AndyA May 2013 #48

That's the way it should be dem in texas May 2013 #49

Peace and love to you! peace13 May 2013 #50

thank you for giving him home hospice...it's tough but also an honor Demonaut May 2013 #51

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad your husband was able to pass in peace. liberal_at_heart May 2013 #52

Deepest sympathy malaise May 2013 #53

I am so sorry for your loss. LiberalLoner May 2013 #55

Very sorry for your loss Bluzmann57 May 2013 #56

My deepest sympathy on your loss (((dynasaw))). He arthritisR_US May 2013 #57

I am so sorry, dynasaw. Le Taz Hot May 2013 #58

My condolences, dynasaw to you and your family. gademocrat7 May 2013 #59

Thank you for sharing this part of yall's journey with us. Bucky May 2013 #60

My condolences dyna life long demo May 2013 #61

I have been there. Honest_Abe May 2013 #62

To help and permit someone to pass, with such grace and humility Sheepshank May 2013 #63

Condolences for you and your family sarge43 May 2013 #64

I am very sorry for your loss... virgdem May 2013 #65

You and your family did well. FarCenter May 2013 #67

My condolences to you and your family. timdog44 May 2013 #68

peace be with you and your family..... madrchsod May 2013 #69

My sympathy to you and your family and all who knew and loved livetohike May 2013 #70

Peace be with him and you and yours, and my condolences. uppityperson May 2013 #71

Peace, Love, and Comfort to you HillWilliam May 2013 #72

Peace and hugs.... midnight May 2013 #73

Sorry for your loss. Bettie May 2013 #74

My heart and respect are with you and your family. Lone_Star_Dem May 2013 #75

Sorry for your loss Canuckistanian May 2013 #76

May you find comfort at this difficult time. Savannahmann May 2013 #77

((((((hugs))))))) RainDog May 2013 #78

Hugs in your grief nadinbrzezinski May 2013 #79

I'm so very sorry for your loss n/t Bluestar May 2013 #80

qepd msedano May 2013 #81

May he rest in peace. I hope you family doesn't stray far from you now that you need them the most. demosincebirth May 2013 #82

Peace ny Betsy Ross May 2013 #83

You and your family were lucky to have him. Rozlee May 2013 #84

My sympathy, dynasaw, on your great loss. No Vested Interest May 2013 #85

Much love to you, dynasaw, and all our sympathy. calimary May 2013 #86

My sincerest condolence to your family mazzarro May 2013 #87

Our deepest heart-felt condolences. Your grace and wisdom indepat May 2013 #88

Sorry you lost your spouse AgingAmerican May 2013 #89

I'm very sorry for your loss NewJeffCT May 2013 #90

I'm sorry for your loss ismnotwasm May 2013 #91

my condolences noiretextatique May 2013 #92

Please accept my condolences. You are being thought of.nt FLyellowdog May 2013 #93

So sorry your loss, but who could die in a better place, or with better people? DCKit May 2013 #94

My deepest sympathy on your loss... Unknown Beatle May 2013 #95

Bless you, dynasaw. democrank May 2013 #96

my condolences Liberal_in_LA May 2013 #97

My husband just died, elleng May 2013 #98

I am so sorry for your loss LeftInTX May 2013 #99

I'm sorry for your loss... Phentex May 2013 #100

We all have to go... lilithsrevenge12 May 2013 #101

i'm so sorry. yesterday was the 1 year DesertFlower May 2013 #102

I am very sorry dynasaw. GentryDixon May 2013 #103

In the end, we must honor their wishes... ReRe May 2013 #104

Blessings to you and family n/t joesdaughter May 2013 #105

I wish you could know the love in my heart for you and your family. roguevalley May 2013 #106

My heartfelt condolences. Cleita May 2013 #107

I am so sorry for your loss. defacto7 May 2013 #108

you gave him a lovely last gift renate May 2013 #109

Deepest condolences. 840high May 2013 #110

So sorry to hear of your loss Heathen57 May 2013 #111

Sorry for your loss... Bennyboy May 2013 #112

I'm very sorry, dynasaw. dmr May 2013 #113

You are not alone. I admire you. David Zephyr May 2013 #114

Sorry for your loss dynasaw skeewee08 May 2013 #115

Blessings to you and family randr May 2013 #116

I'm so sorry for your loss dynasaw cal04 May 2013 #117

My thoughts are with you. nt Raine May 2013 #118

My condolences and sympathy to you and your family Yo_Mama May 2013 #119

I am sure he was grateful and honored to have had you for his wife Samantha May 2013 #120

Sorry on the loss of your husband Catherine Vincent May 2013 #121

peace be with you and your loved ones, dynasaw hopemountain May 2013 #122

So sorry for your loss. Sounds to me that he had one heck of a wife. LoisB May 2013 #123

May he know peace, and may your heart be SalmonChantedEvening May 2013 #124

I am sorry for your loss, but would disagree that you were a death panel. rhett o rick May 2013 #125

As his wife...... slingsam May 2013 #126

I send my condolences and wish you all peace Lifelong Protester May 2013 #127

I am so sorry for your loss UpInArms May 2013 #128

Safe passage to him eridani May 2013 #129

I would like babylonsister May 2013 #130

Peace be with you. ColesCountyDem May 2013 #131

Peace. westerebus May 2013 #132

I'm sorry you lost him pinboy3niner May 2013 #133