I'm a stay at home husband, or as I call it, a "kept man"...

[southernyankeebelle]

33. I think your great and it's to bad you don't have children yet.

I would like to say if parents (both) would teach their children when they are very young to take care of their bedrooms and as they get older they help around the house. Gender neutral house work. Where everyone in the house does their part then both boys and girls would make good home makers. After all men don't automatically get married and should know how to do basic house work if they live on their own. My own husband was taught gender neutral. So he could do anything in the home. I'm lucky because he does house work better than me. Our son was taught but he was a little lazy. Now however, he got married and his wife is lazy and sleeps all day. He comes home and he ends up cooking and cleaning and doing the laundry. She quit her job and the deal was she was to hold up her end of the bargin. She hasn't and they are having problems. Marriage is suppose to be equal. But he is even a better father then she is a mother. Their daughter is closer to daddy. His wife doesn't like that.