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In reply to the discussion: Michelle Obama confronts protester, threatens to leave fundraiser. [View all]hopemountain
(3,919 posts)but please don't do me any favors and scream for me. screaming at michele obama is rude. disrespect does not win friends or get someone to hear you. on the contrary, it repels the very people you want to hear you.
IF i had the money to go to a fundraiser, i would have gotten the first lady's attention by first, being respectful of her as a person. i would have asked the hosts how i could arrange to have my issue/concern heard - a private phone call, or request advice on how to effectively & directly communicate my concerns.
with all individuals, there is a common ground. can you identify it and call upon it's power? save the immaturity, disrespect and anger for the assholes who deserve it when you see THEM - getting people on your side does not happen when you shove it down their throats.
sure, you got attention. what did it accomplish? alienation. the very thing you are trying to overcome.