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In reply to the discussion: OK, so why DO men frequent prostitutes? [View all]Notafraidtoo
(402 posts)I have a friend who has used prostitutes and a friend who was a escort, from conversations from both the answers are numerous just like any question involving human nature,here are a few.
1.Some men are scared of women but desire their affections even if they may be fake and paid for,A prostitute pretends not to judge and it makes the man feel safe,men are much more vulnerable then they let people know its why i think many women are so quick to call them pigs they don't understand that many are suffering and desire even pretend affections.
2.Some men don't have the social skills required to find a mate or they are somewhat deformed and very unattractive to the opposite sex,Religion has done a very good job convincing people sex is evil but the truth remains that sexual contact is extremely important for our mental wellbeing that is assuming you have normal sexual mental function( age can be a factor in slowing down this need) Those that do suffer depression like loneliness with out human contact.
3.Its the easiest way to cheat on your spouse,I never understood why anyone would cheat you make your relationship work or you leave of course kids can complicate this still its something that should be considered before marriage.
4.Sometimes it is only about sex with out lies and responsibility.
Anyway there is a 100 answers to this question and illegal prostitution is way worse then legal because way to often women are slaves to their pimps and are forced into it.
I have never had any desire to use the services of a prostitute,I also think with the decline of religion having a stranglehold on our sexuality that prostitution will decline significantly.