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In reply to the discussion: My dad was a drunk, a staggering lush who alienated every person he knew... [View all]morningfog
(18,115 posts)52. I think you missed the point of the OP due to your chip.
I read the OP as an honest rememberance of their father. The OP learned much from his father, but positive and negative example. Humans are complex and not all good or all bad. I find much more value in a nuanced and balance story like the OP's than in a rosey-only story. It is more real and deeper.
You read an attack on men, as you so often do. Re-read the OP with the invaluable lessons that were taught directly and indirectly in mind.
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My dad was a drunk, a staggering lush who alienated every person he knew... [View all]
WCGreen
Jun 2013
OP
Alcohol can be very damaging. It caused enough distress in my extended family that i was never much
hedgehog
Jun 2013
#1
MY father was an alcoholic a also. HE WAS MURDERED BY ONE OF HIS "DRINKING FRIENDS"
trueblue2007
Jun 2013
#11
I'm glad you found sobriety. My father died of alcoholism when I was a little kid.
raccoon
Jun 2013
#4
You are blessed with an open heart that allows you to be happy in others' happiness
Hekate
Jun 2013
#38
Thank you for sharing this story... There for the grace of (insert) go we...
MrMickeysMom
Jun 2013
#9
"There's a hole in everyman's soul the exact shape & size of their father" said someone, some time.
duhneece
Jun 2013
#21
For some of us, Father's Day is NOT all about daddy being a role model...
Spitfire of ATJ
Jun 2013
#19
Try having your dad dump your mom for a hotter model and skip out on child support,...
Spitfire of ATJ
Jun 2013
#22
Trust me, once I decided to look to friends to be my family it got better.
Spitfire of ATJ
Jun 2013
#25
There's a post on here telling people to stop bashing the guy who paid their tuition....
Spitfire of ATJ
Jun 2013
#54
Every holiday, even the manufactured ones, is a chance for someone to shit on other people's joy
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
Jun 2013
#41
The same can't be said for the replies, nor in all probability, the recommends.
lumberjack_jeff
Jun 2013
#55
It's strange, I just picked up a brochure talking about the stages of acceptance
tavalon
Jun 2013
#39