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Monkie

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29. you are right of course whisp
Fri Jun 21, 2013, 05:09 PM
Jun 2013

i would never say there are no racists here, but i hope you understand why it is very upsetting when these "broad brush" accusations are thrown about and used to smear and in a attempt to silence dissent.
as a lilly white man i cant say i experience racism myself, but if you have, as i, been raised to not see race as a issue, or gender, then as a lilly-white male who is aware, i can see the institutional or systemic racism in a different way, same as the misogyny,when it is implied, or whispered behind peoples back, i have always rejected this myself, but i see it and wont deny it.
rape is another issue that is connected to this, and practically every woman i have gotten to know as a friend, has had some story to tell, of unwanted attention as a child, or abuse or rape as a adult, it is so common, much more common than is acknowledged by most men, or spoken about in public by most women.
so you wont hear me say it does not exist or is not the issue it is, the way some people might, but it is really unfair for the accusation to be used in this way.
it is toxic.
and the way i see things, the spying, the abuses of those in power, it is "all the same" as all the other abuses, the racism, the sexism, the root causes are the same from my point of view.
i hope i did not offend you personally in any way with what i said, and i hope you understand where i am coming from with my objection.

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Feel better now? WovenGems Jun 2013 #1
a little Monkie Jun 2013 #3
Sounds familiar. MuseRider Jun 2013 #17
i was lucky that my parents were as shocked as i was Monkie Jun 2013 #33
You are making a valid point, but using the word holocaust before they read your substance will still_one Jun 2013 #2
good, and not my problem Monkie Jun 2013 #4
Don't be pissed. You won't when you consider the sources. Same old 'we can't defend the indefensible sabrina 1 Jun 2013 #8
true true, but i just cant accept it and not make a statement Monkie Jun 2013 #10
I understand, you are an honest person so it's hard to accept this level of dishonesty, because sabrina 1 Jun 2013 #11
Godwins law. bunnies Jun 2013 #5
There needs to be an equivalent for these idiotic accusations of racism. Lizzie Poppet Jun 2013 #39
Well. there are a few other genocides that would apply here nadinbrzezinski Jun 2013 #6
you are right Monkie Jun 2013 #9
Dad was part of the resistance in Poland nadinbrzezinski Jun 2013 #12
if "they" really think this will make people like us bend they are wrong, so wrong Monkie Jun 2013 #13
that hard bend to social justice nadinbrzezinski Jun 2013 #14
It's pretty disgusting isn't. allin99 Jun 2013 #7
Thank you monkie disidoro01 Jun 2013 #15
Do we sound like Michele Bachmann yet? ThoughtCriminal Jun 2013 #16
No we don't sound like Michele Bachmann. Katashi_itto Jun 2013 #23
First, they came for the uppercase letters. . . NoPasaran Jun 2013 #18
+1 to the OP! I don't know why Skinner tolerates this shit here. backscatter712 Jun 2013 #19
+1 Katashi_itto Jun 2013 #22
Well, thank god you aren't running this site. aquart Jun 2013 #28
I think I know why. zeemike Jun 2013 #31
Thanks for bringing up the issue of racial hate for Muslims Hydra Jun 2013 #20
It's not racism, it's anti-theism against a specific religion. OnlinePoker Jun 2013 #25
Functionally, it's both Hydra Jun 2013 #30
come back to us when christians are getting droned.. frylock Jun 2013 #35
+1000 to the OP. The vile crap being flung around is not to be tolerated Katashi_itto Jun 2013 #21
of course there are racists here Whisp Jun 2013 #24
you are right of course whisp Monkie Jun 2013 #29
Most people who post here sulphurdunn Jun 2013 #26
Propagandi$t has this whole community wrapped around her little finger carolinayellowdog Jun 2013 #27
well said, and agreed noiretextatique Jun 2013 #32
any effort to make this about Obama and not about the NSA carolinayellowdog Jun 2013 #34
Who specifically accused you of racism? And didn't you tell me you live in the UK? ucrdem Jun 2013 #36
it was a broad brush smear, you know it, i know it, the whole of DU knows it Monkie Jun 2013 #37
Yes, your title and OP are very broad brush indeed. ucrdem Jun 2013 #38
aaah, you do get my OP after all, why not say so in your previous post then? Monkie Jun 2013 #40
You do such wonderful spins. Its like watching Rove in his heyday. Katashi_itto Jun 2013 #41
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