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last1standing

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41. If she really wants my forgiveness...

Fri Jun 28, 2013, 09:27 PM

Jun 2013

she can have it after she's been forgiven by the people she's harmed and not before. After she settles her lawsuit in favor of the woman her brother sexually harassed with Deen's knowledge I'd be glad to forgive her for that. After she compensates her minority staff for the humiliations and abuse they received through the years, I'll forgiver her for that as well.

Personally, I don't think my forgiveness means a Damned thing when she never actually harmed me but if she wants it so badly then she needs to get it from those she did harm first. I still won't buy the crap she endorses, eat in her restaurants or watch her show* but I will forgive her.

*Of course I never did buy the crap she endorses, eat in her restaurants or watch her show so my boycott should be seen more as good taste than a social statement.

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I'm sorry, President Carter, but I can't forgive Paula Deen. [View all] last1standing Jun 2013 OP

Sorry, but President Carter doesn't need your approval to offer his forgiveness. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #1

+1 n/t npk Jun 2013 #4

Either you misread my post accidentally or intentionally. last1standing Jun 2013 #5

Or, maybe I just don't care to pick at a wound or speak for a former POTUS. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #8

I didn't try to speak for President Carter, who I admire more than any living president. last1standing Jun 2013 #10

This is the video that kind of leaves me thinking that she has a lot of learning Skidmore Jun 2013 #34

She's pretty clueless, isn't she? NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #36

Glad you got that off your chest. bigwillq Jun 2013 #2

Yep. last1standing Jun 2013 #6

Nobody cares what anonymous internet posters forgive or don't forgive. former9thward Jun 2013 #3

Nobody cares what anonymous internet posters think on any subject. last1standing Jun 2013 #7

Agree with all you said. freshwest Jun 2013 #9

Thanks. Others seem to have very strong opinions to the contrary. last1standing Jun 2013 #11

That's life. bigwillq Jun 2013 #12

Disagreement is fine. I'm happy to disagree. last1standing Jun 2013 #14

That's life. bigwillq Jun 2013 #15

Yes they are. last1standing Jun 2013 #16

I get ice cream. bigwillq Jun 2013 #17

Then I hope it tastes good. last1standing Jun 2013 #20

You take a message board way too seriously. bigwillq Jun 2013 #25

Apparently, you care as you continue to respond. last1standing Jun 2013 #26

Good point. bigwillq Jun 2013 #27

Cheers. :) last1standing Jun 2013 #28

It's a custom among some that only the offended can grant forgiveness. Carter is speaking to all. freshwest Jun 2013 #18

I agree with everything you said. last1standing Jun 2013 #23

I think Paula Deen sounds like a racist bully to her employees and I don't forestpath Jun 2013 #13

^^^This^^^ Apophis Jun 2013 #33

He is being a Christian treestar Jun 2013 #19

I can understand that line of thought. last1standing Jun 2013 #21

Along with Freshwest, I agree ChazII Jun 2013 #22

When Baldwin had that rant he showed his true colors and they didn't make a rainbow. last1standing Jun 2013 #24

As long as you don't forgive Robert Byrd, that's fine. TheManInTheMac Jun 2013 #29

I don't but at least there I have some skin in the game. last1standing Jun 2013 #30

Yes. I agree. Thank you. TheManInTheMac Jun 2013 #38

THANK YOU! Everyone...even on DU...ignores Deen's sexual harrassment accusation alp227 Jun 2013 #31

That's the thing. Deen did more than say a bad word, she harmed specific people. last1standing Jun 2013 #35

I was the target of her racism. Apophis Jun 2013 #32

I'm sorry that in 2013 so many still find this genteel bigotry acceptable. last1standing Jun 2013 #37

The only reason she's sorry is because she got caught. Apophis Jun 2013 #40

I'm interested to hear what the African American community thinks about this. stevenleser Jun 2013 #39

If she really wants my forgiveness... last1standing Jun 2013 #41

Paula had Jimmy & Rosalyn on her show a while back. grasswire Jun 2013 #42

R#6 & K for, i LOVE all Dems, and YOU/PresCARTER, but UTUSN Jun 2013 #43