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LanternWaste

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100. Acceptable by whom? You and a close gaggle of friends?

Mon Jul 1, 2013, 04:21 PM

Jul 2013

Acceptable by whom? You and a close gaggle of friends? It may or may not be depending on your own world-experiences. Acceptable by a region, a state, a country or the world? I dunno... I imagine a wee bit of investment of time in research could answer quite satisfactory.

I've never called anyone that myself as I err on the side of safety, and the handful of times I have been called that, it was a "insulting" to me as being called a right-handed glove. It means little to nothing.

A suggestion-- if you're unaware of whether a thing is unacceptable or not, simply don't say/do it. You lose little to nothing in erring on the side if civility.

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Trayvon Martin's friend and a key witness made a lot more sense than you think [View all] Are_grits_groceries Jun 2013 OP

I understood her warrior1 Jun 2013 #1

I had problems not with the speech nadinbrzezinski Jun 2013 #2

Yes... her volume was my issue.. I am surprised they didn't do something to improve the microphone hlthe2b Jun 2013 #5

yep, she doesn't have much dynamic range reusrename Jun 2013 #17

Adding compression Boom Sound 416 Jun 2013 #38

Exactly correct, I think. reusrename Jun 2013 #67

Ok Boom Sound 416 Jun 2013 #68

So is this "Black English" with "different rules" taught in schools? Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #3

wow... your post has so many ugly undercurrents, I don't even know where to start.... hlthe2b Jun 2013 #6

that one was the first I saw using 'Queen's English' bullshit yesterday. n.t Whisp Jun 2013 #9

Oh boy JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #12

Thank you! +1 TeeYiYi Jun 2013 #21

Ditto that! tosh Jun 2013 #23

^ THIS ^ mac56 Jun 2013 #29

It is studied in linguistics courses KurtNYC Jun 2013 #8

The traditional Scottish brogue is pretty impossible. JDPriestly Jun 2013 #22

Were you born this racist or did you have to study for years to achieve it? n/t backscatter712 Jun 2013 #10

I don't give a shit about anyone's skin color. Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #64

yesterday you said you expected all of us to speak the Queen's English CreekDog Jun 2013 #72

There are plenty of Canadian and British DUers Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #74

you said it in a thread about Rachel Jeantel --are you saying she's British or Canadian? CreekDog Jun 2013 #82

So you're saying the female witness is a subject of the queen CreekDog Jun 2013 #94

Are you serious?! American dialect alone has numerous variations. North South East West. JaneyVee Jun 2013 #11

Like, whatever. Deny and Shred Jun 2013 #13

It is a cultural trait. Are_grits_groceries Jun 2013 #14

Yes, it is. knitter4democracy Jun 2013 #15

Interesting. Are_grits_groceries Jun 2013 #16

The answer is the same. knitter4democracy Jun 2013 #19

thank you...there is so much shame, fear, ignorance, misunderstanding and racism noiretextatique Jun 2013 #31

obviouly you know nothing about linguistics noiretextatique Jun 2013 #25

Well bless your heart. nolabear Jun 2013 #27

Yiddish is NOT a vernacular of English. aquart Jun 2013 #42

Agreed. But it is often spoken in combination with English as are the others I mentioned. nolabear Jun 2013 #57

It has different rules in England jberryhill Jun 2013 #30

Take any speech made by President Obama. Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #50

He's a Harvard grad. bravenak Jun 2013 #66

So you expect Rachel to take the stand and speak like President Obama? Scootaloo Jul 2013 #101

My, My... Jazzgirl Jun 2013 #60

I thank you sincerely for your blessing. (nt) Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #65

There are a lot of English dialects. HiddenAgenda63 Jun 2013 #62

you're asking why all black people aren't the same? CreekDog Jun 2013 #71

Why not attempt to train youself to keep your race hatred to yourself, Judi Lynn Jun 2013 #85

No, not a linguistics problem. COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #4

So you think she had a mastery of verb tenses and was lying about what she said? displacedtexan Jun 2013 #18

Did you watch her testimony? I am an experienced COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #43

No. I think she changed her testimony COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #44

Do I think she was changing her testimony COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #96

wtf? reusrename Jun 2013 #20

or her Go Vols Jun 2013 #46

Sure, this and the lie about going to the doctor to avoid the wake. reusrename Jun 2013 #77

she dictated the letter to a friend TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #87

No. I don't consider that a sin. But COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #47

Then you have no understanding of truth or honesty. reusrename Jun 2013 #63

Well, I've spent a whole lot of years watching COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #69

I apologize for sounding confrontational, but it is not a strawman. reusrename Jun 2013 #76

You're absolutely right that nobody tells the truth COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #78

Sure, and we know Zimmerman is a lying sack o' s____. reusrename Jun 2013 #79

I don't "know" anything right now, until I've COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #80

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another person who knows nothing about linguistics noiretextatique Jun 2013 #26

Please enlighten me as to the linguistic issues COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #45

Still waiting to be educated, 'studied COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #95

she never said the word "heard" TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #84

+1 Saphire Jun 2013 #91

Chris Hayes had a linguistics professor on last night to address just this issue, and he K Gardner Jun 2013 #7

There is no such thing as black English and people need to stop saying mfcorey1 Jun 2013 #24

just because some black people reject reality noiretextatique Jun 2013 #28

It has little to do with color jberryhill Jun 2013 #32

acutally...it does. black people have a problem with the vernacular noiretextatique Jun 2013 #33

It is about "color" as much as poverty is jberryhill Jun 2013 #34

i studied linguistics in college noiretextatique Jun 2013 #40

You just made jerrybhill's point. What you describe above is culture not color. nessa Jun 2013 #73

noire JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #36

then perhaps they need to listen noiretextatique Jun 2013 #41

Not going to happen! JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #51

Exactly JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #37

True linguistics study will tap Gullah and other real forms. However, what some like to refer to as mfcorey1 Jun 2013 #53

Is it just the word? JustAnotherGen Jun 2013 #58

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Please, tell us more about what black people do Hugabear Jun 2013 #97

EDUCATE YOURSELF noiretextatique Jul 2013 #98

There damn well is. aquart Jun 2013 #48

Anyone here familiar with Nobel prize winner in linguistics, Noam Chomsky? Mika Jun 2013 #35

Thanks for adding this material. Very interesting. n/t Judi Lynn Jun 2013 #86

Nobel prize in linguistics -I don't think so. aikoaiko Jun 2013 #93

they jumped on her inconsistancies riverwalker Jun 2013 #39

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The early cattlemen of Florida were called Crackers csziggy Jun 2013 #54

All things considered, I too think she did OK... ReRe Jun 2013 #52

"He took advantage of her handicap and grilled her" COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #56

Yeah, for how many hours? ReRe Jun 2013 #59

He was more polite than she was (nt) Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #61

For the love of God, WHAT handicap? COLGATE4 Jun 2013 #70

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I can not stop watching your sig line! I can't even be serious. robinlynne Jun 2013 #55

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Just so I'm sure, is "cracker" racist or not? flvegan Jun 2013 #83

Instead of asking AGG to define it for you, you should take the time to make a case, Judi Lynn Jun 2013 #88

So you don't have an answer then? flvegan Jun 2013 #92

Acceptable by whom? You and a close gaggle of friends? LanternWaste Jul 2013 #100

Can't thank you enough for starting this thread. It needed to be seen. Judi Lynn Jun 2013 #89