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Heddi

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51. The question I have grown rather bored with is the 'so what, do you toss a coin in the morning?"

Tue Jul 23, 2013, 08:59 PM

Jul 2013

yes, because who I fuck, who I'm attracted to comes down to tossing a coin

I've seen it here on DU. People don't "get" bisexuality. I've seen the "do you toss a coin" or "do you just change day to day"...it's ignorance.

I have always been attracted to girls and boys. I remember in KINDERGARTEN for cryinoutloud having a crush on this boy Melvin (he had big hair) and a girl named Stephanie. She reminded me of bambi. I wanted to hold her hand SO BAD.

My first kiss was a girl
My first first base was a girl
my first second base was a girl
but I still liked boys.....what to do, what to do?

No, I don't toss a coin. I'm not confused. I'm actually quite aware of what I want and what i need in my life.

My husband could just have easily be my wife had he been a woman that I fell in love with. I'm lucky that, by being bisexual, I've not limited myself in whom I can fall in love with. The ultimate "open mindedness".

Oh...I'm sure you hear this..."I'm Bi-Curious"...o rly? Well i'm not interested in being your science experiment. You either like the idea of going down on someone of the same gender, or you don't. I have found that the "curiosity" normally lies with the male member of the heterosexual couple...he's "curious" if he can convince his gal to play out his hot lesbo porn fantasies. These girls don't want anything to do with my vagina. Nothing more erotic than getting head from someone who'd rather be eating a toad than...well, you know.

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Are You Monogamish? [View all] last1standing Jul 2013 OP

LOL! I figured this would sink. last1standing Jul 2013 #1

I'm always up for righteous indignation sarisataka Jul 2013 #2

NO! YOU MUST DO AS I WANT, WHEN I WANT YOU TO DO IT! last1standing Jul 2013 #4

lol at the smilie reference, but your right about the thinking that anything different loli phabay Jul 2013 #5

It does show that we liberals aren't necessarily as progressive as we think. last1standing Jul 2013 #10

there is also a jealousy thing going as well, its like there must be sometjing wrong with me loli phabay Jul 2013 #15

good poll, be interesting to see the results if everybody would participate loli phabay Jul 2013 #3

Thanks. I can't imagine too many will answer the poll, though. last1standing Jul 2013 #9

I'm single... Agschmid Jul 2013 #6

question, if you where not single would you prefer monogamy or not loli phabay Jul 2013 #7

I'm a one man kind of man... Agschmid Jul 2013 #8

If I could ask, what do you think of Anthony Weiner? last1standing Jul 2013 #11

I think at this point... Agschmid Jul 2013 #13

From what I've read, married men who cheat are the worst carriers. last1standing Jul 2013 #16

But how many married men... Agschmid Jul 2013 #18

Many married men (and women) cheat with both sexes. last1standing Jul 2013 #21

Monogamish - good word Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #12

I spelled it wrong but yes I like it. Agschmid Jul 2013 #14

yes, it is a most excellent word. Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #17

Dan Savage gets the credit for coining it. last1standing Jul 2013 #19

thanks for the link Tuesday Afternoon Jul 2013 #22

This poll lacks a "polyamorous" option LadyHawkAZ Jul 2013 #20

You're absolutely right! last1standing Jul 2013 #23

Thanks! Fixed my vote! LadyHawkAZ Jul 2013 #24

I hate the term, but my husband and I are "swingers" Heddi Jul 2013 #25

I think you've described the monogamish perspective very well. last1standing Jul 2013 #26

you missed the option of sexually ravenous on your poll if your taking requests loli phabay Jul 2013 #28

Lol! I think that fits under the 'non-catagory' catagory. last1standing Jul 2013 #29

lol im not so sure i want to be in with the uncool kids. ;) loli phabay Jul 2013 #30

The sexually ravenous are never un-cool! last1standing Jul 2013 #31

yeah but now im in the group who only have sex dressed as klingons loli phabay Jul 2013 #34

I can't get it up without my Dr. Who scarf. last1standing Jul 2013 #40

oh crap now im conflicted dr who sex hot klingon sex not loli phabay Jul 2013 #42

It's all hot if you're doing it right. last1standing Jul 2013 #44

i agree this was a very cool reply, thats the thing with people who dont get it loli phabay Jul 2013 #32

Probably a bit of all of the above along with other factors. last1standing Jul 2013 #33

that's just it...we're happy, and it works for us Heddi Jul 2013 #35

pm sent, its okay its not an offer. lol loli phabay Jul 2013 #37

I think it's a conversation that people should have Heddi Jul 2013 #38

I'm Bi as well. last1standing Jul 2013 #43

The question I have grown rather bored with is the 'so what, do you toss a coin in the morning?" Heddi Jul 2013 #51

It's amazing how many 'non-judgmental' people have problems with us. last1standing Jul 2013 #52

great description and good for you loli phabay Jul 2013 #27

Thanks Heddi Jul 2013 #36

Given the amount of cheating going on... Yavin4 Jul 2013 #39

The statistics are somewhat grim for the monogamous lifestyle choice, aren't they? last1standing Jul 2013 #47

HOLY SHIT!! Mitt Romney joined DU and voted for polygomous!! madinmaryland Jul 2013 #41

Actually, a very cool, honest DUer voted polygamous. last1standing Jul 2013 #45

still lacking sexually ravenous imho loli phabay Jul 2013 #46

Maybe that should be listed as "All of the above." last1standing Jul 2013 #48

bingo now you get it loli phabay Jul 2013 #49

lol! You got it. last1standing Jul 2013 #50

"polyamorous" LadyHawkAZ Jul 2013 #53