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pennylane100

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37. I think that there is a lot more than forgivieness involved.

Wed Jul 24, 2013, 07:34 PM

Jul 2013

If my spouse cheated on me, possible I would forgive him, especially iif it were a brief one night affair. However the Weiner situation is a little different.

I have not knowledge or understanding why he would need to do the things he did. I do not know if it is a result of some kind of psychological problems. If so, I would possible be able to forgive him. However I am too repulsed by his actions to ever have him in my life.

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Would your spouse, partner, boyfriend or girlfriend forgive you for doing what Weiner has done? [View all] trumad Jul 2013 OP

My wife would make my life a living hell liberal N proud Jul 2013 #1

Yeah I know... trumad Jul 2013 #3

I wouldn't drag my husband onto a podium to profess his love for me. Happyhippychick Jul 2013 #2

You have a podium? trumad Jul 2013 #5

Now you! Happyhippychick Jul 2013 #8

Huma was not at the resignation... Agschmid Jul 2013 #35

He would forgive me, but he might not to be with me any more... nessa Jul 2013 #4

Not a bit. sakabatou Jul 2013 #6

I have no idea. bunnies Jul 2013 #7

What if he put you in that situation? trumad Jul 2013 #9

If I were her and he were him... bunnies Jul 2013 #12

depends on whether i had permission or not, i still dont know if weiner had permission loli phabay Jul 2013 #10

they went to therapy.. frylock Jul 2013 #20

until she rells us then i dont know, either way. loli phabay Jul 2013 #27

Oh I may find forgiveness. Savannahmann Jul 2013 #11

Probably not. MrSlayer Jul 2013 #13

salty bunnies Jul 2013 #43

I couldn't look my partner in the face if I got caught doing some skeevy shit like that arely staircase Jul 2013 #14

Exactly. Like "everybody does it." Well, everybody Ilsa Jul 2013 #32

Mutually, the answer would be no. nt geek tragedy Jul 2013 #15

Frankly I would not be at all surprized to find Puglover Jul 2013 #16

she sez they went to therapy.. frylock Jul 2013 #21

As I said, do you really think she would say Puglover Jul 2013 #25

i'll go by what she said and leave you to speculate or read between the lines.. frylock Jul 2013 #33

What part of "I would'nt be surprised" blew right past you. I didn't say "I think or I'll bet that.. Puglover Jul 2013 #38

i really couldn't give two shits myself.. frylock Jul 2013 #40

And I guess I think Puglover Jul 2013 #42

If she wasn't publicly embarrassed in the process... probably Sen. Walter Sobchak Jul 2013 #17

Better question, Do they want you to do what he did? Coyotl Jul 2013 #18

I couldn't imagine vankuria Jul 2013 #19

For what Weiner's done with at least 7 different women? Absofuckinglutely not. n/t cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #22

maybe in 30 or 40 years. rurallib Jul 2013 #23

Flip the genders... backscatter712 Jul 2013 #24

Nope Puzzledtraveller Jul 2013 #26

Possibly the first time etherealtruth Jul 2013 #28

my wife? not a chance. DCBob Jul 2013 #29

Forgive? Not a chance. I'd hear about it forever. FarCenter Jul 2013 #30

"Fool me once..." certainly not for a second episode. nt Ilsa Jul 2013 #31

Maybe if I took her to a nice dinner at the Olive Garden (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #34

Your wife has rotten taste taterguy Jul 2013 #41

He needs to go deal with his issues Horse with no Name Jul 2013 #36

I think that there is a lot more than forgivieness involved. pennylane100 Jul 2013 #37

It wouldn't be a harm/forgiveness issue LadyHawkAZ Jul 2013 #39

I'm not dumb enough to try and find out. Fla_Democrat Jul 2013 #44

So? My wife is not Wiener's wife rustydog Jul 2013 #45