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LadyHawkAZ

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39. It wouldn't be a harm/forgiveness issue

Reply to trumad (Original post)

Wed Jul 24, 2013, 07:44 PM

Jul 2013

because nothing has happened that needs forgiving. Either it's accepted or or they get kicked to the curb, this is all discussed and agreed to at the beginning of my relationships. People who are so insecure/possessive that they can't handle no-contact chats, nevermind full-contact sex, are not welcome in my life.

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Would your spouse, partner, boyfriend or girlfriend forgive you for doing what Weiner has done? [View all] trumad Jul 2013 OP

My wife would make my life a living hell liberal N proud Jul 2013 #1

Yeah I know... trumad Jul 2013 #3

I wouldn't drag my husband onto a podium to profess his love for me. Happyhippychick Jul 2013 #2

You have a podium? trumad Jul 2013 #5

Now you! Happyhippychick Jul 2013 #8

Huma was not at the resignation... Agschmid Jul 2013 #35

He would forgive me, but he might not to be with me any more... nessa Jul 2013 #4

Not a bit. sakabatou Jul 2013 #6

I have no idea. bunnies Jul 2013 #7

What if he put you in that situation? trumad Jul 2013 #9

If I were her and he were him... bunnies Jul 2013 #12

depends on whether i had permission or not, i still dont know if weiner had permission loli phabay Jul 2013 #10

they went to therapy.. frylock Jul 2013 #20

until she rells us then i dont know, either way. loli phabay Jul 2013 #27

Oh I may find forgiveness. Savannahmann Jul 2013 #11

Probably not. MrSlayer Jul 2013 #13

salty bunnies Jul 2013 #43

I couldn't look my partner in the face if I got caught doing some skeevy shit like that arely staircase Jul 2013 #14

Exactly. Like "everybody does it." Well, everybody Ilsa Jul 2013 #32

Mutually, the answer would be no. nt geek tragedy Jul 2013 #15

Frankly I would not be at all surprized to find Puglover Jul 2013 #16

she sez they went to therapy.. frylock Jul 2013 #21

As I said, do you really think she would say Puglover Jul 2013 #25

i'll go by what she said and leave you to speculate or read between the lines.. frylock Jul 2013 #33

What part of "I would'nt be surprised" blew right past you. I didn't say "I think or I'll bet that.. Puglover Jul 2013 #38

i really couldn't give two shits myself.. frylock Jul 2013 #40

And I guess I think Puglover Jul 2013 #42

If she wasn't publicly embarrassed in the process... probably Sen. Walter Sobchak Jul 2013 #17

Better question, Do they want you to do what he did? Coyotl Jul 2013 #18

I couldn't imagine vankuria Jul 2013 #19

For what Weiner's done with at least 7 different women? Absofuckinglutely not. n/t cherokeeprogressive Jul 2013 #22

maybe in 30 or 40 years. rurallib Jul 2013 #23

Flip the genders... backscatter712 Jul 2013 #24

Nope Puzzledtraveller Jul 2013 #26

Possibly the first time etherealtruth Jul 2013 #28

my wife? not a chance. DCBob Jul 2013 #29

Forgive? Not a chance. I'd hear about it forever. FarCenter Jul 2013 #30

"Fool me once..." certainly not for a second episode. nt Ilsa Jul 2013 #31

Maybe if I took her to a nice dinner at the Olive Garden (nt) Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #34

Your wife has rotten taste taterguy Jul 2013 #41

He needs to go deal with his issues Horse with no Name Jul 2013 #36

I think that there is a lot more than forgivieness involved. pennylane100 Jul 2013 #37

It wouldn't be a harm/forgiveness issue LadyHawkAZ Jul 2013 #39

I'm not dumb enough to try and find out. Fla_Democrat Jul 2013 #44

So? My wife is not Wiener's wife rustydog Jul 2013 #45