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rbnyc

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4. Recently, I posted something...

Thu Jul 25, 2013, 07:48 AM

Jul 2013

...that was generally well received, but in no way above criticism. Two people had the same general contention with my post. One person said something like, "Might I suggest...." and made the point. And then went on to describe an area where we had common ground. Her contention was indeed valid, and her style made it easy for me to see that. Later, someone else had the same issue, but basically yelled at me and attacked my character. He self deleted and tried again, but even though I'd pretty much already conceded the point, we were never able to really move away from opposition.

Style matters.

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I would like to request a level of civility in our discussions here. [View all] ejpoeta Jul 2013 OP

Thank you, I agree. n/t customerserviceguy Jul 2013 #1

I don't have a problem with the disrespect, but I have..issues Half-Century Man Jul 2013 #2

disrespect is the issue handmade34 Jul 2013 #27

Two individuals can say to each other "I think you show no evidence of being able to think" Half-Century Man Jul 2013 #43

In some threads I think it is done on purpose to derail the discussion. nt Mojorabbit Jul 2013 #82

I think so as well Half-Century Man Jul 2013 #83

I agree. geckosfeet Jul 2013 #3

Recently, I posted something... rbnyc Jul 2013 #4

so true. if you are trying to persuade someone to your point, you don't want to ejpoeta Jul 2013 #6

It's the unthoughtful, knee-jerk replys cheapdate Jul 2013 #5

Yes, shoving words into other people's mouths is particularly egregious emulatorloo Jul 2013 #10

That, above all else... pipi_k Jul 2013 #20

Yes. The Snowden threads are full of it treestar Jul 2013 #39

Yes. One of the great benefits of DU for me cheapdate Jul 2013 #59

thus I no longer log in deacon_sephiroth Jul 2013 #7

I am sorry to hear that. I see it all the time too. Actually, I went away for awhile and came back ejpoeta Jul 2013 #8

+1 JNelson6563 Jul 2013 #9

My wife (ChickMagic, RIP) was a staunch atheist who did her best to keep that in check derby378 Jul 2013 #81

welcome to the world wide web datasuspect Jul 2013 #11

Since before the internet zipplewrath Jul 2013 #16

we can go all the way back to scribblings on truck stop bathroom stalls datasuspect Jul 2013 #24

This was lately translated... rrneck Jul 2013 #57

Your poutrage is duly noted. valerief Jul 2013 #12

So I take it you are just fine with RACIAL PROFILING. emulatorloo Jul 2013 #14

LOL! oldhippie Jul 2013 #28

This one made me laugh LearningCurve Jul 2013 #53

Irony noted. nt valerief Jul 2013 #69

"Poutrage" being exactly the kind of snide language the OP was talking about villager Jul 2013 #76

Sorry, but I prefer the 'non-civil' discussion. Dawgs Jul 2013 #13

Post removed Post removed Jul 2013 #17

Would alert your post, but as I said, I'm not afraid of these types of comments. Dawgs Jul 2013 #37

Apparently, somebody is. TreasonousBastard Jul 2013 #45

Good Lord! oldhippie Jul 2013 #48

Amazing, isn't it? TreasonousBastard Jul 2013 #49

People don't seem to read the posts around the alert. Agschmid Jul 2013 #63

Here's your first mistake: Writing "DON'T." WinkyDink Jul 2013 #15

This message was self-deleted by its author zipplewrath Jul 2013 #18

Good luck with that. 99Forever Jul 2013 #19

I think it's possible pipi_k Jul 2013 #26

The problem you and the OP don't seem to get... 99Forever Jul 2013 #78

"Intolerance betrays H2O Man Jul 2013 #21

Intolerance of what? GeorgeGist Jul 2013 #70

Your putting things lightly... Lancero Jul 2013 #22

I have been close to giving up on DU, and I've been here since Oct. 2004. In fact, I credit DU and CTyankee Jul 2013 #23

Don't give me that, you snotty-nosed heap of parrot droppings! riqster Jul 2013 #25

Please try not to piss off the stupid asshole moronic sociopath immature Paulbot asscarrot trolls. L0oniX Jul 2013 #40

this is also why I don't come on any more Coolest Ranger Jul 2013 #29

oh heaven05 Jul 2013 #32

Gotta Disagree RobinA Jul 2013 #66

gimme heaven05 Jul 2013 #67

Sorry Ranger libodem Jul 2013 #35

Sorry for that, it's not fair. Agschmid Jul 2013 #64

To a certain extent I agree. With Reservations Savannahmann Jul 2013 #30

Well said, Savannahmann. mountain grammy Jul 2013 #34

I will call out crap when I see it joeglow3 Jul 2013 #31

anything heaven05 Jul 2013 #33

Someone actually said that? TreasonousBastard Jul 2013 #46

No one is questioning the accident... one_voice Jul 2013 #65

Agree onlyadream Jul 2013 #36

Good post and I agree, but, honestly, I don't see such widespred inciviltiy here.. mountain grammy Jul 2013 #38

Even democratic gun owners? oneshooter Jul 2013 #41

I'm a Democratic gun owner, so, yes! mountain grammy Jul 2013 #54

I heaven05 Jul 2013 #50

and I mountain grammy Jul 2013 #55

If somebody says the Sanford Police department staged a rollover with kids involved on a busy hwy snooper2 Jul 2013 #42

Well, here's one presumably legitimate story about it... TreasonousBastard Jul 2013 #44

oh please heaven05 Jul 2013 #51

Huh? I'm missing something here. TreasonousBastard Jul 2013 #62

The jury system is a joke. That is most the problem. n-t Logical Jul 2013 #47

Every time I come on DU PasadenaTrudy Jul 2013 #52

Being victim of constant abuse nadinbrzezinski Jul 2013 #56

stalking and harassment directed especially at you, Catherina and Cali carolinayellowdog Jul 2013 #60

Oh some of us have suspicions nadinbrzezinski Jul 2013 #61

The ends don't justify the means. rrneck Jul 2013 #58

R#47 & K for, it's startling to see gratuitous f-bombing, like their opinions are so sterling that UTUSN Jul 2013 #68

In this era of the jury system on DU, LWolf Jul 2013 #71

I personally think there's WAY too much alerting going on. We should be able to chimpymustgo Jul 2013 #74

I agree. It's pretty obvious that a lot of alerts are attempts to silence people for their ideas... JVS Jul 2013 #75

I agree that alerts should not be about political differences. LWolf Jul 2013 #79

kick again Pretzel_Warrior Jul 2013 #72

Agreed! Also, I'd like to see some fact-checking jazzimov Jul 2013 #73

good luck - but there are so many crabasses here ZRT2209 Jul 2013 #77

oh yeah? PD Turk Jul 2013 #80

I have been trying personally arely staircase Jul 2013 #84

As long as paid shills, Caver trolls and their sockpuppets are allowed here, civility won't exist. backscatter712 Jul 2013 #85

Well said, too many people here playing gotcha rl6214 Jul 2013 #86

The discourse matches the state of the union mick063 Jul 2013 #87

that's what the ignore button is for, and I'm not kidding. I still have people I disagree with liberal_at_heart Jul 2013 #88

Here's a quote that describes why it'll never happen Corruption Inc Jul 2013 #89