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2naSalit

(103,059 posts)
7. Interesting question
Thu Jul 25, 2013, 03:23 PM
Jul 2013

To which I might offer some thoughts that came up in Anthropology class discussions...

Women have a lot invested in their role as the ones who carry the weight of giving birth while men have little invested (also a possible reason for the dead-beat dad syndrome). This is not an attempt to denigrate the involvement of men in this process but women carry that child internally for nearly a year during gestation, for men - biologically- it's a few minutes and a physical release and it's a done deal. And afterward in most cultures the female component of this mating, if you will, also carry the burden of responsibility of the health and well being of the offspring and contribution to their assimilation into the culture.

Because of this cost of being the ones who give birth and, in most cultures, also carry the burden of raising the children they give birth to (and often those whom they did not bear but care for all the same) which requires compassion and concern for health and well-being... a sense of the costs of death, dismemberment and the caring for the wounded and the grieving.

Women have an innate sense of the value of life (yes there are women who do not but they are few in comparison to those who do and compared to the male population).

How many women can you count throughout history who have been responsible for declarations of war and execution of the war(s)? And compare that to men.

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I'd be hard pressed to offer any hypothesis that didn't seem insulting to some men. hlthe2b Jul 2013 #1
My idea? Lancero Jul 2013 #22
Maybe we prefer our violence to be up close and personal Warpy Jul 2013 #28
A few possibilities... TreasonousBastard Jul 2013 #2
I like this answer. hamsterjill Jul 2013 #4
Maybe because so many are mothers and women, traditionally, aren't sinkingfeeling Jul 2013 #3
Because they are more thoughtful than we are and I admire that about them... AllINeedIsCoffee Jul 2013 #5
If I approved of war, LWolf Jul 2013 #6
Interesting question 2naSalit Jul 2013 #7
They're more averse to indiscriminate murder? burnodo Jul 2013 #8
Why are there more male serial killers? bunnies Jul 2013 #9
Maybe they're less enamored with Spirochete Jul 2013 #10
empathy. nt La Lioness Priyanka Jul 2013 #11
Because it's a form of violence nt geek tragedy Jul 2013 #12
leftover traditional gender roles treestar Jul 2013 #13
What's wrong with women? Doesn't everybody like violence? bemildred Jul 2013 #14
Awesome+1 whatchamacallit Jul 2013 #16
This contrived bullshit pisses me off. bemildred Jul 2013 #17
Yep whatchamacallit Jul 2013 #19
Because most of them don't feel the need to prove they're "tough" by applauding murder. Tierra_y_Libertad Jul 2013 #15
+1 forestpath Jul 2013 #23
Women bring life into the world, carrying it for 9 months, MineralMan Jul 2013 #18
Actually, I am curious of other breakdowns Xyzse Jul 2013 #20
because the drone murderers are all men? nt msongs Jul 2013 #21
I would bet women oppose war more than men do as well BainsBane Jul 2013 #24
They are smarter nt G_j Jul 2013 #25
women by nature Niceguy1 Jul 2013 #26
Men are idiots. I say this as a man. Ed Suspicious Jul 2013 #27
Because we don't have a need to look like manly masculine men. WinkyDink Jul 2013 #29
Growing up female... pipi_k Jul 2013 #30
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