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sofa king

(10,857 posts)
17. I don't want to sound like a dick, but...
Wed Jul 31, 2013, 02:11 PM
Jul 2013

... I think that knowledge would be much more likely to cause harm than to help.

I don't think it is wise or fair to provide that information to the parent. I think most parents would act disproportionately and irrationally to such information--to the detriment of their own children and to the sex offender.

If the recidivism examples given by other posters above are true--apparently less than one percent?!--then we already have a rather firm Constitutional duty to leave sex offenders alone after they have served their debt to society.

The fact that they continue to be punished perpetually by being added to sex offender lists speaks more to the illusion of freedom and the rule of law in our society than it does to anything else.

I would also like to point out that if we're going to be making offender lists, why in the hell don't we have an automobile thief list, and other lists of offenders guilty of crimes that are commonly repeated by those convicted like mugging, burglary, and weapons trafficking (yes, weapons trafficking has a 70% recidivism rate, according to the Bureau of Justice Statistics) ?

Car thieves have a recidivism rate of around seventy-percent. Wouldn't you like to know that you have a car thief living next door to your '69 COPO Camaro? Because that guy is nearly two orders of magnitude more likely to steal your car than a convicted sex offender is likely to harm your children.

The reason most people don't want that is because they can successfully separate their emotional reaction from their rational thoughts on the subject. Parents--maybe especially the good parents--probably cannot do that about sex offenders.

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I'm with the woman on this one. The guy raped a child. Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #1
If you read through the comments, he was 14 and she was 12 Xithras Jul 2013 #13
OK, that does make a difference. But I think I would still want to know, in this case. Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #15
I'd have a bigger problem with the face that it was rape, and not the age of the victim. Xithras Jul 2013 #16
Sex offender registries have proved more harmful than helpful overall. Jackpine Radical Jul 2013 #2
Don't rape children. Problem solved. Nuclear Unicorn Jul 2013 #3
Nor rape anyone else. Jackpine Radical Jul 2013 #5
How much sympathy am I required to maintain on behalf of people who rape child? Nuclear Unicorn Jul 2013 #6
So I know a rapist is next door but not a murderer? Idiotic! n-t Logical Jul 2013 #18
List both. Nuclear Unicorn Jul 2013 #27
WTF? What state lists murderers? n-t Logical Jul 2013 #30
I didn't say they did. I'm saying I'm not opposed to listing violent felons, sexual or otherwise. nt Nuclear Unicorn Jul 2013 #31
It is true. I think the stigma stays with the person as long as that person is on the list. Mr. David Jul 2013 #4
There is no rehabilitation from an actual sexual predator Pelican Jul 2013 #7
Cognitive behavioral therapy and group therapy actually do work. NuclearDem Jul 2013 #9
The "just shoot 'em all!" mentality just makes things worse. Dash87 Jul 2013 #19
+10000 NuclearDem Jul 2013 #8
If you had kids, would you do anything differently if you knew a child rapist lived next door? Nye Bevan Jul 2013 #10
Me thinks thou who protest ---errr up above...have no kids. trumad Jul 2013 #11
darn tooting. loli phabay Jul 2013 #14
Easy solution: don't leave my kids unsupervised around strangers and tell them to be cautious NuclearDem Jul 2013 #12
I don't want to sound like a dick, but... sofa king Jul 2013 #17
Wait, why can't we have mugger and car thief lists? JVS Jul 2013 #20
Post removed Post removed Jul 2013 #21
Oh, I see what you're getting at. NuclearDem Jul 2013 #23
He asked a question and I offered a solution joeglow3 Jul 2013 #26
No, you blatantly misrepresented what he was talking about. NuclearDem Jul 2013 #29
Why should she decide how much I know about the risk my neighbors pose to my car? JVS Jul 2013 #24
So, u believe in an all or nothing solution? Black or white? Zero tolerance? No thinking involved? joeglow3 Jul 2013 #25
Maybe you should do less assuming and answer my question. JVS Jul 2013 #28
Depending on the state, year, and specific study, SOs have a recidivism rate of anywhere from NuclearDem Jul 2013 #22
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