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Showing Original Post only (View all)Today, 37 percent of men age thirty have never lived away from home [View all]
How Clinging to Mommy and Daddy Is Ruining a Generation
As children grow up and venture out into the world, the transition from a bustling household to an empty one can be difficult so, why not skip it all together? Thats what millions of families are doing, not just in the U.S., but across many developed countries. In Italy, the culture of mammismo or mammas boys, is widely accepted today, 37 percent of men age thirty have never lived away from home. In Japan, parasite singles are chastised in the media for depending on mom and dad, but having few other options, they do it anyway.
In the U.S. the proportion of people age 30 to 34 living with their parents has grown by 50 percent since the 1970s, and the recession has only made things worse. In 2010, over 5.5 million young adults moved back home with their parents, a 15 percent increase from 2007. The shift is so widespread, parenting guides for this stage of life are even starting to crop up, like the recent How to Raise Your Adult Children. Author Katherine S. Newman explores the effects of this growing phenomenon in The Accordion Family: Boomerang Kids, Anxious Parents, and the Private Toll of Global Competition, and talks with The Fiscal Times about the troubling future consequences of this new family structure.
As children grow up and venture out into the world, the transition from a bustling household to an empty one can be difficult so, why not skip it all together? Thats what millions of families are doing, not just in the U.S., but across many developed countries. In Italy, the culture of mammismo or mammas boys, is widely accepted today, 37 percent of men age thirty have never lived away from home. In Japan, parasite singles are chastised in the media for depending on mom and dad, but having few other options, they do it anyway.
In the U.S. the proportion of people age 30 to 34 living with their parents has grown by 50 percent since the 1970s, and the recession has only made things worse. In 2010, over 5.5 million young adults moved back home with their parents, a 15 percent increase from 2007. The shift is so widespread, parenting guides for this stage of life are even starting to crop up, like the recent How to Raise Your Adult Children. Author Katherine S. Newman explores the effects of this growing phenomenon in The Accordion Family: Boomerang Kids, Anxious Parents, and the Private Toll of Global Competition, and talks with The Fiscal Times about the troubling future consequences of this new family structure.
http://www.thefiscaltimes.com/Articles/2012/02/08/How-Clinging-to-Mommy-and-Daddy-is-Ruining-a-Generation.aspx#page1
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apples and oranges
Feb 2012
OP
The Italian figure is significantly higher for men than women - about twice as much
muriel_volestrangler
Feb 2012
#14
My Irish cousins never left home before being married in their late 20's, early 30's.
Snake Alchemist
Feb 2012
#6
You can thank the sending of American jobs overseas for all the stay-at-home sons nowadays.
Zalatix
Feb 2012
#18
Is there a limited number of jobs in the world and a number assigned to each country at all times?
treestar
Feb 2012
#32
I have your one-issue wonder right here, buddy. My statements are 100% on the mark.
Zalatix
Feb 2012
#35
No, I did NOT say that. However, it's by far the BIGGEST factor, by the sheer number of jobs lost.
Zalatix
Feb 2012
#52
This ignores the reality that a lot of young people are staying home partially to *help.*
antigone382
Feb 2012
#21
And each generation of old people seems more cranky and crotchety than the last, too.
Warren DeMontague
Feb 2012
#38
it simply cost a lot more money to move out and get a place of your own -and proportionally housing
Douglas Carpenter
Feb 2012
#10
While the job market is certainly a factor--I had to move in with my parents for a while
Lydia Leftcoast
Feb 2012
#20
I don't necessarily see it as a negative that family-members stay in close contact after separating.
antigone382
Feb 2012
#24
After I graduated from college my mother gave me six months to find a job and get out
taught_me_patience
Feb 2012
#39