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frazzled

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7. Maybe not looked down on, but certainly not appreciated either
Thu Aug 1, 2013, 12:26 AM
Aug 2013

I remember when my son's computer science team won 2nd place in a prestigious international computer science competition that was held in Canada that year (we're talking teams from Russia, China, Europe, everywhere). Their success barely even got a mention in the school newspaper, buried in two sentences on an inside page, while the regular-season games in football, track, and other sports overwhelmed the front page with large stories and pictures.

There are pep rallies and lots of school spirit for sports in our schools, and the kids who participate and excel at that are looked at as heroes and get lots of accolades. But the kids on the math team or who participate in other academic competitions or pursuits, or who play in the orchestra, get ... bupkus. (And I'm not just talking about from the other kids, but from the administration and faculty as well.)

It's kind of sad. At least until you look at the kids 15 years later. Then you feel sorry for the football players.

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This message was self-deleted by its author LumosMaxima Aug 2013 #1
The media doesn't help either Rosa Luxemburg Aug 2013 #2
Not true for me, my husband, elleng Aug 2013 #3
In my day it was different Rosa Luxemburg Aug 2013 #5
Yes, elleng Aug 2013 #6
How many kids have ever seen the inside of a public library? theHandpuppet Aug 2013 #4
Maybe not looked down on, but certainly not appreciated either frazzled Aug 2013 #7
Yes. murielm99 Aug 2013 #8
In my experience, there is a tendency towards student segregation... Blasphemer Aug 2013 #9
Not a new thing Marrah_G Aug 2013 #10
It's always been that way, as long as I remember. Archae Aug 2013 #11
that is the way it has always been, not that it's right. liberal_at_heart Aug 2013 #12
My granddaughter was "Athlete of the Year" Downwinder Aug 2013 #13
Depends... dkf Aug 2013 #14
My daughter had lots of over achiever friends. liberal_at_heart Aug 2013 #17
The Alphas learn quickly they are different from Betas and Gammas Generic Other Aug 2013 #15
For Asian kids the peer pressure is to do well in school. dkf Aug 2013 #16
yes, they are under pressure too. Just the opposite kind of pressure. They are under pressure liberal_at_heart Aug 2013 #19
It's not looked down upon, but chances are that person won't be that popular. reformist2 Aug 2013 #18
It's always been that way even when I was in high school in the fifties. Cleita Aug 2013 #20
The teaching profession is not respected in this country. Starry Messenger Aug 2013 #21
'Jocks' are popular RedCappedBandit Aug 2013 #22
My experience at my kids' school district so far has been great. MissB Aug 2013 #23
That's good Rosa Luxemburg Aug 2013 #24
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