Reminder: Don't mock panhandlers on the subway

[smirkymonkey]

51. I live in Manhattan and in my neighborhood I know most of the homeless, and I

often give them money, soemtimes change, sometimes a few dollars. On days when I am a little strapped I will just tell them "sorry, i can't today" and wish them a good day. None of them have ever been aggressive with me and they always tell me to have a good day or say "god bless you" (not that I am religious, but it's the thought that counts) or something along those lines.

They know that if I had it, I would give them money or food and when I don't I still treat them kindly and talk to them. New York is a big city, but every neighborhood is almost like a village and people tend to take care of each other - especially in certain neighborhoods.

The subway can get a little crazier, so I am not quite as open, but I use my judgement - If someone looks dangerous or heavily under the influence I keep my head down, but if they seem helpless and just desperately in need, I will usually give something, especially if they are displaying a talent.