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truedelphi

(32,324 posts)
Wed Feb 22, 2012, 04:17 PM Feb 2012

My sad tale, and why abortion issue is not about deciding [View all]

anything. Nor is it about morality.


The abortion issue is instead about a woman's right to survive should she become pregnant. Once the anti-abortion crowd gets its way, no woman is safe at all, if she is of child-bearing age.

She is not even safe from her body's own biological processes.

Take that from me. Back in the early 1970's in Illinois, as a very naive, somewhat pro-Life 20 year old, I became pregnant. I found out I was pregnant on Feb 15th of that year. Before my husband and I could "decide" anything, my body rejected the pregnancy. I started bleeding while I was walking home from work. At that point, I had known I was pregnant for all of six hours.

The local hospital refused to admit me as a patient, when I arrived by ambulance at 2Am. Even though I was hemorrhaging.

The ER doctors examining me seemed more interested in interrogating my husband about what I "had done" prior to the start of my bleeding, than in handling my situation.

So they sent me home. Later on, I found out that the hospital might have lost its license if they admitted a pregnant woman who has self-aborted.

I would have died, if not for the strange fact that my mother called our house at 6Am that day. (She calls me evenings or afternoons, not Am's.) When she found out from Jim what was happening, she showed up at my house, and got me to the hospital where my long time pediatrician practiced. Within 45 minutes of my arrival, I was undergoing a D & C.

If that had not happened, I would not currently be occupying my office chair, but pushing up daisies in a cemetery somewhere in Illinois.

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Of course, since that time, the laws in the nation have changed. truedelphi Feb 2012 #1
These low-intellect creatures have been taught The Doctor. Feb 2012 #2
Death get the red out Feb 2012 #3
The wingnuts wouldn't understand that even with as clear an explanation as you provided. HopeHoops Feb 2012 #4
Just you watch Canuckistanian Feb 2012 #5
K&R varelse Feb 2012 #6
K&R and a.... riderinthestorm Feb 2012 #7
My next door neighbor when I was a kid wasn't so lucky eridani Feb 2012 #8
Eridani, I am truedelphi Feb 2012 #10
You really nailed that one! eridani Feb 2012 #19
k&r n/t RainDog Feb 2012 #9
It is about exactly what you say, but it's also about deciding Major Nikon Feb 2012 #11
((Hugs)) pecwae Feb 2012 #12
every story in this thread is IMPORTANT k&r BlancheSplanchnik Feb 2012 #13
Thank-you for sharing vankuria Feb 2012 #14
My mom had the same experience Aerows Feb 2012 #15
Why is it . . . Brigid Feb 2012 #16
they really don't care--and they hate women enough to not mind women dying at all niyad Feb 2012 #17
As a woman, that is how it makes me feel. IndyJones Feb 2012 #18
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