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pitohui

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51. you have an interesting definition of successful

Sat Dec 17, 2011, 09:42 PM

Dec 2011

i judge based on evidence not on what a news reporter tells me to think and if a woman is not missed by anyone for 3 years she is of course not successful, this is proof positive that it literally did not matter to anyone at all whether or not she existed at all

there was no job she did that needed done, no person who loved her that needed attention -- no one at all on a planet of 7 billion people

she may (but probably wasn't, again based on the evidence of people's actions) been "beautiful" but she was most certainly a failure

if she had LIVED those 3 years and no one came looking to give her a job or a contract or a contact or even noticed whether she lived or died, you would admit that she was a failure, i'm not saying it's her fault she was a failure, there are more people than jobs that need doing, but she was not a success

if you want to be needed, create a need, if there is nothing you can do that anyone would, ever, in 3 years, think of calling you to do, you are not a success and you need to change something

i'm sorry she's dead but it's apparent we are not getting the true story here

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Dead for 3 years and nobody notices...If you disappeared, would anyone come looking for you?... [View all] HipChick Dec 2011 OP

Wouldn't the employer notice? treestar Dec 2011 #1

No..not from work....they would classify it as Job Abandonment and fire the person HipChick Dec 2011 #5

"Dying without permission" --- Just cause for termination. lpbk2713 Dec 2011 #7

lol treestar Dec 2011 #31

Whoah treestar Dec 2011 #30

Doesn't have to be a lone family survivor either NNN0LHI Dec 2011 #8

Post behind the front door muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #13

In the UK, the Royal Mail puts the letters inside a flap on the front door..no mail box to speak of HipChick Dec 2011 #16

I admit.. I haven't spoken to my brother for 8rs...his wife is a witch HipChick Dec 2011 #18

There's a lot in the Guardian link; it sounds like she wasn't working muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #12

Not in my house. Even if I WAS dead, somebody would be expecting me to get up and do something. HopeHoops Dec 2011 #2

LOL! Same here! n/t Little Star Dec 2011 #14

Yep ... my death would not be allowed etherealtruth Dec 2011 #34

Same here, except that it's because I couldn't afford it. gtar100 Dec 2011 #55

That, too etherealtruth Dec 2011 #58

Jesus, me too. When they noticed not a damn thing was getting done and they did not want to do it, Nay Dec 2011 #41

Three reasons why Jesus was a woman eridani Dec 2011 #46

Similar to this (very sad) story from July: Blue_Tires Dec 2011 #3

Bill collectors... hlthe2b Dec 2011 #4

Speaking of bills, what of rent or mortgage? treestar Dec 2011 #32

Wow. How can something like this happen? 3 YEARS and no one notices? cleanhippie Dec 2011 #6

How sad. 2bfree Dec 2011 #9

We had one near home sharp_stick Dec 2011 #10

3 years and the TV is still on? RC Dec 2011 #11

All the bills were paid via direct debit.. HipChick Dec 2011 #15

A housing association (ie non-profit) bedsit muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #17

In the UK, housing associations on co-ops may not exist.. HipChick Dec 2011 #20

No, it was a housing association muriel_volestrangler Dec 2011 #21

Sad, but I imagine people die all the time unnoticed. closeupready Dec 2011 #19

ex teacher of mine was dead for pretty much an entire winter before anyone noticed themadstork Dec 2011 #24

I was thinking more in terms of homeless people or the mentally ill. closeupready Dec 2011 #33

Sad and strange story. bluedigger Dec 2011 #22

Isn't that a pre exsisting condition? Lint Head Dec 2011 #23

Three YEARS? If I don't answer my phone in three MINUTES all hell breaks loose. PassingFair Dec 2011 #25

Here's a link to a story of man dead for 20 years and no one noticed. Swede Dec 2011 #26

three years of not paying rent and--how could the TV still be going after three years? WI_DEM Dec 2011 #27

It was all paid for...by Housing Association HipChick Dec 2011 #35

Broadcast TV in an apartment, sure, why not? ThomWV Dec 2011 #53

only my condo assoc when i didn't pay the quarterly maintenance. eom ellenfl Dec 2011 #28

This message was self-deleted by its author Obamanaut Dec 2011 #29

interesting dembotoz Dec 2011 #36

I did notice a kind of rotten smell but the bins downstairs are strong and the stairwells smell HipChick Dec 2011 #38

a couple of years ago JitterbugPerfume Dec 2011 #37

This happened in my family on the east coast in the 80's, Sen. Walter Sobchak Dec 2011 #39

I worry about this myself. Curmudgeoness Dec 2011 #40

Why worry? I don't see how it matters. aletier_v Dec 2011 #45

It just seems so sad. Curmudgeoness Dec 2011 #47

Sad. I've had thought a landlord, or lender would come looking if a rent or mortgage payment Liberty Belle Dec 2011 #42

Nikki on lunaticunderground.com / godlikeproductions.com aletier_v Dec 2011 #43

Your creditors would notice. thescreaminghead Dec 2011 #44

If you had read the articles linked tammywammy Dec 2011 #49

once again - the TV still on. Another death not discovered for years - the TV was still one. Liberal_in_LA Dec 2011 #48

Yes, I think people would notice tammywammy Dec 2011 #50

you have an interesting definition of successful pitohui Dec 2011 #51

I am retiring at the end of the month, so I will have no employer to notice my absence. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2011 #52

You have cats?? liberaltrucker Dec 2011 #56

Doesn't matter to me liberaltrucker Dec 2011 #54

longest i'd sit is two days, three absolute tops fizzgig Dec 2011 #57