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pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
28. Kudos on
Thu Aug 8, 2013, 06:46 PM
Aug 2013
They also chose cloth diapers, so of course I stocked them up with a big supply of various new all-in-ones, pocket diapers and about 6 dozen unbleached organic prefolds as well..to save them the expense of buying them.


The cloth diapers!

I saw a news item a week or two ago stating that many poor women have taken to re-using disposable diapers...drying the ones that are only wet...or leaving their kids in them too long...because they're so expensive.

So the discussion went in this direction...A: So why don't women use cloth diapers instead?

B: Well, they do cost more at the start, but over the long run they are cheaper....HOWEVER...many women don't have washers and dryers, and laundromats don't allow the washing of dirty diapers in their machines.

Which sounds like we should pity the women for their "plight" except for this...

I asked my mom last week how she dealt with my dirty diapers when I was a baby, some 60 years ago. She and my dad lived in a crummy two room apartment...no washer or dryer.

Her answer...she washed them BY HAND in the bathtub with detergent, bleach, and a washboard.

If women did that even half the time, their kids wouldn't have to sit around in recycled, pissy diapers

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guilting and shaming have become the latest tool in converting people to whatever cause someone is liberal_at_heart Aug 2013 #1
Bravo. Well said. RebelOne Aug 2013 #2
I failed at nursing my firstborn but was wildly successful with my second and third babies... CTyankee Aug 2013 #3
women aren't cows ... and breastfeeding isn't quite as natural as breathing ... srican69 Aug 2013 #4
She ever had any of them question her? Just Saying Aug 2013 #7
I tried with my 2nd and 3rd child Worried senior Aug 2013 #5
It's not for everybody, that's for certain Warpy Aug 2013 #6
I agree. Aristus Aug 2013 #8
Shaming doesn't accomplish what's intended Cairycat Aug 2013 #9
+1 nt Tree-Hugger Aug 2013 #16
"Breastfeeding is also healthier for mothers" NickB79 Aug 2013 #20
I was intolerant of breast milk Dash87 Aug 2013 #10
I couldn't agree more; what works best for the woman and her child is not my business. REP Aug 2013 #11
I remember reading about a father at a grocery store kiva Aug 2013 #12
That's awesome! Just Saying Aug 2013 #13
Beautiful. I did something similar once, and it felt good. Hekate Aug 2013 #24
! kiva Aug 2013 #25
Ordinarily I don't pipi_k Aug 2013 #27
Well, let's consider the context: breast feeding is best for the kid & for years KittyWampus Aug 2013 #14
For my daughter-in-law & my son it's also an economic issue SoCalDem Aug 2013 #19
Kudos on pipi_k Aug 2013 #28
and we used washcloths..not disposable wipes.. SoCalDem Aug 2013 #29
I frigging hate the mommy wars. Mothers need to quit fighting Butterbean Aug 2013 #15
Good post. Sheldon Cooper Aug 2013 #17
people should mind their own damn business TorchTheWitch Aug 2013 #18
My daughter was born in 1975, my son in 1978 Hekate Aug 2013 #21
It is a personal choice. I never felt an obligation or the desire to Autumn Aug 2013 #22
Your experience exactly mirrors mine. AngryOldDem Aug 2013 #23
My mom was always breastfeeding some kid. hunter Aug 2013 #26
Many women in this very thread have said it was painful and unpleasant REP Aug 2013 #30
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