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madmom

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23. Don't know the grounds for eviction other than her family
Mon Aug 12, 2013, 11:43 AM
Aug 2013

doesn't like him. He is the only one paying the bills, he is even the sole support for the 14 year old, who is not his child. The wife isn't upset about any of this, she wants to move to the apartments for low income people (which in this town is a crime ridden, drug infested, ghetto like area) He makes minimum wage and is supporting 6 people. She will not get a job, she says no one will hire her because of the schedule she must keep because of the kids (like there was never a women with problem before ) She says the older one is bi-polar but won't get her help, just lets her use it as an excuse for being a nasty person to her siblings.
It's tearing hubby and I apart knowing our grand daughters are going through this and we can't do anything about it. We can't even console properly as we are 400 miles away.

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I would say have him engage a lawyer first for advice. Katashi_itto Aug 2013 #1
Does that work for men? dkf Aug 2013 #2
What decade are you talking about? If he provides good documentation and has a good lawyer Katashi_itto Aug 2013 #3
So its more even now? Interesting. dkf Aug 2013 #7
I would not hazard a guess. But from personal experience garnered by watching aquaintances and what Katashi_itto Aug 2013 #10
Yep Go Vols Aug 2013 #29
OH, yes, things are much improved these days. But he MUST MUST MUST get a lawyer Nay Aug 2013 #19
correct answer steve2470 Aug 2013 #6
Agree with the advice to check with a lawyer. Shrike47 Aug 2013 #4
Yep, hence get the advice first before he does anything Katashi_itto Aug 2013 #5
So I'm wondering, since she is the one who is causing all the drama, madmom Aug 2013 #9
My legal advice: don't get legal advice from DU. Call a lawyer. NightWatcher Aug 2013 #8
^^This!^^ n/t LeftofObama Aug 2013 #11
+1 n/t X_Digger Aug 2013 #14
Are they divorced? westerebus Aug 2013 #12
No they are not divorced. madmom Aug 2013 #17
Well the place to start is getting a lawyer. westerebus Aug 2013 #21
The legal advice you get on DU is worth what you paid for it. The Velveteen Ocelot Aug 2013 #13
I don't think the OP was going to act on DU advice Boudica the Lyoness Aug 2013 #15
Tomorrow morning . . . Brigid Aug 2013 #16
Update, I've learned some new info... madmom Aug 2013 #18
Evicted under what grounds? Was he not on the original lease and the uncle is now balking? R B Garr Aug 2013 #20
Don't know the grounds for eviction other than her family madmom Aug 2013 #23
No legal paperwork Lee-Lee Aug 2013 #24
Paragraph 3 answer: a lot. Solution: get a good lawyer. flvegan Aug 2013 #22
GOOD LAWYERS nil desperandum Aug 2013 #25
the plaintiff is on minimum wage. Good luck getting a lawyer. librechik Aug 2013 #26
I don't see where he has a choice. It's that or risk being charged with kidnapping. n/t duffyduff Aug 2013 #30
Post removed Post removed Aug 2013 #27
an Amber alert....nt Jesus Malverde Aug 2013 #28
The more I read this, the more it seems like Lee-Lee Aug 2013 #31
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