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rocktivity

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41. Pearl-clutching is no longer about gender, sexual orientation, or even pearls
Fri Feb 24, 2012, 06:34 PM
Feb 2012

Last edited Mon Jun 27, 2022, 02:35 PM - Edit history (7)

It's about outrage that is either fabricated or misplaced, then blown out of proportion.



For example, Gingrich clutched his pearls over Obama's apology for U.S.-led troops "accidentally" burning Korans in a prison. But was he REALLY outraged, or just grabbing an opportunity to bash Obama and advance his own ambitions? Put another way, can you imagine Gingrich praising Obama if he HADN'T apologized? No, he very likely would have tried to use it as proof that Obama is an unfit commander-in-chief. Glenn Beck and Sarah Palin are fabricating pearl clutchers, too.




As for Hyacinth Bucket, she once told her husband that all she wants is to ensure that his "life flows in a placid stream." As long as she's controlling that stream, of course -- so much so that HER pearl clutching was turbo-charged. A cracked teacup, a newsboy scratching his ear, someone brushing against her walls or talking loudly in the street, her sister's mini-skirts, her brother-in-law's right to bare arms: the tiniest deviation of her world order had her grasping at her throat, then blindly counterattacking. We laughed at Hyacinth hardest when she found herself stranded in the debris of her laid-to-waste planning.

That's why I'm comfortable with the term "pearl clutching": it's not just for prudes or homophobes anymore.


rocktivity

phooey.. Repubs, (male & female), clutch their pearls ALL THE TIME. annabanana Feb 2012 #1
You could just as easily say the phrase is homophobic, given the origin. DCKit Feb 2012 #2
I don't find it offensive. Perhaps because it so perfectly decribes republican faux outrage. msanthrope Feb 2012 #3
Exactly. It describes the kind of douchebag... backscatter712 Feb 2012 #25
I am lightend up, Francis. ellisonz Feb 2012 #28
Let's just ban all humor from now on. lunatica Feb 2012 #4
+1 nt Javaman Feb 2012 #16
+2 nt zappaman Feb 2012 #37
but how could they argue if they didnt yell pearl clutcher... seabeyond Feb 2012 #5
Clutching pearls over the phrase "pearl-clutching"... backscatter712 Feb 2012 #6
I'm not clutching a damn thing. ellisonz Feb 2012 #29
I think the phrase wouldn't be so divisive on DU justiceischeap Feb 2012 #7
+1 n/t tammywammy Feb 2012 #8
+1 redqueen Feb 2012 #11
discussion does not need to rise, anywhere. it is used immediately. used in a manner to denigrade, seabeyond Feb 2012 #12
Totally agree. I've seen it used that way Raine Feb 2012 #35
+1000 Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #13
It's not. annabanana Feb 2012 #14
I know you asked for examples of women, but I'm gonna mix it up justiceischeap Feb 2012 #20
I agree, from now on I'll just say snooper2 Feb 2012 #18
That'd be preferable. At least it'd be honest. justiceischeap Feb 2012 #22
This, so this. (nt) redqueen Feb 2012 #27
+1 obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #21
One small point... ellisonz Feb 2012 #30
I think "pearl-clutcher", I think "uptight asshole" JNelson6563 Feb 2012 #9
Certainly misogynist in origin but it seems to have become a more neutral term with use. nt TBF Feb 2012 #10
Should we get rid of the term hysterical? MattBaggins Feb 2012 #15
Aye yi yi zappaman Feb 2012 #38
Yes. n/t ellisonz Feb 2012 #39
What's the next outrage? hootinholler Feb 2012 #17
Smelling salts. I mean, the only time I've ever seen them used were on hetero men who had msanthrope Feb 2012 #26
I have never thought of "pearl clutchers" as misogynist. Odin2005 Feb 2012 #19
Pearl-clutching is no longer about gender, sexual orientation, or even pearls rocktivity Feb 2012 #41
Much ado about nothing (n/t) FlaGatorJD Feb 2012 #23
Apparently it bothers some people.. dixiegrrrrl Feb 2012 #24
The phrase is older than that, and far more varied in its meanings. Iterate Feb 2012 #31
Given that... ellisonz Feb 2012 #32
I wouldn't use it on a bet. Iterate Feb 2012 #33
Agreed. ellisonz Feb 2012 #34
Ironically, the very first time I heard the expression was on the TV show "The First 48" rocktivity Feb 2012 #36
Kick. ellisonz Feb 2012 #40
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