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In reply to the discussion: What is with so many of you referring to Manning with male pronouns [View all]La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)248. and my asking people to respect her gender has nothing to do with whether
i endorse what she did.
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What is with so many of you referring to Manning with male pronouns [View all]
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
OP
when i learnt her preferred pronoun i adapted. you shouldn't mock someone's transition
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#22
You're using Manning as a prop to demonstrate your self-assumed moral superiority
BeyondGeography
Aug 2013
#39
Oh bother. Here we go again, tutoring people who are ignorant about gender disphoria:
Bernardo de La Paz
Aug 2013
#104
Heck, for many of us, this is the first we've heard that s/he requested the feminine
1monster
Aug 2013
#144
i clarified this through the thread, that i am referring to people who are deliberately calling her
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#184
Your post has no logic. We change our reference to a person's preferred sexual identity ...
Bernardo de La Paz
Aug 2013
#97
manning isn't my burning issue either. however transphobia is part of a bigger set
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#47
people make mistakes and forget. i am not saying there is malice there
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#196
i am specifically talking about people who are discussing her transition and calling her male
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#49
Actually my example works well because aesthetically Warren presents as White
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#4
Not every trans identified person takes hormones or goes through gender reassignment surgery. n/t
JackBeck
Aug 2013
#6
exactly. none of this is cheap, easily available or necessarily fits ones notion
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#29
Some are honestly not sure what to say, and some are willfully ignoring it.
Puzzledtraveller
Aug 2013
#5
my point is that why does one feel one has the right to question her choice of pronouns
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#9
People do have a right to say whatever they want and question whatever they want.
Puzzledtraveller
Aug 2013
#17
I took a peek at Free Republic... that's the typical response from those ignoramuses.
tarheelsunc
Aug 2013
#86
"... since she still has male anatomy ... Those are some of the worst offenders ..." ?
panzerfaust
Aug 2013
#308
yeah i am not talking about people who didnt know or have forgotten
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#186
got in the habit of calling Manning a He, takes a little bit to remember that Manning
GalaxyHunter
Aug 2013
#8
to be fair ALL the conversations that i am talking about are in the context of her transition
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#18
I think some members (that this is directed at) will start caring about that
Capt. Obvious
Aug 2013
#23
Yeah, that is weird, never expected to see such issue made of that here.
Puzzledtraveller
Aug 2013
#27
i would she consistently, but at the very least use it when referring to her transitioning
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#55
Agreed, but I would not attribute to malice what mere force of habit could explain.
geek tragedy
Aug 2013
#61
it's also possibly to just call her manning in the instances that would otherwise be confusing
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#235
To some extent, one can dodge the issue that way, but it isn't always the best answer.
Jim Lane
Aug 2013
#242
"How is that you feel ok to deny someone the right to use the pronoun they feel fits them the best?"
R. Daneel Olivaw
Aug 2013
#35
i think people who are talking about her transition and keep referring to her as male
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#38
We're possibly distracted by her being held as a political prisoner in Leavenworth...
Orsino
Aug 2013
#40
i am not the government so first amendment rights are not my problem.
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#52
would you feel the same if someone exercised their 1A right to use a racial slur?
frylock
Aug 2013
#75
Everyone has the right to make a fool/bigot of themselves. Doesn't mean they should. eom
tarheelsunc
Aug 2013
#89
Sheesh, that kind of 'business' has a proper definition - transphobia. Or bigotry. Or both.
idwiyo
Aug 2013
#253
"Can" =/= "should." And "freedom of speech" is very relative on most Internet message boards. n/t
nomorenomore08
Aug 2013
#282
Thank you, La Lioness Priyanka. Ignorance used to be an excuse. No longer.
backscatter712
Aug 2013
#46
It was appearing in the international news section of most papers here...
Violet_Crumble
Aug 2013
#285
i think though if this was speech i would believe the reflexive use more easily
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#64
why should it be in the lgbt forum? are they the ones referring to manning by male pronouns?
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#67
Logic fails you. Neither Limbaugh nor you have the right to declare Chelsea's sexual identity.
Bernardo de La Paz
Aug 2013
#76
It is also a matter of respecting her as a human being. How can that be so hard for
tblue37
Aug 2013
#176
The issue of rights and respect for transgendered people is an extremely important one.
totodeinhere
Aug 2013
#77
That's ridiculous. It has nothing to do with trauma. It has to do with habits.
OrwellwasRight
Aug 2013
#165
we dont have to struggle with this, she did. its not even close to the same thing
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#139
how are people who are deliberately using incorrect pronouns an issue of my lacking humility?
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#150
actually no one has mentioned spite and i think you might be right
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#100
i have said this a few times during this thread but the people who are reffering to her
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#107
do you normally ask to see people's dicks or vaginas to decide what gender to refer to them as?
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#120
So we won't miss you when your failure to follow rules about bigotry here gets you gone.
Starry Messenger
Aug 2013
#215
Why are some of you so damn stubborn about this? Why do you *care* so much?
nomorenomore08
Aug 2013
#283
it is not neutral. i think you know that. i think everyone knows that, even small children. nt
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#126
I might ? be guilty of still referring to her as him but I swear, it's done out of ....
BlueJazz
Aug 2013
#131
ok. this i buy. that people forget she transitioned. however i am specifically talking about people
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#155
By your logic nobody has ever "officially made the switch." That's ... convenient for you. (nt)
Posteritatis
Aug 2013
#185
i think what has me most bothered, is that the people who are referring to her as him
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#189
Huh? I thought Bradley Manning was a man? Did something change that I missed??
madinmaryland
Aug 2013
#188
yes, it did. which if you did not know honestly i was not chastising you.
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#190
I don't know much if anything about his (now her) personal life and would rather keep
madinmaryland
Aug 2013
#193
its not their personal life if they have asked to be called chelsea and to be referred to as female
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#197
Please understand that I do not believe it is a personal lifestyle choice. It is what it is and Pvt
madinmaryland
Aug 2013
#219
and i love your passive aggressive way of defending bigots. that's what du needs more of
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#208
And some people think they know more about gender issues than, y'know, an actual transgender person.
nomorenomore08
Aug 2013
#287
Considering I spend nearly a third of my time in the Sports Forum, the name Manning brings
madinmaryland
Aug 2013
#217
For some maybe, but this thread shows others are clearly behaving like bigots.
Marrah_G
Aug 2013
#221
Time, certainly. I have had several friends over the years who have changed their names.
enough
Aug 2013
#224
I get it that some people disagreed with her leaking of documents. And some considered
totodeinhere
Aug 2013
#243
and my asking people to respect her gender has nothing to do with whether
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#248
My point stands. No matter what your reasons for opposing her releasing of the documents, don't
totodeinhere
Aug 2013
#254
People who choose not to adapt deserve to be called homophobes or transphobes.
Gormy Cuss
Aug 2013
#290
I honestly believe we are enabling suppressing rights for the transgendered
Gormy Cuss
Aug 2013
#314
*I* accidentally used the pronoun he/him to refer to Manning and guess what...
CreekDog
Aug 2013
#320
I may owe you an apologist, can you give me an example of someone accidentally mixing the pronouns
CreekDog
Aug 2013
#327
well what's your excuse for not knowing? were you out of the country or something?
CreekDog
Aug 2013
#325
There's a lot of people who need to look up the definition of the word Phobia.
Mr.Bill
Aug 2013
#276
both transphobia and homophobia are misnomers when taken literally
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#301
no, it really doesn't. words often end up having slight differences from their root words
La Lioness Priyanka
Aug 2013
#310