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Savannahmann

(3,891 posts)
21. Nah.
Wed Sep 4, 2013, 03:17 PM
Sep 2013

First, the lawsuit is for whatever he did as an employee of the company where he was the manager of the fictional third shift janitors. Not for what he's already done, but what he'll do in the future.

Second, future candidates. We all make mistakes, we all exercise bad judgment from time to time. The trick is this, don't make the same mistake twice. If you screw up one thing, don't do it again. Just about everyone understands that mistakes happen, and just about everyone knows we screw up, we're human, and it goes with the territory.

Let's say (for the sake of argument only as I never have had) I've had an affair. Either my wife finds out, or I tell her. Either way we argue, she's hurt. We go to counseling, and we agree to communicate better and work towards a strong marriage. She's forgiven me for a period of weakness, a time of bad judgment, and believes I will show better judgment in the future. Then as the sessions of our counseling end, I have another affair, and she finds out. What is my excuse then? What is the old saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on you.

Many people could and did forgive his behavior once. Nobody will forgive anyone who makes the same mistake again after getting caught.

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just go away Psephos Sep 2013 #1
Hey.... Wiener is simply being true to form. What he did was about character seabeyond Sep 2013 #2
So he is supposed to stand still and be accosted on the street VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #4
He was accosted? Seriously? seabeyond Sep 2013 #13
If I get jabbed at...I consider myself "accosted" VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #18
Oh... Kay... seabeyond Sep 2013 #19
Scum bag... married to an Arab... you're disgusting" then starts jabbing his finger at him... phleshdef Sep 2013 #60
"accosted" "on the street" Renew Deal Sep 2013 #14
it was more then an expression of opinion VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #16
That's what happens when you run for office. Renew Deal Sep 2013 #17
Jabbed at is correct behavior towards candidates? VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #20
Because the president is somebody Renew Deal Sep 2013 #26
Even "has been"s have the right to respond to bigoted insults and overly aggressive behavior. phleshdef Sep 2013 #62
The guy went after his wife. I would be angry too. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #55
Yea a guy insults your wife's ethnicity, calls you a scumbag and starts jabbing his finger.... phleshdef Sep 2013 #61
Actually, yes he is... brooklynite Sep 2013 #22
He verbally went after his wife so I think Weiner had cause to be angry. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #54
Guy Shouting at Anthony Weiner was Upset He Married an Arab NOVA_Dem Sep 2013 #38
Shhhh... you're letting facts get in the way! Fawke Em Sep 2013 #39
I'm sure everyone is going to come back and apologize right? NOVA_Dem Sep 2013 #41
Maybe you should make your post an OP. Fawke Em Sep 2013 #42
she is not arab, she is south asian (indian and pakistani) JI7 Sep 2013 #51
I am not voting for him but the guy called him a scumbag and said your married to an Arab. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #53
Is anyone at the DNC explaining to Weiner that political life is over? Savannahmann Sep 2013 #3
this mayoral run was never about him winning anyway. It was to use his leftover money and help for KittyWampus Sep 2013 #7
or he could be the janitor instead of the manager nt msongs Sep 2013 #8
if there was a lawsuit to be had...it would have already happened VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #9
Nah. Savannahmann Sep 2013 #21
but that is not the actual case is it? VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #23
right cause no one that ever gets pregnant ever has a second abortion right? VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #24
We are the Democratic Underground Savannahmann Sep 2013 #27
So what? When did we become the Moral Majority? VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #29
We're talking electability here. HE made his privates public, and by now .... Hekate Sep 2013 #32
Only because OUR side is acting this way... VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #33
Bill Clinton never sent out photos of his indiscretions. As for your putative CEO/NLRB clash... Hekate Sep 2013 #35
So sending out pictures without even touching another human being.... VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #36
As a voter in the city of NY it is my right to judge his ability to be mayor. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #44
Yes they do...but not because he sends weenie shots....without pushback from me... VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #45
I judge him by his sins as well because he has no self control. Why would I vote for hrmjustin Sep 2013 #50
Pretty sure the primary next week will solve that Renew Deal Sep 2013 #12
I wish weiner would move to my town and run for Mayor... Common Sense Party Sep 2013 #5
A truly repellant man, who, at the end, doesn't have the class to just go away... nt Romulox Sep 2013 #6
because he sends dirty selfies? VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #10
It's only a symptom of an obvious larger problem with impulse control. He's not fit to lead. nt Romulox Sep 2013 #15
So anyone who has sent more than one naked selfie has an "obvious large problem with impulse control VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #30
did you say that about Bill Clinton too? VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #46
I wouldn't have believed he could make things worse for himself AtomicKitten Sep 2013 #11
So, Weiner still behaves like a jerk. In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #25
No someone ELSE acted like a jerk VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #47
Didn't he have some kind of security that could have stepped in. In_The_Wind Sep 2013 #48
why would he need that? Because he sent a few selfies? VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #49
Weiner being in the news everyday helps de Blasio, so I am for him getting in the news. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #28
gawd, what a creepy little nowhere man. n/t Whisp Sep 2013 #31
the guy was an orthodox Jew who said: VanillaRhapsody Sep 2013 #34
Wiener was the one ranting like a lunatic. Whisp Sep 2013 #37
You'd vote for a guy who called someone disgusting for being married to an Arab? Fawke Em Sep 2013 #40
the guy is an idiot, first Huma is not Arab but some people think all muslims or brown people JI7 Sep 2013 #52
You are correct; however, she's still "other." Fawke Em Sep 2013 #64
I am not voting for Weiner but the guy was at fault. He also apologiezed for insulting his wife. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #43
What the hell did he apologize for? Moses2SandyKoufax Sep 2013 #57
I thought Weiner was rather calm compared to what I would have said. hrmjustin Sep 2013 #58
I guess Weiner is an easy target around here. Moses2SandyKoufax Sep 2013 #63
His campaign posted this? Fla_Democrat Sep 2013 #56
This is one time that people should have Anthony Weiner's back. He was rightfully angry at this guy. phleshdef Sep 2013 #59
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