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MANative

(4,188 posts)
21. So very true!
Tue Feb 28, 2012, 02:29 PM
Feb 2012

I was lucky to be raised in a very accepting family, and my early life and work exposures brought me into close partnership with at least as many gay people as straight ones (working in theater and fashion, which both tend to be very accepting of people of all stripes)! When you choose to just know people as individuals, rather than as the label that society places on them, it's really, at least for me, impossible to not form close, life-long bonds. I'm as straight as an arrow, have been in a monogamous, heterosexual marriage for thirty years (as of April!) and I've drawn considerably more gay friends into my life than straight ones. The longest standing friendship with a person I knew to be gay began when we were both nine years old, and he's my very best bud, apart from my hubby, my brother and my sister. He was a huge influence in me learning that being gay was no different from being anything else, and I'm so grateful that at the young age of eleven, he was honest with me about who he was. What a grand, and long-lasting gift he shared!

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You absolutely right. Swamp Lover Feb 2012 #1
Agreed. People who don't support the LGBT Community.. YoungDemCA Feb 2012 #2
Agreed. Imagine if the President said "I believe marriage is for two people of the same race.... Nye Bevan Feb 2012 #7
K&R! SunsetDreams Feb 2012 #3
I'm a happily married straight man. MarianJack Feb 2012 #4
... William769 Feb 2012 #5
Thanks William769... MarianJack Feb 2012 #47
My husband and I stand for equality as well Carla in Sequim Feb 2012 #40
You are so right, Carla in Sequim! MarianJack Feb 2012 #49
The sad part to me really is.... timesup Feb 2012 #6
why? people with similar lives and interests always form community La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #10
My guess is that timesup is referring to the lack of support LGBT people get... YoungDemCA Feb 2012 #11
i suppose that i don't think we'll ever stop being a community even if we have equal rights La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #15
I think about that kind of stuff a lot. I guess I personally wish we had situations where... stevenleser Feb 2012 #31
people do that even now. not all my friends are queer. La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #36
Well, naturally. Deep13 Feb 2012 #8
Truth. one_voice Feb 2012 #9
Believe in CIVIL RIGHTS for ALL Americans HockeyMom Feb 2012 #12
+1,000,000 Zalatix Feb 2012 #14
... William769 Feb 2012 #24
Right on! a la izquierda Feb 2012 #13
k/r fishwax Feb 2012 #16
I am straight and I support the LGBT as do many of my family. jwirr Feb 2012 #17
... William769 Feb 2012 #56
Hetero Here hamsterjill Feb 2012 #18
Nope get the red out Feb 2012 #19
Kind of preaching to the choir, no? SmellyFeet Feb 2012 #20
You would think. William769 Feb 2012 #22
So very true! MANative Feb 2012 #21
Thanks for sharing that. William769 Feb 2012 #23
You gave him a wonderful gift too stopwastingmymoney Feb 2012 #50
Message deleted by the DU Administrators mihop at IHOP... Feb 2012 #25
? stevenleser Feb 2012 #32
Big k & R! nt zappaman Feb 2012 #26
Thank you. William769 Feb 2012 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author William769 Feb 2012 #27
Human? Well I guess that excludes Mitt. (nt) jeff47 Feb 2012 #29
Spot on, William! Lugnut Feb 2012 #30
Good to know. William769 Feb 2012 #51
Well I've always supported the gay community so I guess I'm human lunatica Feb 2012 #33
well duh and i mean that as a gentle friendly well duh dembotoz Feb 2012 #34
I agree. Saturday Feb 2012 #35
You'd think so if you tried to post in that forum. kickysnana Feb 2012 #37
What does that mean? ... TeeYiYi Feb 2012 #38
only if you are a bigot, if not, you should be fine La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #46
"only if you are a bigot" yewberry Feb 2012 #57
if you dont see the ridiculousness of this sentence, you shouldnt be allowed to post La Lioness Priyanka Feb 2012 #63
That disgusting thread championed calling LGBT parents 'breeders.' yewberry Mar 2012 #68
comparing faggot to breeder is beyond ridiculous and denigrates La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #69
You're ignoring the point AGAIN, Priyanka. yewberry Mar 2012 #70
no one calls lesbians breeders. lets be real about that to begin with La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #71
Really? yewberry Mar 2012 #72
Yes, really. Breeder is specific to straight people. People who pretend that it is just as powerful La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #73
You've contradicted yourself. yewberry Mar 2012 #74
LOL La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #75
Whatever, missy. yewberry Mar 2012 #77
i have never called lgbt parents breeders. why you continue to lie about this i cannot understand La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #79
Uh huh. Please stop accusing me of lying. yewberry Mar 2012 #82
YES you are. Look in the fucking original thread, even pnwmom admits that she La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #83
Post a link if I've lied. yewberry Mar 2012 #84
post a link where i said, LGBT parents should be called breeders. if i have not said it La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #85
"I will call those that breed breeders" yewberry Apr 2012 #89
those were specifically directed to straight people who are the ONLY people La Lioness Priyanka Apr 2012 #90
That link is from 2006. I was not on DU then. Bluenorthwest Mar 2012 #76
I agree with what you're saying. yewberry Mar 2012 #78
WHY are you lying about this? La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #80
I am NOT lying. yewberry Mar 2012 #81
yes you are a liar and you distort what happened. which makes you both manipulative and a liar. nt La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #86
Pfft.You can't find a lie because I don't lie. yewberry Mar 2012 #87
You can't in one spot prove that I called lGBT parents breeders. which is what you are accusing me La Lioness Priyanka Mar 2012 #88
Mochiron! AsahinaKimi Feb 2012 #39
But what about the roving bands of gays that roam the countryside DefenseLawyer Feb 2012 #41
Only if you are afraid of a intelligent conversation & a good fashion sense. William769 Feb 2012 #44
You don't have to be a woman to support adults making their own choices The Straight Story Feb 2012 #42
WOOT!!! Skittles Feb 2012 #43
K&R. great white snark Feb 2012 #45
well said! K&R Vehl Feb 2012 #48
None of us have rights if all of us don't have rights. Starry Messenger Feb 2012 #52
+1. William769 Feb 2012 #53
+1 nt TBF Feb 2012 #58
Gay rights are civil rights! Rhiannon12866 Feb 2012 #54
I enthusiastically agree! Iggo Feb 2012 #65
+1000000 csziggy Feb 2012 #66
When they came for the gays and lesbians, I didn't stand up because I wasn't gay. Kennah Feb 2012 #55
My daughter belonged to the Gay/Straight Alliance in high school. Kablooie Feb 2012 #59
I know we have some DUers who are active in PFLAG obamanut2012 Feb 2012 #60
+1. William769 Feb 2012 #64
Duh. Iggo Feb 2012 #61
I think everyone has a bit of gayness/straightness in them LynneSin Feb 2012 #62
K&R - nt Ohio Joe Feb 2012 #67
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