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longship

(40,416 posts)
32. We all hold strong opinions here.
Wed Sep 11, 2013, 11:40 PM
Sep 2013

Some people also hold grudges.

Some people like to get into a battle royale.

Some will stick to a position in spite of a mountain of evidence against it. (Sounds like the GOP.)

Some are one issue politicos. Nothing else matters but that one trigger point.

But rational discussion ignores all of these transient things.

I have no DUers on ignore. Discussion here should always be on the issues, always speak to the known facts, and always impersonal. Passion is always allowed. Name calling, never.

That's where many of us go off the rail here. It's easy when typing on a PC (or whatever). I've done it myself here. But I still have nobody on ignore because I value people's judgement even when I disagree with them. If a discussion begins to go south, I exit gracefully and politely.

It also takes a good person to admit fault.

R&K

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G.D., Please accept my apology ... [View all] 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 OP
Character Evergreen Emerald Sep 2013 #1
Apparently, not … 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #16
It has changed around here--a microcosim of the larger society Evergreen Emerald Sep 2013 #35
Apology accepted, LWolf Sep 2013 #2
Hamden McCarthy posting, typical and form fitted. Bluenorthwest Sep 2013 #3
Who is “Hamden McCarthy”? … 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #17
'All moist'? Bluenorthwest Sep 2013 #49
you should delete the OP. nashville_brook Sep 2013 #4
One can not promote that which one has deleted..... Bluenorthwest Sep 2013 #7
precisely. nashville_brook Sep 2013 #8
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it's a common forum courtesy. nashville_brook Sep 2013 #28
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Your decision to accept my apology … 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #21
Sorry, but this is just silly... Scootaloo Sep 2013 #31
Funny ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #33
I don't care if I'm right or not, the thing is, I'm fed up Scootaloo Sep 2013 #36
I don't do the name-calling thing; but ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #38
Oh yes, the right-wing Democrats Scootaloo Sep 2013 #40
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It's perfectly understandable Scootaloo Sep 2013 #42
LOL ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #45
Okay, maybe the 4th time ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #44
That response is a chracterization of the other poster, an attack not a reply. Bluenorthwest Sep 2013 #54
Thank you ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #56
This is an apology? Oilwellian Sep 2013 #9
Yes, it is an apology … 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #22
If you were sincere, you would have deleted the offensive OP. bvar22 Sep 2013 #10
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I am not responsible for … 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #25
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You post is still nonsense. Luminous Animal Sep 2013 #14
And your response is nonsense … 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #24
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KnR. It takes a big man to admit when he's wrong Hekate Sep 2013 #18
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We all hold strong opinions here. longship Sep 2013 #32
Apparently, not ... 1StrongBlackMan Sep 2013 #34
"apologies are a sign of weakness" WorseBeforeBetter Sep 2013 #43
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