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laundry_queen

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67. Know what pisses me off the most about this?
Wed Sep 18, 2013, 01:36 AM
Sep 2013

Not only did the sister lose her life, but now the boy will have serious issues for the rest of his life. I've met parents like this - they think he's old enough to handle a gun because they 'taught' him, they will also think that him shooting his sister is HIS fault, and they will probably never let him forget it. Neighbors of ours let their 7 year old drive a snowmobile around (in town, where it was against the law no less) when my kids were playing outside. I heard the sound but rushed outside too late, the 7 year old boy ran over my 8 year old daughter. Thankfully, there was about 2 feet of fresh, soft snow and my daughter just sank (sunk?) into it as the vehicle went over her legs, and she was fine. I gathered up my kids and took them inside and read them the riot act about being around kids driving ATVs or snowmobiles.

An hour later, the dad knocks on my door with his little boy, and starts yelling at his kid in front of me telling him to apologize and then instead of apologizing for letting his kid drive around, he said he was sorry that his kid 'was being a little asshole' and that his kid 'should've known better'. WTF? He's SEVEN. He shouldn't BE DRIVING. How fucking dumb are some people?

If something had happened to my daughter, I can guarantee that dad would've been blaming his kid for it. Parents like this piss me off to no end. Some people have NO idea what is developmentally appropriate for their kids. I consider it abuse. I have memories of my parents yelling at me or hitting me for things I would've had NO idea about at those ages. I even remember thinking, as I was being hit, "I don't know what I did!" Now that I have kids, I'm like WTF is WRONG with people like this?

I really feel for that little boy, he's going to be so messed up

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"Birds attacking his chickens." joshcryer Sep 2013 #1
Hawks will go after chickens. leftyladyfrommo Sep 2013 #16
All hawks and owls are federally protected under the Migratory Bird Treaty Act (16 USC, 703-711 Sunlei Sep 2013 #23
Good...because those are usually stiffer...nt joeybee12 Sep 2013 #28
That was my first thought also. nt Mojorabbit Sep 2013 #33
I was watching out the window one day when a GosHawk picked up a Rooster and took him away 1-Old-Man Sep 2013 #40
Makes perfect sense if you realize his "I'm always careful" claim is bullshit.... Spitfire of ATJ Sep 2013 #59
if ever parents should have their children removed from the home rurallib Sep 2013 #2
Are you kidding? ChairmanAgnostic Sep 2013 #3
maybe they can be the next Duggers and have a TV show rurallib Sep 2013 #7
And the NRA would be proud to sponsor it. ChairmanAgnostic Sep 2013 #12
Don't you mean BlueToTheBone Sep 2013 #17
I wouldn't put anything past the NRA these days. ChairmanAgnostic Sep 2013 #21
The apeshit crazy leadership couldn't exist BlueToTheBone Sep 2013 #24
I agree with you gopiscrap Sep 2013 #34
+1000 theHandpuppet Sep 2013 #71
The membership is just a cover! atreides1 Sep 2013 #35
Maybe so, but BlueToTheBone Sep 2013 #37
Sorry to say, I am afraid you're right. gopiscrap Sep 2013 #31
Gun safety should be taught in schools... TheCowsCameHome Sep 2013 #4
Actually, in a country where there are more guns than people, that's probably a good idea. 1-Old-Man Sep 2013 #41
that's it - people with guns in the home should have their children taken away leftyohiolib Sep 2013 #5
This is a good poster board for speaking on behalf of the sustainable farming movement... MrMickeysMom Sep 2013 #6
One of my LWolf Sep 2013 #8
I grew up around rifles 90-percent Sep 2013 #9
I blame violent video games,or our mental health system sufrommich Sep 2013 #10
Jebus wanted this to happen malaise Sep 2013 #11
The only thing that can stop a 6 year old with a gun IronLionZion Sep 2013 #13
i like your post. n/t. okieinpain Sep 2013 #25
In many states the father could be charged with attempted murder Nevernose Sep 2013 #14
As it should be. He is behaving in a way that constitutes murderous abuse. As we can see. Squinch Sep 2013 #51
Note: This occurred in Wisconsin - had to look that up. Divernan Sep 2013 #15
How can you defend the chicken coup if Ed Suspicious Sep 2013 #19
hawks are smart too, they get far away and 'laugh' at humans from their far vision perch Sunlei Sep 2013 #38
Thanks for your comment. matt819 Sep 2013 #18
of course it does and every other country would have one too okieinpain Sep 2013 #27
Would that father let his three-year-old drive the family tractor or car? JDPriestly Sep 2013 #20
Thanks gawd the guns were saved. Iggo Sep 2013 #22
you can only train a 6yo so much.... ileus Sep 2013 #26
That's just what this father said. Robb Sep 2013 #39
Jesus fucking Christ...first of all it should be illegal for anyone under 18 to even touch a gun gopiscrap Sep 2013 #29
I agree. darkangel218 Sep 2013 #32
Looooooong jail term marions ghost Sep 2013 #48
Obviously if the little girl had had a gun, too...nt joeybee12 Sep 2013 #30
This message was self-deleted by its author eissa Sep 2013 #36
DU rec. Good to see these posts not being locked...nt SidDithers Sep 2013 #42
i agree with you CreekDog Sep 2013 #68
Both misdemeanors..that is so good to know. We in the US would never want to charge a father Jefferson23 Sep 2013 #43
Or, simply stated, a father who treated his child with depraved, deadly, indifference. Squinch Sep 2013 #52
Yes, he certainly did and for it to be ignored by law is unconscionable. n/t Jefferson23 Sep 2013 #56
Yes. If he had been drunk driving with the child in the car and she was injured, he would be Squinch Sep 2013 #57
Parents are rarely held responsible kiva Sep 2013 #64
This is in a sense absurd. No 6-year-old can conceive of the power of a gun. 1-Old-Man Sep 2013 #44
I waited until they were 8 to teach my kids hack89 Sep 2013 #45
But he had to lie! ProudToBeBlueInRhody Sep 2013 #46
Insane in Murka marions ghost Sep 2013 #47
Kick LondonReign2 Sep 2013 #49
There is no excuse for unsecured firearms. ManiacJoe Sep 2013 #50
Dad needs some quality time behind bars! rdharma Sep 2013 #53
Dick Cheney Jr. Blue Owl Sep 2013 #54
this is a great example. mstinamotorcity2 Sep 2013 #55
No words needed. You said it all. lpbk2713 Sep 2013 #58
i like your pic mstinamotorcity2 Sep 2013 #63
"You'll shoot your eye out, kid!" KamaAina Sep 2013 #60
Kids mimicking good ole gun loving dad. Yep teach em young how to kill. Hoyt Sep 2013 #61
Take your kids to a picnic HockeyMom Sep 2013 #62
yep these are the people who are adamantly against same sex couples raising children Snake Plissken Sep 2013 #65
Imbecilic gunner trash...the usual gun nut idiot alcibiades_mystery Sep 2013 #66
Know what pisses me off the most about this? laundry_queen Sep 2013 #67
No. The girl had non-life threatening injuries. vanlassie Sep 2013 #69
That'll teach me to not read the whole article. nt laundry_queen Sep 2013 #73
Back in the 1960's my cousin shot and killed his little brother B Calm Sep 2013 #70
Oh, but I thought introducing children to guns would make them safer? Nine Sep 2013 #72
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