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jwirr

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12. I fit into that catagory most of my adult life until I started getting social security. My oldest
Thu Sep 26, 2013, 10:59 AM
Sep 2013

daughter is severely disabled - totally dependent on the care of another person for all life situations. She does not talk, walk and is in diapers. Has seizures almost daily. The alternative back then was for us was keeping her home or place her into an institution. My ex opted to leave us and become one of those productive workers. He has had a good life. I opted to take care of her for 45 years. We lived on welfare and what little I could make in later years cleaning houses etc. In the early years there were no jobs that would have allowed me to be at home when she needed me.

So I have lived as one of the poor all those years and because I did not "work" I get a minimum social security and SSI. Still poor and I will die poor but I would take care of her anyhow. The thing that most people hearing my story do not realize is that The cost of care for her while I cared for her was much less than it would have been in either an institution or a foster home. We never had more than $700 a month income and today she is in a foster home and they get $3000+ a month. My ex never paid more than $20 a month child support.

I fit in that catagory and I am proud of what I did. All those ignorant rethugs can stick it.

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Home or Family reasons treestar Sep 2013 #1
My guess is that the job doesn't pay enough to cover child care expenses. CTyankee Sep 2013 #2
Good point. treestar Sep 2013 #4
Exactly. Same goes for elder care. You can't pay someone $14.00 an hour to go and work for the same. adirondacker Sep 2013 #5
yup gopiscrap Sep 2013 #8
on affordable childcare in Europe: recently, in Germany, many moms have to stay home BelgianMadCow Sep 2013 #13
I was thinking about day care centers ("creches") in France when I was posting... CTyankee Sep 2013 #19
Childcare or not... canuckledragger Sep 2013 #15
Yet they're the first to jump down a woman's throat Warpy Sep 2013 #3
Which is exactly what right wingers think women should be doing. treestar Sep 2013 #6
I don't see why woman would vote republican gopiscrap Sep 2013 #9
I fit into that catagory most of my adult life until I started getting social security. My oldest jwirr Sep 2013 #12
They certainly can treestar Sep 2013 #17
Good job Hydra Sep 2013 #18
You will be okay and in the end you will not regret it. I know my worth even if the rethugs do not. jwirr Sep 2013 #21
I don't regret it Hydra Sep 2013 #22
So long as "cannot find work" is a nonzero number... lumberjack_jeff Sep 2013 #14
Why is there an image warning? nt sammytko Sep 2013 #7
sothat people who don't have fast connections don't open the thread. xchrom Sep 2013 #10
Look at that dip in retirees around the 2008 recession bomb. AtheistCrusader Sep 2013 #11
Many of those reasons overlap. fasttense Sep 2013 #16
+1000 Hydra Sep 2013 #20
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