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In reply to the discussion: Do you think tattoos are attractive?? [View all]cui bono
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I can not like someone's outfit and not judge them as a human being too. The poster above said people who get tattoos are not well-balanced and that he thinks they are not as worthy and deserve him to pass judgment on them in this way simply because they have "a" tattoo, never mind what that tattoo is. He then likened having a tattoo to wearing a t-shirt with a confederate flag on it among other things.
In another thread he said that he thinks that anyone with a tattoo will have a poor work ethic and not work as a team.
Do you really think me not liking a tattoo or feeling it's out of place on someone is the same as that? If my friend is thinking of buying something, be it clothing or something for the house, and I tell her it doesn't look right on her or in her house, it looks out of place, I'm not judging her, I'm giving my opinion.
Though judging occurs at a skin deep level, the judgment being made is about things that are much further in than that, about who they are as a person, their character. So no, absolute not, feeling something is out of place on someone is not judging that person, not in the least.
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