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Write a thank you note and bake him a cake. Sedona Oct 2013 #1
+1 Aerows Oct 2013 #3
+ another one. Might soften his pov too. nolabear Oct 2013 #6
Oh, I'd already bought him a dinner for two gift card... hlthe2b Oct 2013 #16
Yes! You must reward the nice guy! The cake is for the nice guy. DonRedwood Oct 2013 #22
Words to live by Don. Rebellious Republican Oct 2013 #36
Indeed. nt arely staircase Oct 2013 #45
Feed the Good Wolf! Whisp Oct 2013 #32
thanks for sharing that /nt demwing Oct 2013 #37
that's very nice.... Thanks for sharing, Whisp hlthe2b Oct 2013 #51
Nice! daleanime Oct 2013 #69
I starved them both, sold the pelts, and bought bourbon. n/t Gore1FL Oct 2013 #76
Great advice. Thanks for posting. snagglepuss Oct 2013 #81
Message auto-removed Name removed Oct 2013 #92
Bake him a cake, and then from now on when he spouts racist claptrap, kestrel91316 Oct 2013 #61
Yeah.. that's what I'm hoping... hlthe2b Oct 2013 #95
Yes, here's a good one: klook Oct 2013 #75
LOL hlthe2b Oct 2013 #96
a big cake iamthebandfanman Oct 2013 #78
Just say thank you. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #2
Ok. So wha'd he go out of his way and do for you? lonestarnot Oct 2013 #4
Karma - you have done the right thing for years. Now something good has come out of it. There is patricia92243 Oct 2013 #5
Thank him properly--a card and a bottle of something good--American-made bourbon msanthrope Oct 2013 #7
Tell him pscot Oct 2013 #8
I'm glad you got some needed assistance enlightenment Oct 2013 #9
Outstanding post. Ranchemp. Oct 2013 #10
Stop it. I said nothing of the kind, but was referring to HIS POV. Post 17, please hlthe2b Oct 2013 #31
I did read your post 17. Ranchemp. Oct 2013 #34
Whoah... I used the terms HE USES... I don't believe that veterans are "living off the teat" hlthe2b Oct 2013 #17
Don't worry...it was clear. DonRedwood Oct 2013 #28
Obvioiusly not for those Duers attacking me, but thanks, DonRedwood hlthe2b Oct 2013 #29
Well, in defense of those who responded enlightenment Oct 2013 #30
I edited the OP... See if that will not make it abundantly clear to you (as the unedited hlthe2b Oct 2013 #33
I saw that. enlightenment Oct 2013 #42
You are being damned rude. I was misunderstood by those jumping to attack a fellow DUer, rather hlthe2b Oct 2013 #43
I'm being rude? enlightenment Oct 2013 #65
ok, hlthe2b Oct 2013 #67
Thanks, enlightenment Oct 2013 #73
Ignore the trolls. You did nor said anything wrong. kestrel91316 Oct 2013 #71
Great OP. Thank you. IrishAyes Oct 2013 #39
Very well stated. Rebellious Republican Oct 2013 #23
For gawd's sakes, plese read post 17. this is HIS pov, not MINE hlthe2b Oct 2013 #26
Taking offence when none was intended has become predictable but tiresome. It's perfectly clear snagglepuss Oct 2013 #82
thanks, sp hlthe2b Oct 2013 #90
I think the OP covered this pretty well.. please read it again. mountain grammy Oct 2013 #52
I posted before the OP's edit enlightenment Oct 2013 #55
Ok, I see your point mountain grammy Oct 2013 #58
Thank you. nt enlightenment Oct 2013 #60
those are the neighbor's words noiretextatique Oct 2013 #97
An earned retirement after 20 years of military service is "living off the teat?' Decaffeinated Oct 2013 #11
Please read my post 17 and reconsider your total misconstruing what I was saying hlthe2b Oct 2013 #18
What do you mean he interceded? Baitball Blogger Oct 2013 #12
A retired Vet is living off the teat? Seriously? And are you his doctor that you know about Bluenorthwest Oct 2013 #13
please read my post 17... you too could stand to give a fellow DUer benefit of the doubt. hlthe2b Oct 2013 #19
be nice to him. there is some good in everyone except genuine sociopaths nt arely staircase Oct 2013 #14
Living off the teat?? fitman Oct 2013 #15
Post 17, please. For gawd's sakes hlthe2b Oct 2013 #20
Save yourself by editing the OP. Gormy Cuss Oct 2013 #27
I did some time ago... hlthe2b Oct 2013 #35
Anyone with a 3-rd grade level reading comprehension should have no trouble understanding IrishAyes Oct 2013 #44
Thank you, IrishAyes... Much appreciated hlthe2b Oct 2013 #47
Too many people like to jump on their high horse. And they can be very selective who they attack. IrishAyes Oct 2013 #63
The quotes around "disabled." People are sensitive b/c there have been attacks anneboleyn Oct 2013 #99
Quotes are quite appropriate here because while he himself admits receiving disability payments, he hlthe2b Oct 2013 #101
I agree about the shoot first, ask questions later mentality under DU3. Gormy Cuss Oct 2013 #83
You are getting angry at post #15... awoke_in_2003 Oct 2013 #80
Thank you sarge43 Oct 2013 #46
For the love of...!!! it is NOT me espousing this, but the neighbor... hlthe2b Oct 2013 #89
After many discussions about things just like this, we came to the conclusion that world wide wally Oct 2013 #21
People are complex. I'm sure there's a decent, kind-hearted guy in there, just as Marr Oct 2013 #24
People are complicated. Including a lot of Teabaggers. Jackpine Radical Oct 2013 #25
How about being gracious and saying thank you and getting over it? nt Dreamer Tatum Oct 2013 #38
Really... That's what you take from this? hlthe2b Oct 2013 #49
I think people already know that. Dreamer Tatum Oct 2013 #70
Are you ever NOT a complete ass?? kestrel91316 Oct 2013 #72
Rarely. nt Dreamer Tatum Oct 2013 #77
Here, is this a better place to post my reply? Rebellious Republican Oct 2013 #40
I need for you to actually take a breath and read. I am NOT denouncing his benefits, disability, hlthe2b Oct 2013 #41
All folks have good in them nadinbrzezinski Oct 2013 #48
Plenty of RWers I know are fine people in person. The problem kicks in... JHB Oct 2013 #50
Well said! GreenPartyVoter Oct 2013 #53
+1 n/t lumberjack_jeff Oct 2013 #56
That's why it pains me to hear people throw others out of their lives over politics. dkf Oct 2013 #54
Yes... this is really the point of posting this anecdote. hlthe2b Oct 2013 #57
yea i heard hilter (sry for the reference) loved puppies and satan can quote scripture doesthat leftyohiolib Oct 2013 #59
+1 n/t IL Lib Oct 2013 #94
Don't be "conflicted". Contrary1 Oct 2013 #62
Accept. RWs talk big about their "charity" and sometimes occasionally actually are charitable. Bernardo de La Paz Oct 2013 #64
you know what they say mzteris Oct 2013 #66
I read the edited post first so didn't understand several posts. mountain grammy Oct 2013 #68
My manager reminds me of him TxDemChem Oct 2013 #74
Many of the RW politicians and pundits we rail about here are, in person, some of the nicest stevenleser Oct 2013 #79
cognitive dissonance--- yes, that exactly... hlthe2b Oct 2013 #88
Question ideology, promote humanity. nt rrneck Oct 2013 #84
Write a thank you note - as far 840high Oct 2013 #85
Moral ambiguity -- not origianl sin -- is the true state of mankind Jack Rabbit Oct 2013 #86
DU is "black and white" for the most part Grateful for Hope Oct 2013 #87
Having been through a few natural disasters... SomethingFishy Oct 2013 #91
Hardly anyone is black or white, just shades of gray, and... TreasonousBastard Oct 2013 #93
Sorry you had to deal with that mess in the middle of the thread... ScreamingMeemie Oct 2013 #98
... hlthe2b Oct 2013 #100
Soemtimes people can be just plain wrong, but still good bhikkhu Oct 2013 #102
I try to find common ground with people irl, pitbullgirl1965 Oct 2013 #103
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