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johnlucas

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162. I understand it. It's the 'nobody talks bad about my family but me' kind of thing.

Fri Oct 18, 2013, 03:51 AM

Oct 2013

But that mentality doesn't solve the problem.
They're not done yet. This shutdown was just a taste.
They want Civil War II even though the results will be even worse for them than last time.

The Confederates are just not satisfied with the idea of the United States of America.
Their unity only comes from oppressing others.
They need that social hierarchical structure & they haven't come to terms with losing that in over 150 years.
It's that real.

Inidividuals in the region may have changed but the root of Southern society STILL operates from the same place.
They're only being kept in check by the national government.
Which is why you hear so many of them want to see "smaller government".
The rich want it for less regulation, the racists want it so that they roll out their vaunted hierarchy in full fashion unchallenged.

As long as Southerners remain defensive over this criticism, nothing will substantially change in this region.
Maybe when others rail against Southern racist mentalities, they may be talking about your father & your mother, your brothers & your sisters. And it's understandable that you want to protect your family who may still operate under those backwards views.

But the plain simple fact is your father, your mother, your brothers & sisters are WRONG.
And their views are taking the whole country down the WRONG path.
Might be hard to correct family. You might be shunned from the family. Maybe disowned even. It's complicated, I know.
But it must be done if this thing is ever gonna change.

Silent shame & disgust ain't enough. Even occasional chastisement ain't enough.
It's a numbers game & those racist got to learn that they're outnumbered EVEN IN THEIR OWN COMMUNITIES.
EVEN IN THEIR OWN BACKYARD.

Time for some honesty.
You know they always say the truth hurts.
We got some salve for you to treat those wounds.
John Lucas

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I'll tell you, Moses2SandyKoufax Oct 2013 #36

No renie408 Oct 2013 #44

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Oh bite me twice. nt nolabear Oct 2013 #35

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I'm born & raised in the South & I say Southerners need to stop whining johnlucas Oct 2013 #106

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I understand it. It's the 'nobody talks bad about my family but me' kind of thing. johnlucas Oct 2013 #162

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This is what I don't understand... Phentex Oct 2013 #128

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How would you make this happen? Phentex Oct 2013 #134

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That does not sound very specific. Phentex Oct 2013 #158

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"Idiot George Bush" malokvale77 Oct 2013 #159

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