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Showing Original Post only (View all)Dear DU Woman--stop throwing back shots of Rum and you won't get raped.... [View all]
So say's Ruth Marcus of the Washington Post:Yeah---she throws in the obligatory men should be punished meme--- but you knows---youse woman's throwing back multiple rum shots puts youse alls in that situation. Oh and I especially love her dig at feminists. (Regime?)
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Excuse me, but no ones suggesting that our daughters should be holed up in the library studying every night, forswearing any semblance of a social life. Yoffe (disclosure: shes a close friend) is saying that the responsible advice is the one that Ive been trying to impart for years to my now-teenage daughters: When you drink (because, lets be serious, theyre not waiting until 21), dont drink too much.
Consider the female Naval Academy midshipman who started with seven shots of coconut rum and woke up in an off-campus football house wondering what had happened. (Answer: Sexual encounters with three midshipmen, two of whom are being court-martialed.
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The second point is the regime of feminist political correctness that chills discussion.
A misplaced fear of blaming the victim has made it somehow unacceptable to warn inexperienced young women that when they get wasted, they are putting themselves in potential peril, Yoffe wrote. Young women are getting a distorted message that their right to match men drink for drink is a feminist issue. The real feminist message should be that when you lose the ability to be responsible for yourself, you drastically increase the chances that you will attract the kinds of people who . . . dont have your best interest at heart.
http://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/ruth-marcus-missing-the-point-on-binge-drinking/2013/10/24/56c8a70a-3ce0-11e3-a94f-b58017bfee6c_story.html?hpid=z2
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Dear DU Woman--stop throwing back shots of Rum and you won't get raped.... [View all]
trumad
Oct 2013
OP
If that was indeed the point, one wonders why it was addressed to females only...
LanternWaste
Oct 2013
#37
every dad should give his daughter similar advice, comfort her if she is a victim, and bury the perp
yurbud
Oct 2013
#14
No. It implies that if a woman gets drunk it greatly increases the possibility that she'll be raped
Zorra
Oct 2013
#18
I did.... and the difference between you and me is that I have a college-aged daughter
scheming daemons
Oct 2013
#40
Obviously, the major relevant difference between you and me in assessing this subject is that
Zorra
Oct 2013
#48
there should be two separate discussions: how to keep men from raping and how to keep women away
yurbud
Oct 2013
#13
Has anyone ever written an editorial advising store-owners not to tempt shoplifters?
WinkyDink
Oct 2013
#21
Is it OK to suggest that it is never a good idea for anyone to get so drunk that when they wake up,
Nye Bevan
Oct 2013
#54
I think "warning" is ok. But you can't then BLAME someone for not "listening to warnings".
DireStrike
Oct 2013
#57