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Sheldon Cooper

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51. Thanks for the clarification, I appreciate it.

Mon Oct 28, 2013, 02:15 PM

Oct 2013

I agree that choice involves many aspects regarding continuing or terminating a pregnancy, including coercion and shame. The forced abortions really aren't occurring much here in America though, and I honestly don't see that becoming common (outside of the occasional interference when a disabled woman is involved, as you mentioned).

I think that we (in America) are rapidly coming to the point where a woman in your predicament today would indeed be forced to carry that baby to term, never mind that it could leave her husband widowed and her other children motherless. There are scary forces at play here, and the right to full choice must never be legislated away.

I'm glad your story had a happy ending.

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My 17 yr old asked me to tell how I became pro-choice. (Long) [View all] Mother Of Four Oct 2013 OP

Thank you for your important story. Brickbat Oct 2013 #1

EXACTLY Heather MC Oct 2013 #17

You are good person and have a good heart! Thucydides Oct 2013 #2

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I am amazed at how my attitudes have changed over time. Curmudgeoness Oct 2013 #4

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You are so correct�Thank you for posting this...how can we know for another.. Tikki Oct 2013 #6

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Yes. I really dangerous pregnancy or birth will change a woman to pro-choice very quickly. JDPriestly Oct 2013 #37

I appreciate you sharing your story. One question, however. Sheldon Cooper Oct 2013 #38

It was a reverse thought process... Mother Of Four Oct 2013 #50

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It should be a choice, the person has to make the choice and no one else. Thinkingabout Oct 2013 #52

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I agree with you 100%. Pro-choice is exactly that. Republicans have no right to tell women liberal_at_heart Nov 2013 #59