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TBF

(36,048 posts)
98. Hi Michelle -
Sat Nov 2, 2013, 07:52 AM
Nov 2013

The thing is that he may be a "child", but that child has been set loose with a deadly weapon so don't be surprised if his activities are called into question. It is not as though he is out there armed with a Nerf gun - if he were your comments would be understandable. If you allow your "child" to make decisions that result in things being killed you may find he is questioned about his behavior. I think you need to expect that.

That aside, I grew up in a big family of hunters. I don't love the practice but would agree whole-heartedly that most of those kills are much more humane than anything happening in factory farms these days. I'm sure your family will eat the meat (as mine did) and that is to be commended.

As for the the cancer I am truly sorry to hear that part of the story. I have two young children myself and can only imagine what you are going through.

You were brave to come on here and deal with the snarky comments - in your place I might choose to ignore the internet for awhile. I do wish you and your family well -- peace, TBF

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What do the hunters do with the cougars they kill? OneGrassRoot Nov 2013 #1
Taco de gato grande. hobbit709 Nov 2013 #2
I remember stories about lion hunts in outdoor magazines but not recipes. HereSince1628 Nov 2013 #3
Nah, they just hang the heads and pelts over their fireplace. NuclearDem Nov 2013 #22
No. They drape the pelt over their penis bitchkitty Nov 2013 #53
ugh, so tired of the "small penis" jokes maxsolomon Nov 2013 #82
Except that it wasn't a joke. bitchkitty Nov 2013 #99
I'm not offended. Killing apex predators for sport offends me. maxsolomon Nov 2013 #106
just for you................ Ernesto Nov 2013 #103
question brucefamily6 Nov 2013 #109
It is not about the size so much as it is the man's perception of his masculinity Maraya1969 Nov 2013 #110
Your mistake is to assume Jenoch Nov 2013 #121
Thank You... brucefamily6 Nov 2013 #123
Several years ago there was a 17 year old boy Jenoch Nov 2013 #126
So killing cougars cures brain cancer? GeorgeGist Nov 2013 #4
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Because...? Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #6
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How do you DEFINE ethical? Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #8
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When did legal automatically equate with ethical? EOTE Nov 2013 #10
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So you think killing for fun is ethical. EOTE Nov 2013 #12
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Oh, well if a lot of people do it that makes it alright. NuclearDem Nov 2013 #19
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No it wouldn't be. NuclearDem Nov 2013 #30
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My point exactly. NuclearDem Nov 2013 #64
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You think supporting the wholesale slaughter of animals and vast destruction of the environment is? NuclearDem Nov 2013 #68
You do of course realize the difference between killing for necessity and killing for entertainment LanternWaste Nov 2013 #87
i agree - hunters for sport make me sick samsingh Nov 2013 #114
So again, you think that legal is equivalent to ethical. EOTE Nov 2013 #21
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OK, so you think that killing for fun is ethical. EOTE Nov 2013 #31
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You're changing the topic once again. You were talking about killing SOLELY for fun. EOTE Nov 2013 #40
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Not only do you not have a problem with it, you think it's ethical. EOTE Nov 2013 #45
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You do know that laws and morals are two different things, right? EOTE Nov 2013 #51
What about the black rhino hunt, or hunting other endangered animals elsewhere uppityperson Nov 2013 #52
If it's legal, then it's ethical. EOTE Nov 2013 #57
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Again, you're afraid to state your actual position. EOTE Nov 2013 #61
Yes. ...... I've head that idiotic piece of logic before. Just yesterday, in fact polly7 Nov 2013 #70
I asked about ethical (First Nebraska mountain lion permit goes to 15-year-old) Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #14
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But, I thought polly7 Nov 2013 #69
This message was self-deleted by its author polly7 Nov 2013 #24
he has every right to engage in his hunt much as we have every right to criticize it. LanternWaste Nov 2013 #86
I think it's unethical not to eat what you kill. alarimer Nov 2013 #88
What I've seen from Poddy's 20 posts... Scootaloo Nov 2013 #26
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You also said that killing for fun is ethical. EOTE Nov 2013 #33
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Killing EXCLUSIVELY for pleasure is what we're talking about here. EOTE Nov 2013 #38
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Uh huh. And at what point does the killing of an animal become unethical? EOTE Nov 2013 #49
You approve of child rapists? I didn't see that post. Link? uppityperson Nov 2013 #39
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Your grammar was unclear. uppityperson Nov 2013 #47
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"Legal" and "ethical" are unrelated words, you know. Scootaloo Nov 2013 #75
I define it as not harassing and bullying children... Demo_Chris Nov 2013 #80
This message was self-deleted by its author tenderfoot Nov 2013 #18
Agree with the sentiment of the letter. KY5 Nov 2013 #16
+1 nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #74
The original story that caused the letter didn't mention he is sick with link Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #81
Old enough to shoot yourself one of god's most magnificent creatures for fun, stranger81 Nov 2013 #95
Odd Way to Cheer Up Sick Kids otohara Nov 2013 #17
Is he still sick? maxsolomon Nov 2013 #83
Well if it came from a PETA person at least they could have included a pin-up snooper2 Nov 2013 #20
Ha! Good point! nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #76
While I am not a huge fan of hunting predators, Jenoch Nov 2013 #23
ironic that a person with a life-threatening disease wants to kill something else. legal or not spanone Nov 2013 #25
That was my first thougt too. Auntie Bush Nov 2013 #41
This message was self-deleted by its author bitchkitty Nov 2013 #54
We live in such an aggressive and bullying society. NCTraveler Nov 2013 #32
fuck people like the letter writer datasuspect Nov 2013 #34
Fuck that gutless letter writer. HappyMe Nov 2013 #43
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Fuck senseless killing. n/t bitchkitty Nov 2013 #55
And people who write harassing letters, delta17 Nov 2013 #73
Exactly. No real "good guys" here. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #77
I imagine the one will cause temporary emotional discomfort LanternWaste Nov 2013 #90
I don't hunt, and I am not a fan of trophy hunting. delta17 Nov 2013 #91
this thread illustrates some of the reasons there are less and less rural Democrats. Kali Nov 2013 #58
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Sure. Hunting can also be about providing food. It can also be about ecological issues. EOTE Nov 2013 #62
you missed the huge point Kali Nov 2013 #63
No, you're missing the point. I acknowledge that hunting CAN be about way more than killing. EOTE Nov 2013 #66
This. i am not an idiot, i fully understand what hunting provides La Lioness Priyanka Nov 2013 #108
I agree. HappyMe Nov 2013 #65
What is the "way more than just killing" that justifies hunting apex predators? maxsolomon Nov 2013 #84
The big picture can be hard to see, and it often encompasses things that make us uncomfortable. Kali Nov 2013 #92
Nebraska man pays $13,500 for permit to hunt a mountain lion (why so much if it is ethical?) Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #71
Where did it say Montezumasdaddy Nov 2013 #72
What does mountain lion taste like? I imagine it would have to be slow-cooked to be edible. nomorenomore08 Nov 2013 #78
Things like wolves and lions are not generally considered good eating Marrah_G Nov 2013 #79
False Drahthaardogs Nov 2013 #111
If it ate one of my pets maxsolomon Nov 2013 #85
Arkansas refusedd to acknowledge mountain lions present here until they caught one on video. moriah Nov 2013 #101
You're the person who just got booted, right? Nice new name... joeybee12 Nov 2013 #89
Hello- Holden's mom here brucefamily6 Nov 2013 #93
welcome to DU gopiscrap Nov 2013 #94
Hi Michelle - TBF Nov 2013 #98
Best wishes to Holden and to his family and friends. There are outspoken people uppityperson Nov 2013 #100
You put it out ther and there will be people who think what you are doing is wrong Marrah_G Nov 2013 #112
I agree with Marrah G. stranger81 Nov 2013 #116
your post is so completely wrong brucefamily6 Nov 2013 #117
I misread and thought you purchased the one for 13k Marrah_G Nov 2013 #120
I agree brucefamily6 Nov 2013 #122
Looks like Poddy Fries (poddy mouth) died quickly but ethically Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #96
It certainly looked that way. In_The_Wind Nov 2013 #97
May he awaken in a celestial field with bullets flying around him. n/t Judi Lynn Nov 2013 #115
I wish California would have mountain lion hunts indie9197 Nov 2013 #102
A little history... Kayucian Nov 2013 #104
Thanks for the post Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #105
FACTS brucefamily6 Nov 2013 #107
You mistake anecdotes for fact, using mere presence and possibility to justify killing for fun. Kayucian Nov 2013 #119
Thanks cor the info Niceguy1 Nov 2013 #127
ARE MOUNTAIN LIONS DANGEROUS? Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #128
This post is why I posted this later Friday Omaha Steve Nov 2013 #113
Nothing like the 'hunt of a lifetime' blackspade Nov 2013 #118
why is his cancer so important? brucefamily6 Nov 2013 #124
Nobody's forcing their view on anyone else here. stranger81 Nov 2013 #125
You missed my point entirely.... blackspade Nov 2013 #129
Why MFM008 Nov 2013 #130
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