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In reply to the discussion: Question: Why Do MEN Have ANY Say In A WOMAN'S Right To Choose ??? [View all]Heather MC
(8,084 posts)That prevents a sperm donor from disappearing whenever he wants then maybe their input can be considered. I know hundreds of Mothers left to raise a child on her own. If a woman abandons her children they are consider scum of the earth. If a man does it. It's just Tuesday. I know husbands who just abandon their families. Some even start families with other women. The woman 95% of the time is saddled with ALL of the responsibility.
And Childsupport is a joke. The collection agency for child support is more concerned with earning interest off the father's money, than they are in making sure the money gets to the child. I knew a father who started paying the mother directly for CS instead of using the system. Because the Collection Agencey was not getting the mother the full amount of $865.00. She was only getting $165 every two weeks.
So the father begain paying her directly. The Mother reported the payments made to the Child Support office. They told her Unless the money is paid through them. The payments don't count.
Stupid