Love or hate Thanksgiving?

[Laffy Kat]

67. I agree. Generally, we, the women, are left to cook everything while the guys just mill around.

It's a lot of work! I used to enjoy it but guess I've become bitter by now. I know there are exceptions, but from what I've noticed women still spend two or three days in the kitchen for a meal that's over in less than an hour. My husband spends perhaps an hour doing a half-ass job cleaning up the kitchen after we eat while making a huge production about how helpful he is. I really regret now that I can't thank my mother for all the work she did to make it special for us, year, after year, after year. Christmas too. My sister and I just took it for granted. Sorry for the catharsis.