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FreakinDJ

(17,644 posts)
Fri Nov 8, 2013, 07:33 PM Nov 2013

I hauled my kids out of a pizza parlor and some parents called the police [View all]

Happened some 20 yrs ago when I as a father was single parenting my 2 boys.

Very carefully before we entered the pizza parlor I explained to the boys then 5 and 8 yrs old. You will both be given $1 in quarters to play video games – that’s all we can afford. When it is gone we won’t cry for more quarters. There will be no running in the restaurant, there be no fighting over video games, there will be No Temper Tantrums of any kind. Both boys readily agreed and repeated the rules back to me so as to be sure they understood them.

I ordered and paid for the pizza and soda, was at the table waiting for them to bring it out when they began to run into trouble with the conditions.

I told my oldest its time to go. The younger 5 yr old fell to the floor getting ready to start his temper tantrum. I picked up the 5 yr old, placed him kicking and screaming over my shoulder and took the 8yr old by the hand and proceeded to exit the pizza parlor.

Several patrons followed me outside to write down the license plate number of my truck.

After we were home both boys proceeded to their beds, got undressed and got into bed.Once they were calm I took the time to talk to them to explain fully why we had to leave and it was their actions of breaking our agreement which forced the decision.

I also snuck over to the kitchen phone to ask the pizza parlor to “box up” the pizza they never had a chance to deliver to our table

Once they were calmed down and owned up to their own part – I reluctantly gave in and we returned to eat our pizza

ITS CALLED PARENTING FOLKS

and our Family Councilor applauded my actions

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Cool story, bro. Lex Nov 2013 #1
Your post was the subtitle to the voice in my mind demwing Nov 2013 #32
I didn't think people would be so wacked as to make shit up on the fly then some rockdude Jesus Malverde Nov 2013 #43
my niece had a tantrum -- not like her at all. DesertFlower Nov 2013 #2
Kids might not have thrown tantrums in public back then Art_from_Ark Nov 2013 #16
not so. at least not in my case DesertFlower Nov 2013 #21
let's just face it. most of today's kids are spoiled DesertFlower Nov 2013 #23
I wish more parents would do this AndyA Nov 2013 #3
"I see you are one of those people who have a problem with kids being kids." Link Speed Nov 2013 #7
I used to work in retail... AndyA Nov 2013 #8
"Perhaps you should keep a better eye on him." Ed Suspicious Nov 2013 #18
No no. I disagree. The ball was totally in the negligent mother's court. delrem Nov 2013 #20
The little boy was playing with a very dangerous item Yo_Mama Nov 2013 #25
I guess you had to be there, but I wasn't being confrontational in tone or demeanor AndyA Nov 2013 #40
As it should have been. Stores aren't playgrounds. winter is coming Nov 2013 #41
Several years ago I worked at a JC Penney. One day a Mom avebury Nov 2013 #33
"I wonder how he turned out." Lizzie Poppet Nov 2013 #42
"kids being kids" or kids being DesertFlower Nov 2013 #9
"Boys will be boys" Lordquinton Nov 2013 #19
i had a boy. so did several of my friends. DesertFlower Nov 2013 #22
Good! Lordquinton Nov 2013 #27
i became a single parent when my son was 5. DesertFlower Nov 2013 #28
Wow Lordquinton Nov 2013 #31
Parents should consider that shreiking, screaming kids could be painful to some people AndyA Nov 2013 #44
Good lord.... ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #10
... Link Speed Nov 2013 #11
A sign???? ProudToBeBlueInRhody Nov 2013 #13
One take on this pipi_k Nov 2013 #4
You might have a point. You can't assume people know you or don't make assumptions. nolabear Nov 2013 #17
Possibly - but the older boy is the spitten image of me thou FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #38
My sister used to pitch fits so badly that my mother Aerows Nov 2013 #5
I would say you handled it very well, and your kids are lucky to have quality parenting. DLnyc Nov 2013 #6
Both of them boys turned out very well FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #12
Nice DLnyc Nov 2013 #14
I would have done the same thing. I never, ever needed to hit my children. They understood the JDPriestly Nov 2013 #15
well said. nt DesertFlower Nov 2013 #24
A son emulating his father is an act of love FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #36
I can relate....former single dad of two here.... rppper Nov 2013 #26
Well done, Dad!! 2naSalit Nov 2013 #29
I see this every day at work... TheMightyFavog Nov 2013 #30
Yes, kids acted like that back in the 60's too dem in texas Nov 2013 #34
Honestly - people who do not raise their children properly do them a great disservice FreakinDJ Nov 2013 #35
K&R good job FreakinDJ! B Calm Nov 2013 #37
well done. I have had many beachbum bob Nov 2013 #39
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