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In reply to the discussion: A question about Racism (The term "Redneck") [View all]enlightenment
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Why not just settle for thinking that it really isn't nice to label people with derogatory names, regardless of their skin color; ethnicity; cultural heritage; or other . . .
You're Japanese American, so I'll ask you this - when I lived in Japan (I grew up there), many of my Japanese schoolmates called me gaijin. Not a horrible word, but it was often meant in an ugly way. Was it racist?
I don't think it was, but it often was not very nice and as I was quite young, it was sometimes hurtful to be referred to that way. On the other hand, when I was with my American friends, we would refer to ourselves as gaijin - without batting an eye.
You - and your friends - live with the choices you make. I'd say take the high road. It doesn't cost any more than the low road, after all.
Just my humble opinion.