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In reply to the discussion: ‘Rape porn’ possession to be punished by three years in jail, David Cameron to announce [View all]Xithras
(16,191 posts)Many women have fantasies that involve sexual activities that may be considered "immoral" to their personal sexual codes. Those fantasies could include sex with other women, sex with strangers, large penetrations, men of other races, multiple men, etc, etc. The common theme is that they involve sexual actions of a nature that the women herself has potential moral issues with, and that the sexual fantasies may cause guilt as a result.
A very, very basic example of this would be a happily married 40 year old woman having masturbatory sexual fantasies about the 20 year old guy next door with the chiseled abs. The fantasy may be a sexual turn on, but the fact that she's sexually excited about a man other than her husband may cause issues of guilt and shame within the woman's own head. To combat this, the "fling fantasy" gets folded into a "force fantasy", so she still gets to fantasize about having sex with a guy in a scenario where the sex "isn't her fault". This allows many women to engage in all sorts of depraved sexual fantasies without the guilt of thinking that she's "mentally cheating". It just goes to show that the human mind can find ways to justify anything, if it really wants to do it.