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Uben

(7,719 posts)
26. Good question
Mon Nov 18, 2013, 08:44 PM
Nov 2013

I have a neighbor in his late eighties. He and his wife, who passed a few years ago, were both career teachers. They scrimped and saved their entire lives and amassed about three million dollars. They have no kids, only a brother and his two kids, who are chomping at the bit to get that money. I suggested he leave a portion to go into scholarships because the schools are where the money came from. Dunno if he did it, but he seemed receptive to the idea. So, you might think along the lines of what you would like to see the money do after you are gone. I am an avid fisherman and enjoy putting together Kid Fish events for the local youngsters. We purchase fish and put them in small ponds for the kids to catch. We cook em burgers and hotdogs and everything is free. I am leaving some money to be used for that purpose in my will. I also have money earmarked for the local youth center because that's where I spent my summers as a kid. I see it as giving back to things that made my life better and me a better person. I bet there is something you would like to see carried on that you benefitted from while growing up.

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No one can answer your question but you. enlightenment Nov 2013 #1
I should have added this Courtesy Flush Nov 2013 #8
An excellent suggestion. ChazII Nov 2013 #15
Homeless shelters and feeding centers (aka "soup kitchens").... MADem Nov 2013 #2
Me MattBaggins Nov 2013 #3
I'm not an estates and trusts attorney musiclawyer Nov 2013 #4
Greenpeace and/or Sea Shepherd. roody Nov 2013 #5
Even nieces and nephews in their 30s could have unforeseen financial problems in the future... Tx4obama Nov 2013 #6
Yeah, but Courtesy Flush Nov 2013 #10
Shriners Hospitals' ChazII Nov 2013 #17
And perhaps his children learned from that? WinkyDink Nov 2013 #23
Who knows Courtesy Flush Nov 2013 #32
I think perhaps the 'pissing away inheritence' can sometimes be grief related Matariki Nov 2013 #7
there really is no answer to this if none of them 4 t 4 Nov 2013 #22
Did you intend this post in answer to mine? Matariki Nov 2013 #25
I have never known an animal shelter that wanted to be a killing operation. SDjack Nov 2013 #9
There's been some shady business there since new management took over Courtesy Flush Nov 2013 #11
You obviously have compassion for animals in desperate need of help. Perhaps this will work. SDjack Nov 2013 #28
If only it were that simple Courtesy Flush Nov 2013 #31
Some of them are being run for profit now. nt. Mariana Nov 2013 #37
Have you considered appointing an individual you respect and trust to give the money to causes based okaawhatever Nov 2013 #12
There is a politically active message board called Democratic Underground that I like, could use a dimbear Nov 2013 #13
I have written into my will..... llmart Nov 2013 #14
Friends Committee on National Legislation Ms. Toad Nov 2013 #16
Well I'm spending mine so no one has to decide or fight... Historic NY Nov 2013 #18
Two places: demwing Nov 2013 #19
You could set up an educational trust for the children pnwmom Nov 2013 #20
Research micro-loaning institutions. Coyotl Nov 2013 #21
Remote Area Medical Earth_First Nov 2013 #24
Good question Uben Nov 2013 #26
Doctors Without Borders, elleng Nov 2013 #27
DWB is an excellent recommendation. nt Courtesy Flush Nov 2013 #29
you can set up a trust for the family. tammywammy Nov 2013 #30
are there certain causes which are important to you ? how about scholarship money ? JI7 Nov 2013 #33
Children's Hospitals that don't charge the patients or families NightWatcher Nov 2013 #34
How about this one? Trailrider1951 Nov 2013 #35
Best Friends Animal Society roody Nov 2013 #36
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