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JoePhilly

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6. I tell them to gather others like themseves who want Polygamy to be legal
Fri Nov 22, 2013, 07:59 AM
Nov 2013

and start protesting.

They then tell me they don't want it to be legal.

I say, "Well, an organized group of people might be able to convince me, but I've yet to see one. So I'm not too worried about it."

At this point, they are not sure what to do. Most get really confused and give up.

Some press on.

And if they push forward, I start to ask them if maybe they really are pro-polgamy but are afraid to say it. I tell them that if so, and they want to talk about it, I won't judge them and that they don't need to hide behind the gays. "Its ok if you wife swap too."

I've only had men use the polygamy line of argument and so I'll usually ask them why they or any man for that matter, would want more than one wife ... after all "Its hard enough being married to ONE woman, how crazy would a guy need to be to want two or three wives. That's probably why its illegal in the first place!"

Its fun watching them try and wiggle all this back around to an abstract comparison of gay marriage and "traditional marriage."

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I'll go you one further...who gives a shit? renie408 Nov 2013 #1
+1 Joel thakkar Nov 2013 #3
One argument is that where polygamy exists it exists in patriarchal societies where the women el_bryanto Nov 2013 #10
It's Friday. renie408 Nov 2013 #13
I'm sorry you must not be used to people disagreeing with you el_bryanto Nov 2013 #17
Yep, you nailed it. I am completely unused to people disagreeing with me. renie408 Nov 2013 #21
At the time you posted that, it was 2:06 am on Saturday in Japan. ieoeja Nov 2013 #23
They can do it now seveneyes Nov 2013 #11
And marriage is for a man and a woman?? renie408 Nov 2013 #14
Two people of any gender seveneyes Nov 2013 #20
I think it was the 'snare and bass' reference. renie408 Nov 2013 #22
This message was self-deleted by its author Trillo Nov 2013 #2
Don't you suppose this could be projection of being rejected/abandoned HereSince1628 Nov 2013 #4
If there were an organized group working to make polygamy and polyamorous marriages legal, morningfog Nov 2013 #5
Aaannnddd...that's where you lose me... renie408 Nov 2013 #7
Lol. It's all good. Everyone has a line, I suppose. morningfog Nov 2013 #8
There are excellent evolutionary reasons for strongly discouraging incest. Nye Bevan Nov 2013 #12
I tell them to gather others like themseves who want Polygamy to be legal JoePhilly Nov 2013 #6
The number of children born into polygamy increases exponentially, I would think. Skidmore Nov 2013 #9
I don't really care about polygamy LittleBlue Nov 2013 #15
Basically marriage is about contracts and legal rights. Its hard enough with serial monogamy riderinthestorm Nov 2013 #16
To me, traditional marriage implies... LanternWaste Nov 2013 #18
Rape porn Capt. Obvious Nov 2013 #19
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