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In reply to the discussion: I've been gone a few days swamped at work and this is what I come back to? [View all]Nuclear Unicorn
(19,497 posts)to get away with being a sexist pig. I haven't even come close. That's claiming an argument I never made.
What I have been speaking about from word No. 1 is that the standard need to apply equally because sexism is never acceptable. The person/venue/audience size/number of offenses/political affiliation are immaterial to the fact that sexism is meant to demean a woman based on her gender.
If I was confronted with 2 cases of homophobia where 1 person had been excoriated and the other left undisturbed my complaint wouldn't be to allow both to go but I would want to know why both weren't made to understand the vileness of their actions.
"Yes, but our side likes him," isn't an excuse; that would make those who pretend to be on our side into unprincipled hypocrites.
"Yes, but only a few other people heard him say it," isn't an excuse. Homophobia is an attack on good people trying to demean who they are.
"Yes, but he only said it a few times," isn't an excuse; it's disgusting the first time.