My 911 Call, The "Attempted Murder" of My Daughter, & Oppression of the Family Death Penalty

[Land Shark]

79. Thank you so much. She needs a mom & her mom Made her more than I

I think my daughter is Exhibit A. Given how wonderful she is, inside and out, and how Karita was a full time mom for so many years, how is it possible to maintain such a negative view overall of Karita (without arguing that parenting is irrelevant)? Either iida's "resilience" is a product of her upbringing, giving her large stores or deposits in her "love bank" so to speak (which is moreso from her mom), or else the event was less traumatic than nearly everyone would imagine. Or some of both.

What people do to a very-involved mother like Karita they also do to her daughter. If Karita's a "defective" for this one act, than Iida is the daughter of a "defective." Actually, Iida knows better because she knows her Mom well, but suggesting (even though it would wash off her back) that her mom is some kind of monster is just not true, and especially not cool.

(But there are those tiny few, none of them doctors, who think I'm in denial of her monster-hood or something along those lines. Sigh. Basically, in the case of those folks, what they would call the victims (us) have to counsel and be the supporter of non-victims, or else just let the monster stuff slide... That kind of role reversal doesn't seem fair, or cool, or anything else. They only way the role reversal can be maintained or created is through a radical failure to really listen respectfully prior to coming to a conclusion or judgment)